I second your thoughts jess and raise you a chocolate!!!

ok let us be merry and have a drink on me!!!

you, youself, without a doubt are your own boss about being how happy you truly want to be, but sometimes, sometimes, you may need a little push from a friend to get "jumped started" sorta speak from being down and out to being happy go lucky again. Once in awhile though, a person just needs to set the happiness aside and just let the sadness come up to the surface just to "let it out" because I feel if a person is happy to much in their life without feeling down even if it's for just a little bit, they might go crazy. I know that it may not make any sense at all but that's how I look at it.

I want zen!!!

please pass the toilet paper!!!

<-----joyful idiot....(great chocolate )

i think its up to u..whether ur happier with another person or not is up to the individual ..i personally miss having that special someone to cuddle next to and tease about the stupidist things but at the same time im not miserable :P

If we are not happy with ourselves...

Another person sure won't make us happy...

Yet companionship deffinately has it's comforts!

I think a relationship is complimentory of each other-

a partnership in life of sharing and caring...

Happiness is somthing thats you build within yourself from life experiences. Everything you did in your life has brang you up to this point whether you learnd from it or not. For me happiness comes from the small things in in life. Things that your learn to appreciate that is not given to you. It's what you work for in life that makes you see what it really is and the meaning behind it. If happiness could be given by somone else, there would be alot more people content with there life. In my life time at one point I thought by being with someone would make me happy... other words, expection of them making me happy. lol it never works. Although being around people and sharing with one another can make you feel good,smile,laugh, etc etc. but to fill that void that comes from yourself is something you have to work for.

We are all responsible for our own happiness. To expect another will make us happy is to add burden to them.

I can be more of me though with some people and they seem to allow the best of me to come forward with ease.

It is the same for us all...we can be more of who we are when we are accepted ... as we are ... and the love is reciprocated...

If you look to others to fill the holes ... they cannot ... not for long ... you must fill your own holes and love with the whole of you.

I agree...no one can make you happy you have to be happy with yourself FIRST. At times I must admit this is hard. But in the long run...another person can enhance how we feel. BUT, it must start from within.................