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Topic: He is the reason for my insomnia
larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Sun 02/16/14 03:12 PM
shoot him Hmmmmmmmm Nahhhhh. I could'nt! Thanks for all the advice! I started this post back in October '13, looking back at it now and realizing what this joker has put me through with emotions. But... I finally did it after a year and a half of playing his game. I am done!! (and I'm sleeping again) If he annoys you again, tell me and i'll post you a nail gun to pepper his sorry arse with Dawnette, ok?

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 02/16/14 03:30 PM Edited by PacificStar48 on Sun 02/16/14 03:32 PM
Think of yourself as a Book. Each day you flip a page. There look to be a lot of pages. At first. Your choice is always to read on, see what is happening. Or to stay on one page, or even go back, reread over and over. You can spot those people. They go nowhere. Not even on to their own story. And all the while the pages are flipping. Never as many as we thought. Sorry double post but it is actually too good to delete. Read and apply in life as needed.

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sun 02/16/14 03:31 PM
Think of yourself as a Book. Each day you flip a page. There look to be a lot of pages. At first. Your choice is always to read on, see what is happening. Or to stay on one page, or even go back, reread over and over. You can spot those people. They go nowhere. Not even on to their own story. And all the while the pages are flipping. Never as many as we thought. This an awesome way to put the concept!

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Sun 02/16/14 04:56 PM
shoot him Hmmmmmmmm Nahhhhh. I could'nt! Thanks for all the advice! I started this post back in October '13, looking back at it now and realizing what this joker has put me through with emotions. But... I finally did it after a year and a half of playing his game. I am done!! (and I'm sleeping again) If he annoys you again, tell me and i'll post you a nail gun to pepper his sorry arse with Dawnette, ok? Thanks so much Larsson!

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Sun 02/16/14 08:40 PM
Four months really isn't very long. Sorry to say, but it will take probably a few MORE months till you're feeling better. A guy doesn't vanish from our mind easily, after we've been with them. Also, don't pressure yourself to get over him. It'll happen in it's own time. Suggestion-And sleeping with other men as a way to rid of it, won't make it dissapear. Some only end up feeling worse for letting themselve's be used for a quick fix.

laphosh Joined Sun 02/16/14 Posts: 8	Mon 02/17/14 10:29 AM
Well girl been there done that. Firstly you need to find the roots of the problem. Once you do, then you must decide if you wanna move on and forget about meaning deleting everything about. even though its not easy but it will be worthy. He was once in a million but now he is one out of million.

skylady2020 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 57	Mon 02/17/14 02:06 PM
Then block his calls stop reading his text delete without reading. Find something that will occupy your mind focus in it. But if still love him you go back to him.

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Mon 02/17/14 04:43 PM
Four months really isn't very long. Sorry to say, but it will take probably a few MORE months till you're feeling better. A guy doesn't vanish from our mind easily, after we've been with them. Also, don't pressure yourself to get over him. It'll happen in it's own time. Suggestion-And sleeping with other men as a way to rid of it, won't make it dissapear. Some only end up feeling worse for letting themselve's be used for a quick fix. Its been 6 months now since we split up and no I'm not over him, especially when he keeps contacting me. But I put an end to it. (I think). Im not sleeping around with other men, I meant I have been sleeping..literally sleeping! I suffer from insomnia as it is & the stress he was giving me was making it worse.

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Mon 02/17/14 04:48 PM Edited by Unknow on Mon 02/17/14 04:51 PM
Well girl been there done that. Firstly you need to find the roots of the problem. Once you do, then you must decide if you wanna move on and forget about meaning deleting everything about. even though its not easy but it will be worthy. He was once in a million but now he is one out of million. I like that Laphosh!! ...so very true! I did ,he was my world ...even after we split but then all the lies starting surfacing and he started playing games. Those are the root of the problem, he lies. I do want to move on except I love him. But I am done. Now I'll bet my bottom dollar once he thinks I'm serious he'll contact me with How much he misses me & what a fool he is...blah blah blah

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Mon 02/17/14 04:56 PM
Then block his calls stop reading his text delete without reading. Find something that will occupy your mind focus in it. But if still love him you go back to him. The only way I'm going back to him is if he can prove it. Ive blocked him and I'm keeping him blocked this time

alexfon68 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 234	Mon 02/17/14 05:21 PM
This may help you rest :-), relaxation music or sounds of the seashore helps. Have a restful sl..

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Mon 02/17/14 05:35 PM
This may help you rest :-), relaxation music or sounds of the seashore helps. Have a restful sl.. Lol thanks Alex I sleep better in complete silence & total darkness though. Of course then every little creek & ping freaks me out

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Mon 02/17/14 05:37 PM Edited by Unknow on Mon 02/17/14 05:37 PM
Then block his calls stop reading his text delete without reading. Find something that will occupy your mind focus in it. But if still love him you go back to him. The only way I'm going back to him is if he can prove it. Ive blocked him and I'm keeping him blocked this time ...and honestly I dont think I will even then. Trust is gone.

alexfon68 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 234	Mon 02/17/14 05:43 PM
This may help you rest :-), relaxation music or sounds of the seashore helps. Have a restful sl.. Lol thanks Alex I sleep better in complete silence & total darkness though. Of course then every little creek & ping freaks me out Tell me about it, When the people upstairs move around, you can the floors creek. And the bathroom pipes, ugh! pretty crappy. You want to relax, there is a poetry section here. Creative writing can be a stress reliever.

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Mon 02/17/14 05:53 PM
This may help you rest :-), relaxation music or sounds of the seashore helps. Have a restful sl.. Lol thanks Alex I sleep better in complete silence & total darkness though. Of course then every little creek & ping freaks me out Tell me about it, When the people upstairs move around, you can the floors creek. And the bathroom pipes, ugh! pretty crappy. You want to relax, there is a poetry section here. Creative writing can be a stress reliever. Yes I have checked it out, some really good reads in that thread.

alexfon68 Joined Sat 02/15/14 Posts: 234	Mon 02/17/14 06:05 PM
This may help you rest :-), relaxation music or sounds of the seashore helps. Have a restful sl.. Lol thanks Alex I sleep better in complete silence & total darkness though. Of course then every little creek & ping freaks me out Tell me about it, When the people upstairs move around, you can the floors creek. And the bathroom pipes, ugh! pretty crappy. You want to relax, there is a poetry section here. Creative writing can be a stress reliever. Yes I have checked it out, some really good reads in that thread. Yes it is :-) Has a little bit of everything.

badguy1 Joined Wed 03/03/10 Posts: 73	Tue 02/18/14 06:14 PM
Send him some hott pics of yourself

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Tue 02/18/14 06:33 PM
Send him some hott pics of yourself Hmmmmmmm... I don't think that will work , he's still gonna be an arsehole but thanks Badguy

badguy1 Joined Wed 03/03/10 Posts: 73	Tue 02/18/14 06:54 PM Edited by badguy1 on Tue 02/18/14 07:22 PM
It'll work..if he's making you upset, then what you think those pics would do to him? It'll make him mad and drive him nuts, because he wants you but he cant have you..He'll be sleepless too after looking at those pics, and just ignore him, block him, whatever..