Topic: Almost depressed help
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Mon 01/13/14 05:20 PM
Well lets just that I have considered myself straight bicurious, noone knows about me, so I have been holding my emotions inside! I just cant take it anymore and at times I feel just very very sad!!! Really dont have many friends in town since I am stupidly shy at times! In november I met this guy and we talked and I got so attatched! We would talk for hours and recently he just left me! I shouldnt care but I miss him so much and just very very sad

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Mon 01/13/14 06:08 PM
Edited by soufiehere on Mon 01/13/14 06:09 PM
Luis, this could happen to you many times in your life.

That is the nature of love.
Hit and miss.
Sometimes you get lucky.
Other times, not so much.

It is all part of the journey.
You would not like it if it were all the same, all the time.

Downtimes are for working on yourself, being a bit selfish,
figuring out what you really want/need.

Being happy or sad is up to you, along the way.

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Mon 01/13/14 07:29 PM
NO need to worry don't be scared to talk to me am here now i can give u that reall love u deserve

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Mon 01/13/14 08:21 PM
I strongly suggest you get a counselor and help you work through your feelings and address coping skills as these are needed and can make your life less painful and ultimately more manageable regards

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Tue 01/14/14 06:41 AM

Luis, this could happen to you many times in your life.

That is the nature of love.
Hit and miss.
Sometimes you get lucky.
Other times, not so much.

It is all part of the journey.
You would not like it if it were all the same, all the time.

Downtimes are for working on yourself, being a bit selfish,
figuring out what you really want/need.

Being happy or sad is up to you, along the way.



Excellent advice. flowerforyou

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Tue 01/14/14 07:41 AM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Tue 01/14/14 07:42 AM

Luis, this could happen to you many times in your life.

That is the nature of love.
Hit and miss.
Sometimes you get lucky.
Other times, not so much.

It is all part of the journey.
You would not like it if it were all the same, all the time.

Downtimes are for working on yourself, being a bit selfish,
figuring out what you really want/need.

Being happy or sad is up to you, along the way.


^^Wise...

I would just add this for future encounters...Be up front about your bi curious nature and work on keeping your attachments on an even keel with those you associate with..In other words pay less attention to your feelings and more attention to theirs ...You may have scared your friend away by coming off as being too needy...It happens...It falls under the heading of "Too much pressure"...Stay positive and listen to Soufie, she's giving you very good advice:wink:

flowerforyou