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Topic: for lovers only
lalit1994's photo
Tue 01/21/14 03:49 AM
Never reject a boy with the following Qualities...
- When he says “sorry” even though he didn't do
anything wrong..
- When he tolerate your ignorance, your rude words
without even any complain
- When he behave decently and nicely even after
you insult many times without any reason
- When he cries because she still loves and misses
you no matter how many times you said ‘just leave
me ‘ and ‘forget me’
- When he is ready to do anything to see 1 smile on
your face….
- When he still tries to get you back..
- When he convince you again and again to save his
friendship and relation
- When he face all the misbehave which you does
with him, still tries again n again for just to be with
you
- When he msg you again n again not to disturb and
hares you , its just try to explain that how much he
love you and want to sped whole life with you…
- When he always try to make you comfortable no
matter he don’t knows how to flirt and how to
impress a girl
- When he already have so many choices still loyal
and honest just for you….
- When he no matter how much you have hurt her
still loves you..
- When he stops his argument with you to save your
relationship..
- When he continuously makes you feel special and
tries to make you happy..
- When he is upset but, does not tell you as he
thinks he is annoying you..
- When he walks for miles to see you..
- When he wants to leave you because of your rude
behavior…..but, he is not able to do so...beacuse he
cant live without you..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 01/21/14 04:03 AM
If you come across a man like that, I'd say: LEG IT!!!!
Unless you want an insecure partner who's dependent on you, can't stand on his own two feet, can't make his own decisions, gives in to your every whim (bluddy boring and simply not right). You won't be able to respect such a man, as he doesn't even respect himself, doesn't have a personality of himself, he merely adepts to what he feels you want him to be.
Do you want a man or a slave, I wonder?

no photo
Tue 01/21/14 04:14 AM

Never reject a boy with the following Qualities...
- When he says “sorry” even though he didn't do
anything wrong..
- When he tolerate your ignorance, your rude words
without even any complain
- When he behave decently and nicely even after
you insult many times without any reason
- When he cries because she still loves and misses
you no matter how many times you said ‘just leave
me ‘ and ‘forget me’
- When he is ready to do anything to see 1 smile on
your face….
- When he still tries to get you back..
- When he convince you again and again to save his
friendship and relation
- When he face all the misbehave which you does
with him, still tries again n again for just to be with
you
- When he msg you again n again not to disturb and
hares you , its just try to explain that how much he
love you and want to sped whole life with you…
- When he always try to make you comfortable no
matter he don’t knows how to flirt and how to
impress a girl
- When he already have so many choices still loyal
and honest just for you….
- When he no matter how much you have hurt her
still loves you..
- When he stops his argument with you to save your
relationship..
- When he continuously makes you feel special and
tries to make you happy..
- When he is upset but, does not tell you as he
thinks he is annoying you..
- When he walks for miles to see you..
- When he wants to leave you because of your rude
behavior…..but, he is not able to do so...beacuse he
cant live without you..


Hi Lalit!....These qualities can be wonderful when they are reciprocated...I hope you find a woman who does so...flowerforyou

TawtStrat's photo
Tue 01/21/14 04:24 AM
I can just picture the lady in question wiping her arse on your list of instructions there mate.

no photo
Tue 01/21/14 04:28 AM

I can just picture the lady in question wiping her arse on your list of instructions there mate.



Maybe, maybe not....spock ...Hi (((((Tawt)))))...You sexy beast you!drool

TawtStrat's photo
Tue 01/21/14 06:07 AM


I can just picture the lady in question wiping her arse on your list of instructions there mate.



Maybe, maybe not....spock ...Hi (((((Tawt)))))...You sexy beast you!drool


Oh, you women and your flirting. Keep it up and I just might give you all a treat and post some pictures of me with my shirt off.

But like you say, maybe and maybe not. I had an ex that was difficult to get along with, like the OP describes. Now she's with a guy that she says is a pushover compared to me and she seems to be happy with him.

The thing is, other posters here sometimes make the point that women don't want wimps or yes men. Now, I've been there myself, trying to keep a woman happy by putting up with verbal ear bashings and just telling her that whatever she wanted to do was fine with me and it didn't really work. It's the bit about making her feel special that's important I think. You don't make a woman feel special by just putting up with her for the sake of a quiet life and sex. It's about wanting the same things I think. That's when relationships are fun and not some sort of ordeal.

no photo
Tue 01/21/14 06:18 AM
You wouldn't like me then Crystal haha!

no photo
Tue 01/21/14 06:18 AM
I think it depends on whether it's a leave me alone said in the heat of a "discussion" or a leave me alone as in I have a court order lol

besides, if you say nothing when a loved one mistreats you, you are not helping that person to grow and change for the better. if you love them you will do that.flowerforyou

larsson71's photo
Tue 01/21/14 06:45 AM
Any guy that put up with that crap, would be a total *****, full stop! I bet the OP wouldn't even put up with 1 or 2 from that list, before she kicked his sorry arse into touch? Some women want the impossible, from a guy, but i've yet to see a Superwoman, in return, except my mum and that's different!

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 01/21/14 07:03 AM
Edited by dcastelmissy on Tue 01/21/14 07:04 AM
There are many superwomen out there who were able and willing to be what their man wanted them to be, as well as men who were willing to do the same. The problem seems to be that they were not matched up together but with those who couldn't or wouldn't put in as much effort or didn't want to be bothered with any relationship inconveniences. JMHO indifferent

willing2's photo
Tue 01/21/14 08:17 AM
I want my woman to be herself.

