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Topic: is it because am black that make these preety girls of this
PacificStar48's photo
Sat 02/15/14 07:00 PM
It is your personality not your race or country. Your approach is rude, demanding, and intrusive. Even when politely told to move on it requires blocking you to stop chronic IM's and emails trying to get you to take no for an answer as a suitor, friend, or someone who will find you an out of country woman of any age to help you.

mightymoe's photo
Sat 02/15/14 09:10 PM

It is your personality not your race or country. Your approach is rude, demanding, and intrusive. Even when politely told to move on it requires blocking you to stop chronic IM's and emails trying to get you to take no for an answer as a suitor, friend, or someone who will find you an out of country woman of any age to help you.


good advice...

Einstein once said “Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

seems to fit here

mariaka's photo
Mon 03/10/14 04:35 AM

Dude, start with someone close to where you live. You cant expect to message women from another country and them to be all up on you. Thats ridiculous!

Thank you.you can say that again

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Mon 03/10/14 12:35 PM

Its probably how your approaching them. Do you use nudges? Do you say things like I want to marry you or ask to chat off mingle in first messages? In other words are you too forward or eager? The best thing you can do is really read a woman's profile. Then message her saying hello and maybe ask her some things you learned from her profile. Sometimes guys message me and come across to eager and it makes me uncomfortable and suspisious. Just take your time stay here on mingle and chat til she is comfortable. Join the forums more get to know people here. Best wishes.
100 percent correct

mightymoe's photo
Mon 03/10/14 12:43 PM

plenty of white men are getting turned down to,

so Id see no reason to assume its about race and not just a natural result of some incompatibility

Hint: I wouldn't bring up 'black' here unless to discuss whats 'wrong' with black folks,,,

its considered racist and separatist,,,,just a heads up,,,


sure is... poor me, i'm black... give me something...now we should feel sorry for him because he says he's black and can't get a date?
grumble

no1phD's photo
Mon 03/10/14 12:46 PM
..hmm. have you checked your breath lately.. just a thought..lol

willing2's photo
Tue 03/11/14 04:02 AM

plenty of white men are getting turned down to,

so Id see no reason to assume its about race and not just a natural result of some incompatibility

Hint: I wouldn't bring up 'black' here unless to discuss whats 'wrong' with black folks,,,

its considered racist and separatist,,,,just a heads up,,,

Keep pluggin', Dude, Soon as you quit being desperate, she'll come along.:thumbsup:


Nigeria isn't full of gibsmedats and entitlement whiners.slaphead

But, referring to career welfare hos in the US, as such, may seem to some as racist. Only problem wit dat is, welfare hos come in all colors.rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yj-tQ09IJ5w

OralManOnly's photo
Sat 03/15/14 08:21 AM

well said!

i have been here searching for love but i did not meet one.is it my country or my complexion made them avoid me.



Not everyone is looking for a long distance relationship, so if you are contacting members outside your own country, you are probably less likely to find someone. You may do better if you contact more ladies living in your own country, but it does take time to find some one, good luck in your search.

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Sat 03/15/14 08:46 AM

i have been here searching for love but i did not meet one.is it my country or my complexion made them avoid me.


It is NOT your complexion, it is NOT your country, it IS because you whine too much...ohwell

willing2's photo
Sat 03/15/14 02:34 PM


i have been here searching for love but i did not meet one.is it my country or my complexion made them avoid me.


It is NOT your complexion, it is NOT your country, it IS because you whine too much...ohwell

We need a study to see if whining is a genetic trait.:wink:

Learns2Rock's photo
Tue 04/01/14 05:24 AM

i have been here searching for love but i did not meet one.is it my country or my complexion made them avoid me.

Guy I don't think so. Keep searching I believe u will find that person. Let me use myself as e.g; when I came hear I find it hard chatting with people,"white and blacks";for me I don't know if its bcoz of how I approached them,or the way I looked in my profile picture etc. Until I met some ladies white,Africans,Asians.
Their is one particular Asian lady I met here at mingle. To be sincere with you,I'm really happy knowing her. It went to the extent of her sending pictures to me.
So in conclusion, even though out of ten here 1 may be a racist here at mingle. But let them not distract you from enjoying yourself,keep searching,I believe you will find. Nothing is impossible.
GOOD LUCK!

metalwing's photo
Tue 04/01/14 05:32 AM
I am constantly beating the women off with a stick!

ishola87's photo
Sun 04/06/14 01:04 PM
Thanks Madam for advice me

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Sun 04/06/14 01:15 PM


i have been here searching for love but i did not meet one.is it my country or my complexion made them avoid me.

Guy I don't think so. Keep searching I believe u will find that person. Let me use myself as e.g; when I came hear I find it hard chatting with people,"white and blacks";for me I don't know if its bcoz of how I approached them,or the way I looked in my profile picture etc. Until I met some ladies white,Africans,Asians.
Their is one particular Asian lady I met here at mingle. To be sincere with you,I'm really happy knowing her. It went to the extent of her sending pictures to me.
So in conclusion, even though out of ten here 1 may be a racist here at mingle. But let them not distract you from enjoying yourself,keep searching,I believe you will find. Nothing is impossible.
GOOD LUCK!

Hear hear
well said

2469nascar's photo
Sun 04/06/14 01:36 PM
Hell try bein a ugly white guy.thin tell me about not getting a date.And i live in the US. BOO HOO

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