me and this girl have been going together for some time now and she's a virgin but im not. so the other night she told me she wanted me to take it from her, but to myself i dont feel rite cause she's giving me something but im not giving her anything. wat should i do and say?

just explain the topic to her and why you feel uncomfortable doing it whats the worst that can happen you wont get any?

my good friend being not a virgin is nothing wrong.
what i read shows me that u love, care, and respect a lot this girl.
That gives u a tremendous value as a man, that few have.
If she is willing to give u her virginity. It's because she loves u a lot.
nevertheless, i would suggest not to rush it. When u r really ready to be with her u will do it. And it will be like heaven
Just be gentle with her, love her so much while u r with her in the first time.
I have not read ur profile, but for what u say u seem latino.
i understand ur concern.

TLW

tell her that the time is not right.
wait until the m word happens.

m word??????

i think he means marriage uch

ups
my bad

Magic

What do you mean " dont feel rite cause she's giving me something but im not giving her anything"

Just talk to her honestly about how you feel...
If you want to wait- than you should...

I get what you're saying, Magic.
I'm 38, and I have moments, as I'm getting to know someone, when I wish I had waited to become sexually active.
I have a child that is my world, and so there are NO regrets...
but what a great gift to be able to share with someone you love. those first encounters-both of you on the 'same page' so to speak...I get it.
I gotta give props, my friend...you seem to have great respect for her, to even think about that. that's rare, and that is honorable. I pray she knows how special you are.

Magic just wait till you feel the time is right, especially if she is a virgin and talk with her when you are doing it, make her less scared of whats happening. Good luck hon.

not many men are like you. i give you major props for being careful with her and not rushing things. but just sit her down and talk to her and open your heart up and just tell her how your feeling she will understand.

that is sweet of you to consider her

communicate how you feel--she obviously loves you for the person ypu are to want to give that to you, she will love you for being honest and up front with her.

So what is U question? What should U do?

As long as you DECIDE to spend the rest of your life with her, go ahead.

She is proud that she is giving this opportunity to you. In other words, she is proud that it is you who are getting to do that.

Most men do not have their virginity by a certain age.

just do it....Really its not a hard decision

Please take my virginity?
And your not because why?
Dude!!!!!
You need to give me her address!!!

u really care for this woman. and i think she knows that. and she must really care for you in return. u are showing so much respect. not many men like you left in this world.

i understand where u are coming from. if plan to spend the rest of your life with her. ask m word as u put it and wait.

tell her how you feel . tell her that u want to wait if that what u want to do. tell her its better to wait. if u dont plan to be with her that long.

hope all this makes sence to you

What do u mean "I'm not giving her anything back"....hell your giving her some good sex...what better gift than that???LOL..Sheesss...if she wants to give it to ya...then go for it buddy!!! Have fun!!

lol.... thanks to everyone for helping out my lil problem... some of them were very touching and some were where funny.. THANKS AGAIN

Don't do it man!