I like a guy I met from on here. I've let him know I'm interested. He says he is in me too but he isn't making the attempt to see me often and he is still coming on here to talk to other women. We've met 4 times so far over the past month and text each day. I am unsure what to do to get a romance started. I think if he is still talking to others on this site he is not really in to a romance.

Uh, you may just be a semi-finalist with him.

you can't really stop him from talking to others. A month is not that long of a time. Be a person he wishes to continue to communicate. It may be awhile before he is ready to settle into dating just one person. In the meantime there is no reason why you cannot date others, no?

Also the nature of his talking to others? If it is just friendships, I wouldn't worry about that

Possibility 1. he is still playing the field and isn't as into a relationship with you as you are with him, as yet.

Possibility 2. he has baggage and immediately balances any strong feelings he has with anyone by escaping into other social environments to clear his head.

Either way he's a complicated man, and you don't seem to be down for complicated. And why should you? Complicated often just means childish.

Enjoy it for what it is. Be You! Now if he says he wants to commit to you only and is doing this, beat the liven snot out of him!

sorry, been watching too much reality tv

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Pretty much that.yes very important his actions meet his words.
and thats all you can have expectations for at this point. As Sweetest
Is saying thats way to early for both to jump in to and kind of exclusive
commitment. A full commitment could take 8 to maybe 15 months with smart people. It hurts to go to fast and fall in love and one realizes that the
other person is not suited for a life time partner.For me personally I'm
definitely a person that devotes to the person of my interest. although
I may not admit to officially been in a relationship I will not be
looking elsewhere. Thats just me, thats within the person and it sure
isn't the way its supposed to be at that stage. Many people want that
right lifetime partner so they certainly have the right to get to know
as many people as they like at that point.it make more sense than someone
being a serial monogamist. A person that is rarely single, that goes
from one committed relationship to another.

how about you OP? are you looking for a lifetime partner? because if
you don't want to be a serial monogamist then you owe tbat to yourself
to take your time. After all, you guys have just expressed interest
am I right.

Don't look now, but the romance has "started" ...You don't have to do anything more than you're doing...If a guy is texting me everyday and seeing me, on average, once a week, I take that to mean he's interested and, if I share that interest, I'll express it to him when we are together or texting...That is called flirting and it is an art ...The relationship will either grow into something more serious or it will fade over time...That's how online dating works and it's not for sissies ...Like Michael said, be yourself, have fun, and if he's the one you want make it happen sister! Good luck to you!

People get together because they both feel,
at the same point in time, that it is right.

Until then, it is unilateral.
The EXACTA is all about timing.

Take your time, cherish the hear and now and remember that everyone you date or meet is on their best behavior at first. I say give it three months before you will see the real person that they are