If I can't live with that, I can beat feet.

Poor me,poor me.
Mah woman don't give me no respect.
R E S P E C T is what I crave.
If I don't get me no respect, I'll jest curl me up in a ball. Suck mah thumb till it bleeds.
She see dat, she give me good luvin'.

Do chew vant cheese vit yo vhine?

shanbabar's photo
Tue 01/21/14 08:24 AM
Edited by shanbabar on Tue 01/21/14 08:25 AM
Love samples don't late

no photo
Tue 01/21/14 08:30 AM
Some things on that list sound like stalker mentality.

larsson71's photo
Tue 01/21/14 08:31 AM

There are many superwomen out there who were able and willing to be what their man wanted them to be, as well as men who were willing to do the same. The problem seems to be that they were not matched up together but with those who couldn't or wouldn't put in as much effort or didn't want to be bothered with any relationship inconveniences. JMHO indifferent
I don't want a woman to be what I want her to be. I just want her to be herself, that's all ! You may want to be what your partner wants you to be? That's your perogative! I just want a woman to be herself and be happy. Not miserable, as she has to act a certain way just to please me!

willing2's photo
Tue 01/21/14 09:08 AM

There are many superwomen out there who were able and willing to be what their man wanted them to be, as well as men who were willing to do the same. The problem seems to be that they were not matched up together but with those who couldn't or wouldn't put in as much effort or didn't want to be bothered with any relationship inconveniences. JMHO indifferent

I want for you to love and honor me. Just as I would you.

I love you so much, pleasing you would only draw me closer to you.flowerforyou

The rest we can work out through reasonable and adult comprising.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 01/21/14 11:51 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 01/21/14 11:51 AM

You wouldn't like me then Crystal haha!

You're suggesting you're a slave now? (Whatever happened to being a stud??? haha)
I don't think I'm a Domme, although I have played with the idea several times in the past. But I can tell you one thing: if I was to put on the Domme high heels, I'd be very very extremely bluddy mean. A total b|tch :angel:
Lord knows I'd even enjoy it, lol. It doesn't tickle my fancy per say, but somewhere deep down, something seems to wake up shades

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 01/21/14 03:57 PM


There are many superwomen out there who were able and willing to be what their man wanted them to be, as well as men who were willing to do the same. The problem seems to be that they were not matched up together but with those who couldn't or wouldn't put in as much effort or didn't want to be bothered with any relationship inconveniences. JMHO indifferent
I don't want a woman to be what I want her to be. I just want her to be herself, that's all ! You may want to be what your partner wants you to be? That's your perogative! I just want a woman to be herself and be happy. Not miserable, as she has to act a certain way just to please me!


Okay, I guess I must apologize for the wording I used here which did not seem to come out the way it was intended. I'm talking about superwomen and supermen who are more than willing to compromise on things for the sake of a deep committed relationship, not some who would expect a "remolding" of each other like a potter could remold a clay vessel. I also have a slight difficulty with the statement "I just want her to be herself". If she were a drunk, or a prostitute, or a little heavyset, would these be okay with you? Everyone has certain attributes that they would not want in a possible match, so to say "I just want her to be herself" just doesn't seem to ring very forthright, or at least not without some further explanation. No offense meant by this Larsson, it's just my take on the subject, which everyone is entitled to here. Doesn't make me right or wrong, just of a different viewpoint. :smile:

larsson71's photo
Tue 01/21/14 06:06 PM



There are many superwomen out there who were able and willing to be what their man wanted them to be, as well as men who were willing to do the same. The problem seems to be that they were not matched up together but with those who couldn't or wouldn't put in as much effort or didn't want to be bothered with any relationship inconveniences. JMHO indifferent
I don't want a woman to be what I want her to be. I just want her to be herself, that's all ! You may want to be what your partner wants you to be? That's your perogative! I just want a woman to be herself and be happy. Not miserable, as she has to act a certain way just to please me!


Okay, I guess I must apologize for the wording I used here which did not seem to come out the way it was intended. I'm talking about superwomen and supermen who are more than willing to compromise on things for the sake of a deep committed relationship, not some who would expect a "remolding" of each other like a potter could remold a clay vessel. I also have a slight difficulty with the statement "I just want her to be herself". If she were a drunk, or a prostitute, or a little heavyset, would these be okay with you? Everyone has certain attributes that they would not want in a possible match, so to say "I just want her to be herself" just doesn't seem to ring very forthright, or at least not without some further explanation. No offense meant by this Larsson, it's just my take on the subject, which everyone is entitled to here. Doesn't make me right or wrong, just of a different viewpoint. :smile:
Missy, why would I want to get involved with a drunk, or a prostitute for? Had enough drama, with my sons mum over the years, to want any crap again, that I don't need from a woman. What I meant with her just being herself, is that she doesn't have to be anything that she's not, because she feels that it would please me, as it wouldn't! I'd rather she had a laugh and felt happy and relaxed, when we were in each others company. Some couples I see and know, it's like they walk on eggshells around their partners, as they're scared of their reactions if they offend them. What way is that to live? Not what I want and not what I want for my partner anyway!

Mississippigal2003's photo
Tue 01/21/14 06:24 PM
When there's a man like that let me know where

lalit1994's photo
Tue 01/28/14 11:22 AM
"A loved one is not the
person
who understands your
happiness.
But,
Is the person
who can guess your sadness
before your eyes feel......

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