Topic: E-mail do's & don'ts I've learned
Nickk's photo
Mon 09/10/07 05:08 AM
You know how you guys get after several E-mails, you start to get friendly,casual and comfortable writing the GIRL/Young Lady/Woman and thats the way it's supposed be when things go right. The "do's" are easy, just relax and let it flow, any guy can manage that, It's the don'ts you really have to watch out for if you intend to keep writing the Female that has piqued your interest in one way or another. I'll just mention a couple I've learned the hard way, by that I mean you don't have to send as many E-mails out anymore. Let's see the first would be the emotional dilemma posed by the Female and it could be related to anything at all in her life. A natural reaction for most Men is to defend and protect those he cares for. But don't dare get "to" emotional when you try and provide a solution to said Female. If a solution is offered by you, present it calmly and don't push to far into said Females private live even if the "don't worry Honey I'm here" feeling is screaming at you, like you would if you were married, your not. Another don't would be to correct the female about any personal statement she might make. Feel free to correct yourself anytime, not her, not if she's wrong, off the mark, or whatever. It might be wrong to you, but could be completely correct in her personal life. Remember not to push to far with anything, this is a person your trying to impress, your not talking to your Ex wife. The final one I'll mention is "guy sense of humor" work hard to keep it in check in all aspects. What's funny to you might not be funny to someone you hardly know. Remember she isn't your best friend, yet. When you first start out with someone special their are certain well mannered protocols to follow and you might have not have used them lately. That doesn't mean you can't remember them. Certain lines should not be crossed before their time. I know I learned the

anitame's photo
Mon 09/10/07 05:36 AM
Its ok,,really,,
That's why I don't really like profiles,,,
I got the same problem,:-)))
Sence of humor is great,,,lol
Its just,,why would you (not you,,lol)put things in your profile like : I have a great sence of humor,lol,,if you don't have?????

Correct me if I'm wrong,,hm I don't think that's a problem,if I'm wrong ,,I'm wrong:-)),how can i be with somebody,if all the respond,i,m getting is your right honey:-))be yourself,,(that's another great profile line....lol)
Oh one more ,,,aren't we all open minded here:-)))
Solution for the girls emotional problems????
Come on,,,,lol,,,,lol,,,THERE IS NONE,,,lol
You should know that,,,really,,,
Ilm sorry ,you had such a bad luck,,,


Puffins1958's photo
Mon 09/10/07 05:39 AM
Nick...

It's interesting how you "see" things here

oldsage's photo
Mon 09/10/07 05:41 AM
Different people, different views on life.

anitame's photo
Mon 09/10/07 05:47 AM
That's the fun part,,,,,,lol
Put all those different views here,,,,lol

no photo
Mon 09/10/07 06:27 AM
OMG.. there's protcol?? noway


laughlaugh and here I've been just BLURTin to EVERYone laugh

personnaly though.. I prefer a person to BE THEMSELVES in email.. right off.. don't have to get into talkin rank.. no.. just be who you are in LIFE.. I type & joke like I TALK in real life.. I AM WHO I am.. why shud an internet site change that? if you really WANT to get to know the REAL person.. then why SHOULDN'T you come outta the gate running? and if people can't take you HERE? then they couldn't handle you in REAL life.. could they? ohwell

anitame's photo
Mon 09/10/07 06:36 AM
Zero_effected,,,,,lol
I like that:-))))

Greyhound's photo
Mon 09/10/07 06:40 AM
I'm crazier in real life that I am on here.
drinker noway smokin

Myrrdin's photo
Mon 09/10/07 06:42 AM
Thats a great point. Be true to yourself whether your shooting pool and drinking in the local pub or online chatting with someone across the country, that's the only way to have a real relationship of any kind.

geo54's photo
Mon 09/10/07 06:46 AM
popeye said it best "i am what i am"
have a good day

no photo
Mon 09/10/07 07:04 AM
thanks Myrrdin.. just tellin it like I SEE it :wink:happy

OMG grey.. is that POSSIBLE?? noway
laughlaughlaugh

thanks anitame.. just call me POPEYE bigsmile drinker

wooohooo laugh


anitame's photo
Mon 09/10/07 07:05 AM
That's a cure cat,,;-)))

anitame's photo
Mon 09/10/07 07:18 AM
Ok,,
I'll do that,,,,,
Lol

Nickk's photo
Mon 09/10/07 07:20 AM
I just knew I should of dug that old flak jacket out of the basement for this trip. And I thought my parents were full of it when I was a kid and they told me the junk about "walking to the tune of a different drummer". Thanks folks, you proved them right! LOL Your Good Friend, Nick

anitame's photo
Mon 09/10/07 07:30 AM
Nick You really are a nice guy:-)))),,,,
I can see your sence of humor too ,,lol

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 09/10/07 08:31 AM
Proticals??? laugh

Heck just say hi! :wink: