Topic: Does a Man have to work harder to maintain a relationship in
 Maria195's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:13 AM

Men tend to be the ones that are told to "spice things up" or "surprise me" type requests by their partners. Is the man more responsible for "progressing" the relationship?


In my opinion I think is 50/50

dannysy81's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:15 AM
As the saying goes...it takes two to tango...:smile:

ridewytepony's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:20 AM
Edited by ridewytepony on Mon 02/17/14 06:22 AM


You couple of biches didn't like my joke?
Then take that & thistongue2 :wink: waving


I like all your posts, especially the dirty ones!laugh laugh laugh love

:laughing: Right back at ya
Have a great day..its show time for me.:wink: music..oh its not that
Kinka show. Its 'safety metting' time where we all cram in a little room
and I pretend that they are teaching me something but I really no its so
they can talk about production and they can look at all our PPE and see
if we are sober enough so they can send us to the bush.

kimdaisy's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:23 AM
Thanks! Leigh. It maybe work but it shouldn't feel like work. Kind of like if u love your job it doesn't feel like work.. And yes 50/50.. Equally share your lives together!!!! flowerforyou

kimdaisy's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:25 AM
I love to tango. Pretty hard to tango with a broom stick these day! Lol

no photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:29 AM

Thanks! Leigh. It maybe work but it shouldn't feel like work. Kind of like if u love your job it doesn't feel like work.. And yes 50/50.. Equally share your lives together!!!! flowerforyou


You're welcome!drinker ...My mom and dad shared 67 years together...My dad's passing did not interrupt her devotion, she is still committed to him....When I asked her how they survived the test of time she said true love and hard work....I believe her....:heart:

no photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:30 AM

As the saying goes...it takes two to tango...:smile:

I agree. I feel those who constantly complain, and are on the defensive regarding the other gender in topics like these are actually quite young with very little relationship experience.

Just because one woman or man you met did not seem to hold up their end doesn't mean it will be like that with the next. maybe they weren't really that interested in the relationship, maybe one just didn't notice what the other was doing for them.

To really experience a lack of appreciation in the context of a relationship, takes a long term monogamous relationship though...in order to understand how it affects a relationship.

It's totally different than when the man/woman you've dated for a month he/she forgot to call last Saturday....but I will say those who have been unappreciated will recognize the small signs like this right away and call it quits ASAP

kimdaisy's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:51 AM
If any of ya out there wear your panties to tight i'm referring to u......Pls, pls loosen them or take them off.They don't look good on you. To many men try to think like us women & try to wear our panties... Good luck with that! Lol......

kimdaisy's photo
Mon 02/17/14 06:58 AM
Thanks M.Moe... Sorry if the last one was off topic.... Wherever you go! Whatever the weather! Always bring your own Sunshine!!!!

mightymoe's photo
Mon 02/17/14 07:00 AM

If any of ya out there wear your panties to tight i'm referring to u......Pls, pls loosen them or take them off.They don't look good on you. To many men try to think like us women & try to wear our panties... Good luck with that! Lol......


commando... better for fresh air

mightymoe's photo
Mon 02/17/14 07:02 AM

Thanks M.Moe... Sorry if the last one was off topic.... Wherever you go! Whatever the weather! Always bring your own Sunshine!!!!


flowerforyou the only judges for off topics are the mods... it's always sunny in houston

kimdaisy's photo
Mon 02/17/14 07:25 AM
Commando is good! Keeps you with a open mind this way.. As the saying goes. You can't sell if u don't advertise!!! Wearing nothing would put it out there that's for sure.Good Job Lmao.....

no photo
Mon 02/17/14 07:37 AM

If any of ya out there wear your panties to tight i'm referring to u......Pls, pls loosen them or take them off.They don't look good on you. To many men try to think like us women & try to wear our panties... Good luck with that! Lol......


There is a poem in there somewhere.

no photo
Mon 02/17/14 07:41 AM


If any of ya out there wear your panties to tight i'm referring to u......Pls, pls loosen them or take them off.They don't look good on you. To many men try to think like us women & try to wear our panties... Good luck with that! Lol......


There is a poem in there somewhere.


Or a sad country song!laugh laugh

kimdaisy's photo
Mon 02/17/14 07:51 AM
Not a sad country song! :-). A funny one. You can wear my boots try them on for size but pls don't wear my panties..... Lmao.. Enjoy the wonderful day.. Ps. Don't forget to bring your own sunshine.....

lionsbrew's photo
Mon 02/17/14 07:56 AM
No one wants their significant other to get bored with them. So both should be conscious of each other. It really doesn't matter so much of who's role is which. The important thing will always be working together to get it all done. You know the whole "give and take" "You scratch my back I'll scratch yours".

kimdaisy's photo
Mon 02/17/14 02:31 PM
Love is what u want it to be!!!!!!

no1phD's photo
Mon 02/17/14 02:41 PM
love is what you want to shape it into.. it comes from a place in your heart.. that's why we have love ache.. heart ache... heartbroken.. its a muscle it needs to be exercised.. if you don't it just turns into.. the stuff. none of us wants.. so is love work.. yes and no.. it takes a conscious effort.. to keep working that muscle.. to say I love you when you don't really feel it.. to say goodbye and hello... a kiss this morning.. the flowers on your anniversary the birthday... stop working your muscles... it stops producing love...no1phD

HoneyFly's photo
Mon 02/17/14 02:54 PM

Not a sad country song! :-). A funny one. You can wear my boots try them on for size but pls don't wear my panties..... Lmao.. Enjoy the wonderful day.. Ps. Don't forget to bring your own sunshine.....

;) Good spirit is always a turn on!

 Maria195's photo
Mon 02/17/14 03:14 PM

women are just selfish pigs lol


WOW!!! Hey don't forget you were born from a woman, that means your Mother is a pig? I will suggest to re read before you post. I'm a woman and I don't consider myself a "selfish pig" as you said shocked