hello everyone, please why does white women dont trust black people? evevn if they are bad, but not all are bad people, we still have honest,caring,adorable,understanding,loving, and as well romantic men. so i please you all should know that.

Just because you have found some white women who don't trust black men. Doesn't mean that all white women are that way. Yesterday I was upstate and say a white woman walking with a black man. They could have been married for all I know.

There are plenty of white women who date black men. You just haven't found them yet and chances are asking questions like that isn't going to help you any. hahaha

Just be honest. Is there any men who REALLY want friendship and get to know a woman not just a roll in the hay. REMEMBER the room is be honest!!!!!
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do you think the best way is to flood the forums with the same post ?

Posting the same thing iv different places is probably a good way to piss off a bunch of people and get nothing but negative replies.

If you wanted to chat with me I would be fine with getting to know you without the expectation of us having sex. I have no expectations unless someone make it very obvious before hand that something else if going to happen. Even then I probably wouldn't care if it did or didn't happen. hahaha

Izzy i def didnt mean to make you think i was zeroing in on you. I dont know you to do that lol. I was talking in a general sense because of some of the mail i got. I like chatting and having fun. I was just being honest because it deemed it was different two years ago. .lol

Speak for yourself; I'm a black American and plenty of white people trust me, so maybe it's something you're doing or how you're presenting yourself, or other possible factors? Most of the time, how we're treated has a lot to due with how we act, not everything is about race.

I didn't take what you said personally. I just figured since you asked that question. I would give an honest answer. Basically saying that yes some of us don't expect sex and are willing to get to know people. I just used myself as an example. Besides, if anyone is that horny where they are asking for sex from every person they email. Then I think they should consider masturbation more often. lol

I like your answer. Funny! The reason i said it was to have an affirmation that there is a man on the other side of the fence. You did that and thankyou.!!!! Kewl. Lol

Your welcome. hahaha

Michele, I wouldn't want to have sex with someone that I didn't get on with as a friend but at the end of the day, I'm looking for a girlfriend and it's a dating site.

I suspect that a lot of guys just don't know what else to say, or they just see it as flirting. I message women all the time and try to strike up conversations with them but a lot of the time, if they bother to reply at all, they don't say very much and it's like they find polite conversation boring or something.

I gotcha but that is different. i dont appreciate especially on a first mail being told how and what someone wants to do to me. Instant delete on my part. thats all. striking up a conversation is great but doing with respect is a must. I think even a hooker would walk away from some of things i have seen. lol.

I think that a lot of those guys are just trolling. Yeah, it's kind of pathetic but they have some sort of problem with women and go on the internet looking for women to take it out on. It's like a sort of vicious circle. They send the women pervy messages and the women start thinking that all or most men are like that. The women start to dislike or mistrust men and don't want to talk to them. The men get annoyed because the women won't talk to them and then they start sending those messages that upset you out of spite.

You may delete those messages but they don't care about that. A troll is trying to get an emotional reaction and not an actual response.

point taken. im 50 and almost 51 though and i dont think anything except if they cant even make an effort to treat a woman good over the wires they s
sure as hell arent gonna treat them good in person. not worth my time as even a friend. saying goes a friend like that who needs enemies. i am a respectful woman of myself and others, i have fun, do innocent flirting, dont try to hurt others, and ask the same in return hence the delete. lol

In a world where a high percentage of crime is committed by black people who make up a smaller portion of our population. You can't blame a person for being more cautions around black people they don't know. The ugly truth, according to statistics, is that any person is more likely to be attacked in some way by a black person then that of other races. I'm going off of statistics, I'm not trying to be racist.

http://www.ronunz.org/2013/07/20/race-and-crime-in-america/