Would like to know whats the problem why lotz of guy look at my profile but never talk to me they dont even accept my friend request whats wrong am too big and black??

First; you dont have to be a black or white or purple to score a date! You are your first and worst enemy!


Truth is,you shoot yourself dead even before a guy is through with your profile! I doubt they'd want to go beyond reading it!?

You have just one pic up,a tiny pic,where someone else takes centre stage!

Advice; try redoing your profile maybe? Who cares what negative stuff men u've met said? You are YOU! Big or dark,you ARE unique!!

Be and show positivity about yourself...dont negatify yourself just because some guy said so!!
Put up more pics of you-full body shots,different activities! It'd be good if you also dont use this as your profile pic-its small and doesnt show you alone!

Goodluck!

Very good

"you want the truth?"


"yes i want the truth!"


"you can't HANDLE the truth!!!"



yes i just quoted A Few Good Men.sorry,i couldn't help it

Try getting to know people in the forums. And I don't accept friend requests from people I've never talked to, so I understand why other people wouldn't either.

Also, maybe the lighting in your photo is odd, or I need my eyes checked, because you don't look black at all in that photo...

As for being big, lots of big women have men, so I'm sure you can have one, too.

Good luck.

Ghhhhhhh

I agree with the others. It comes across very negative. My mom always told me if you don't think you are worthy, then can't get mad at others for thinking the same

Try rewriting it and give your positives and what you enjoy doing. Add more pictures of you alone.

Good luck

Are you black? I doubt that's it... Since, I couldn't tell...
I'm black and get plenty of messages... don't want them, but I get em.

BIG is in... those who don't know... don't know.. so screw em.

Check your profile.... are you coming off, whiney, negative and sounding like you'd be NO FUN?

Check that.