No sex or cohabitation before marriage, good idea or mistake?

No matter how you approach these issues there are no guarantees so its best to choose the style that works best for the people involved. Given the average person is now married three times it makes sense to spend more time evaluating the roles each person is expected to play and how people define their roles as partner, spouse, potential partner, children , money choices and life style before undertaking any responsibility...

i think its not a good idea . because we should know each other before even about sex

Well it should be a mutual agreement to/not to have sex and live together...both parties should be on the same page...especially when it comes to sex and what's expected.:smile

i think its not a good idea

Bad idea...!!

Depends on the people....

For me, bad idea.

bad idea

Personally I think it's a bad idea, you should know you're partner completely before getting married.

Mistake.
I like all the cards on the table.

Mistake

a few years ago there was a study that reported couples who lived together before marriage had a higher divorce rate than those that did not. I remember it because it was published to debunk the current myth that living together is some kind of guarantee of future happiness. Apparently that was not the case...

but in my own opinion, whether a couple does these things or waits is up to those individuals and what makes them happy. what is more important in my opinion is whether they are both happy and in agreement regarding those choices

That's right. Got to make sure the Joker doesn't show up. .

The gal would need to test drive me to see if she enjoys the ride.

Is really easy say not sex now!!,but when you are enjoy the time and she is so beautiful and her let you do it !!,what is the problem

My late wife and I waited until after we were married before we had sexual intercourse, and we didn't live together before the wedding.

Ours was a great marriage.

Sex is for marriage but marraige is not for everyone! If the jeweler is giving away all the jewels theres no need to buy it.
I personally wpouldnt play myself cheap like that. If you cant commit to nothin but sex then obviously your not committed to the person period!
Agree or disagree dont care what nobody say or argue, if you wanna be a truck stop then go on but im not allowing myself to be a hit n quit piece off *** so they can move on. No ring you cant have none of this thing!

before marriage sex - not good

I think it's a mistake. You should know what your partner is like sexually before you commit to it for the rest of your life.

good idea