how to talk to a girl/boy you r just meeting for d first time

Open mouth.
Pass air through.
Form sounds.

Even Jane understood Tarzan's grunts.

i only know how to make relations i dont know how to breake them. people took advantage of my this weakness. what should i doooo

Keep your feet on the ground. Accept who you are and be yourself. Let other people choose to like your dislike you, don't try to influence them one way or another. Size up whether you like or dislike them, look at their actions and how they treat strangers to get to know them.
Don't do sales pitches and don't listen to sales pitches.

start your own thread, first off...lol

be polite. offer a polite question, maybe followed by a compliment (but nothing too personal)

LMFAO So thats how you do that?

It just depends on the situation, how I'm feeling at the time and my initial impressions about them. Some women don't like to talk about certain subjects with strangers and some don't like crude language or profanity and some women are more into flirting than others.

Compliments are good. Making it clear that you find them attractive is good. I have found that boobs can be quite a good talking point in this respect but that only really works if they are well endowed. It's not usually too difficult to start a conversation like that. A lot of women will say something about their bodies before you do. They will talk about their weight, for example. Then you can tell them that you like cuddly or that you're not looking for a stick insect or whatever.

It's best to try to be spontanious though and just let the conversation flow. Don't let there be awkward silences but give the other person a chance to talk as well and don't just ramble on about yourself.