http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_26olpxMBMg

You'll Hate This Professional Date 'N' Dasher

Yeah I'm calling this a scam. Because that is what it is. This girl goes out with guys to get them to buy her dinner at some expensive place and then she never contacts them again and then writes garbage about them on her tumblr blog.

Wow; that is awful. I have had the guy that has coffee with me and promises to call me or asks me to call him; yet he has no interest in me. Mind you I didn't get scammed into buying him dinner but it does seem a cowardly way to tell someone you are not interested.

To do that and then brag or trash talk about the guy she basically scammed just makes it worse.

the trash talk isn;t nice but there is nothing wrong with not wanting a second date. just because some guy buys dinner the woman doesn;t owe him a second date or really anything at all except maybe a thank you...

exactly. guys hit and run all the time but if a woman does that it is now a scam...pulleeeezzzz

It's just as disgusting when a guy does it as a woman. This person is also getting rewarded for her crappy behavior by possibly getting a show where she will probably get paid to keep doing the same thing.

Plus I think your missing the whole thing that it's all she does. It's not about owing someone something because they treat her to dinner. It's a sick game she's playing and potentially dangerous as well. I wouldn't be shocked if she eventually get badly physically hurt or maybe killed.

right if she is intentionally using guys as a free meal ticket that would really suck. I agree, and that's a good point, it's one thing to date with a sincere intention even if it doesn't work out, but it's another, NOT good thing to purposely date someone with no intention but to get a free dinner.

I don;t know that it would be dangerous as long as she takes the usual precautions tho

but ya, users are users are users and they suck bald rocks irrespective of gender....

The guys are the suckers for spending money on her, so eager to impress they will let a girl walk all over them. Her and those guys deserve each other.

I would think that, eventually, she won't be able to find a date period as her "reputation" grows.

This is why I always go Dutch with guys. This way they don't feel used by me and also they can't use the dinner as a way to get sex as they feel you owe them that for dinner.

That is terrible. Once men know who she is and what she is all about, she won't be able to get a date!!! It is women like this that makes it hard on all the nice women out there!!!

You would think her having a blog would make it difficult for her to get a date. Maybe if she gets that TV show she won't be able to get a date.

I actually kind of wonder why she does this though. Was she screwed over by one guy so it's a retarded way of taking revenge by screwing over every guy after? Some people think Bundy's first gf was his motivation for killing the girls he killed since they had the same hair style as she did.

All you have to do is read her intro to see she's just really selfish.

prolly but honestly I do not read (ever) links posted on blogs or forums...just call me overly cautious...so I really didn't see the whole picture of the post you made. I prefer not to have a meal involved as part of a first meet. generally it's the guy who insists...and now, at this point, I simply refuse dinner....the main reason is because I do not like some strange guy watching me eat

but also because I avoid this whole assumption that dinner means sex....or if I refuse sex I am "using" him

all in all tho...I would not have a man who thought that way I have not meant any men IRL who ever had these issues

sometyms its out of bitterness that grows from being heartbroken. a girl who is into dat staff after she was dissappoited by the bf who she said denied her and their unborn baby had this to say "men are lyk chewing gum. i chew and when the sweetness is over i spit."

The video link I posted was done by an internet news group called The Young Turks. I've seen a few stories from them in the past including one where they talk about a Russian woman who knocked out a robber, tied him up, force fed him viagra and raped him for three days straight. When she let him go she gave him a new pair of pants and gave him dinner or money for a meal. He went to the hospital and he had to have surgery done on his penis.

One of the things they said was it wasn't just guys that hate this girl. There are plenty of girls who find what she is doing detestable.

I believe you still enjoy a first date even if it goes no further, so from the guys perspective it is not all bad they had a good time, providing of course they never learn of their dates hidden agenda.

The fact that her sole purpose was to have a free dinner, then blog about the experience, does beg the question. Why does she do it?
What it does show, is how cunning, uncaring and deceitful this woman is in my opinion.

Try getting to know a woman a little before trying to impressed by buying her a fancy dinner. Going Dutch on first dates works well. Or at least keep the date cheap.

That along with don't think with your dick is good advice.

Nice idea, but sometimes you need to be spontaneous when a lady catches your eye, and most guys don't do McDonalds on a first date.