Topic: am i doing something wrong
justkevin84's photo
Sat 01/11/14 02:12 PM
so heres my problem.. i dont seem to be getting any where with this site.. not that ive tried others. i msg weman i find intersting but never get replys. is it me?

izzyphoto1977's photo
Sat 01/11/14 02:16 PM
Without looking at your profile I can tell you a number of women whom I've noticed posting on rate me threads don't like pictures of guys without shirts or the bathroom selfie. If one comments then they will confirm this. I see this is your first post on the forums and I can tell you also that you can make more friends by being more active on the forums then by just sending emails. It gives people a chance to get to know you in a more public setting.

Journeyman236's photo
Sat 01/11/14 02:43 PM
If a profile is listed as "last seen over a month ago" they are probably inactive. People don't seem to like the shirtless pics, but that's your call. Otherwise your profile looks fine.
Good luck & welcome to the site!

justkevin84's photo
Sat 01/11/14 02:53 PM
10-4. on the shirt.. i get it. just never thought of it like that.. i dont want to b dishonest to those who look about my seperation.. its more of a devorice pending. how should i lable it. to not sound negitave.

soufiehere's photo
Sat 01/11/14 03:18 PM

10-4. on the shirt.. i get it. just never thought of it like that.. i dont want to b dishonest to those who look about my seperation.. its more of a devorice pending. how should i lable it. to not sound negitave.

There is a world of difference between 'separated' and 'impending divorce' so maybe you could just say so:-)

Gals so appreciate honesty, and probably will show some sympathy.