Can that be a healthy relationship for all three involved. Its a couple with a girl friend?

Of course, as long as the husband has a boyfriend ?

Have you tried asking her? I wouldn't know. There all sort's of reasons why. Maybe she wants a relationship with two genders at once. And you don't seem to mind.

Ask her.

It's the only way you'll find out.

If my wife to be wanted a girlfriend, then she wouldn't be with me! As much as I love her, I don't want to share her with anyone. Male or female! That's why you take care of what's in front of you and treat her right in every way possible? That way she wouldn't have to look elsewhere for her kicks!

I have asked and I'm cool with it in fact she's on the hunt now I just wanted to see what the different oppinions would be. for discussion that's all
Thanx!

Just her licks..aaahaaahahahaaa

Lol

If you both met a girl and you both decided you wanted to bring her into the relationship to be a gf to the both of you I'd say go for it. But if she met a girl and fell for her while she was still with you I'd walk away. Who wants to be with someone who looks for another companion while they are already in a relationship?

I'd be cool with it too as long as she's bringin' some home to
Daddy now n then.I mean are you going to be tailin'her n nailin'her too.And what if you don't like her?And what if they plot against you?
A serious gf could be trouble. What if you like her to much? I would say the woman has to be bi or she would definitely be trying t OK cut you out of the picture.

If you're really cool with it, I doubt you would be curious or care what others think or feel so I'll just throw this out...In a perfect world, sexual experimentation is done BEFORE a couple decides to marry...If your wife's bi curiosity is something new, there may be some underlying reasons that have more to do with her sexual and emotional relationship with you than her curiosity about having sex with other women...For me, intimacy in marriage is kind of sacred...It's private and special, not something I would find easy to share with another person...Once you cross that line, there is no going back and you may be risking a necessary component to a healthy committed relationship ...Good luck babe...!

seems interesting , i could give that a try

I feel the same Leigh, that it is something very special, private and something to be cherished not shared with whomever may be invited in as "an addition". JMHO

Oh wise one, I love it when you speak.....

hahahahahahaha

Call me cynical (my middle name), but I always get the feeling that the "addition", never enjoys it as much, or is thrilled about the idea as much as the couple are. As the "addition" can end up feeling like a discarded tool, and very used. And a bit unimportant to the couple involved. I think the volunteer should really be careful who they enter this sort of thing with. Surely, it can't feel very nice, if you're the third wheel, without a lover, knowing that the pair you did it with, only really have eye's for EACH OTHER, and don't have any real interest but to use you for their specific purpose.

you asked for opinions and the question was Is it a healthy relationship (for all involved). my opinion is no it would not be a healthy situation.

It never last...
Sexually it's healthy but relationship wise, it gets tiring. Either one will decide to leave / adding more #s to the mix. Best of luck! :)

bring em home baby