Topic: True love, from scarcity to exstincty.
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Tue 01/07/14 08:45 AM
Edited by Treddy51 on Tue 01/07/14 08:52 AM
Does true love stil exist today? Or can stil be found in scarcity, somewhere in other innocent parts of the world. Guys am talking of the luv used to circulate amoung our grandfathers with their better halfs. But to my own understanding, in relation to what l have seen in the present, that pretty animal so called TRUE LOVE have deeply extincted and am sure the upcoming generations will read about it in books of the past. Where is the problem? Can love for money be part of this exstinction?

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Tue 01/07/14 09:06 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 01/07/14 09:06 AM
True love is based on the freedom to choose. That freedom is still relatively new. I doubt whether it has ever before existed on the planet.
Surely some people have gotten together and experience(d) true love, but in most cases I seriously doubt it.
True love also means you can go your separate ways (in love) at some point in time. True love is choosing to be and stay together, or not.
When you truly love someone, you choose to stay with him/her every day.
Until recently we've never had that freedom.

I think you're mixing things up and regard a bond that lasts a lifetime to be 'true love'. Ever wondered how many people ended up hating each other, but had to stay together because by law or religion they couldn't split up?

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Tue 01/07/14 09:38 AM

Does true love stil exist today? Or can stil be found in scarcity, somewhere in other innocent parts of the world. Guys am talking of the luv used to circulate amoung our grandfathers with their better halfs. But to my own understanding, in relation to what l have seen in the present, that pretty animal so called TRUE LOVE have deeply extincted and am sure the upcoming generations will read about it in books of the past. Where is the problem? Can love for money be part of this exstinction?


Love for money is a lot of things, but true love is not one of them....True love is alive and well, only the dynamics have changed...In the past, many marriages endured due to necessity...Women needed security, men needed brood mares and housekeepers....Now that women are capable of building their own financial security (and wealthbigsmile ), they are less likely to stay in a relationship built around subserviency, necessity, and control...Now true love is more about want, less about need....In this more equitable relationship, the game is harder, but the rewards are greater...flowerforyou

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Tue 01/07/14 09:57 AM
@Crystal the true love am talking about is that of having it stay in felicity, that can last forever just like some of our grands who who are stil together hapily in love in their 80s. So today's its real in the early time, and later own start to fade up until it dies, or sometimes survives but not under good conditions.

During the first days a gal can ask whats that animal Treddy then l say its a lion my luv. l

Then the following months she forget the name, and she ask again. This l wil answer l told u its a lion, why dont u listern!

So either members of that relationship can be involved into such wild changes of attitude.