i read through profile and talked to ppl but alwys turns out tht they dont mean the words they write on the profiles which is either for privacy or they just like to see how others reply when they lie , so the question is wheather should we trust someone here or not ??

This is the question comes to everyone mind not only here whenever you meet stranger ! ~ intensity is likely higher here.

If you think about it, what everyone tries to do is grab others attention towards them for their own reasons. Ultimately two things happen, one is driving force why they need someone's attention and their intention which is always hidden ! There is saying "All that glitters is not gold"

So how do you deal with it ? Every cops know that "Even best of best crime leaves behind small clue that leads to solve the investigation" so it depends on your intellectual whether you accept the person or raise red flag !! Least patience is key when you meet someone new.

well said and thnx for the help but we r not here to judge ppl ,some of us dont even use the sightest of brains to figure out the missing cues about a persons statement and beside meeting some stranger is differnt thn talking to someone here using a fake name or location depriving u of ur privacy and leaving u exposed and used and with scar for not trusting again closing doors for the rite ppl .