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| Topic: I Hate and Love him... I need to choose and stick to it! | |
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Just remember it is HIS loss. His choices he made quite willingly!
You get to take the next step into a new adventure. 
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Just remember it is HIS loss. His choices he made quite willingly! You get to take the next step into a new adventure. I do.. don't I!  I'm ready! 
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He does not Love you chick, move the hell on.
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He does not Love you chick, move the hell on. I couldn't have said better myself....oh wait I did! 
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He does not Love you chick, move the hell on. I couldn't have said better myself....oh wait I did! It is brilliant. |
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The bitter truth for which i am known in mingle2 must be told.Yes members and their far-left views notwithstanding.MARRIAGE IS FOR BETTER AND FOR WORSE.RECONCILE WITH YOU FIRST HUSBAND 
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The bitter truth for which i am known in mingle2 must be told.Yes members and their far-left views notwithstanding.MARRIAGE IS FOR BETTER AND FOR WORSE.RECONCILE WITH YOU FIRST HUSBAND Who the F is this guy? The moral compass moderator for Mingle? I bet you are the same person who tells a battered woman... Stick with your husband just don't make him angry! |
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When you give it all to someone, anyone, a piece of you
is forever tied to them. When it does not work out, sometimes you feel you should hang on to that piece. Problem is, the other party did not share that deepness. Your intentions are pure. But theirs are not always so. Recognizing the one-sidedness can help you move on. |
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When you give it all to someone, anyone, a piece of you is forever tied to them. When it does not work out, sometimes you feel you should hang on to that piece. Problem is, the other party did not share that deepness. Your intentions are pure. But theirs are not always so. Recognizing the one-sidedness can help you move on. So true! I completely feel like my feelings were one sided and that thought does make it easier. |
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I never wanted to write this type of post but it's eating away at me and I need to vent  After my divorce in 2012, I NEVER wanted to get married again... still don't really. However, I met and started dating a very handsome, jeans and tee shirt sexy younger guy. I was having fun... 9 months ago, he asked me to marry him and AGAINST my better judgement I said, Yes! Well, 3 months later we are no longer together! I couldn't put up with the lies and deception... such as " falling alseep over his brother's house" or sending me a 2 paragraph text saying he couldn't talk because he was driving.. Really?   This one right here, was the final straw! I know he's a sneaky little weasel... but damn I miss my sneaky little weasel. I know what I would tell a female who posted this.. " He does not Love you chick, move the hell on"  I've never been on THIS side of the coin... and it really is a lot cloudier over here. Someone once said " Sounds like I may still be hung up on my ex" I might be, but LORD knows I'm trying NOT to be, he really is NOT a good guy. I could have just about written this post myself Tee. My ex IS the reason I joined this site...trying to give myself distraction from his b.s. He gave me the same kind of heartache.....but then out of the blue he'll contact me "needing me". I'm going to admit it, I love him but I don't want to! I don't even want to meet anyone else. But we have to move on! 
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Edited by
teebee79
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Sat 12/14/13 05:41 PM
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I never wanted to write this type of post but it's eating away at me and I need to vent After my divorce in 2012, I NEVER wanted to get married again... still don't really. However, I met and started dating a very handsome, jeans and tee shirt sexy younger guy. I was having fun... 9 months ago, he asked me to marry him and AGAINST my better judgement I said, Yes! Well, 3 months later we are no longer together! I couldn't put up with the lies and deception... such as " falling alseep over his brother's house" or sending me a 2 paragraph text saying he couldn't talk because he was driving.. Really? This one right here, was the final straw! I know he's a sneaky little weasel... but damn I miss my sneaky little weasel. I know what I would tell a female who posted this.. " He does not Love you chick, move the hell on" I've never been on THIS side of the coin... and it really is a lot cloudier over here. Someone once said " Sounds like I may still be hung up on my ex" I might be, but LORD knows I'm trying NOT to be, he really is NOT a good guy. I could have just about written this post myself Tee. My ex IS the reason I joined this site...trying to give myself distraction from his b.s. He gave me the same kind of heartache.....but then out of the blue he'll contact me "needing me". I'm going to admit it, I love him but I don't want to! I don't even want to meet anyone else. But we have to move on! Yes! You are very much me! He calls with the tears and pleading but I can't and don't believe it.He knows just those words to put me in a frame of mine to miss him! Which is s sign that I can't get "serious" with anyone. I don't trust myself and I wouldn't want to hurt anyone. |
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Hey Joisey, I got your solution! Just move to Michigan, and I'll make ya forget all about him,
 
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Hey Joisey, I got your solution! Just move to Michigan, and I'll make ya forget all about him, I know you would B!! Don't think I haven't thought about it!!  
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Teebe I also went through this kind of thing not long ago..a young one playing games. I would stop talking to him for weeks then he would call me up and somehow talk me into meeting once again..this happened for over a year going back and forth. Eventually you wear out from it and stop. Keep busy and keep meeting new people, it all helps
In no time you will forget all about him |
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I never wanted to write this type of post but it's eating away at me and I need to vent After my divorce in 2012, I NEVER wanted to get married again... still don't really. However, I met and started dating a very handsome, jeans and tee shirt sexy younger guy. I was having fun... 9 months ago, he asked me to marry him and AGAINST my better judgement I said, Yes! Well, 3 months later we are no longer together! I couldn't put up with the lies and deception... such as " falling alseep over his brother's house" or sending me a 2 paragraph text saying he couldn't talk because he was driving.. Really? This one right here, was the final straw! I know he's a sneaky little weasel... but damn I miss my sneaky little weasel. I know what I would tell a female who posted this.. " He does not Love you chick, move the hell on" I've never been on THIS side of the coin... and it really is a lot cloudier over here. Someone once said " Sounds like I may still be hung up on my ex" I might be, but LORD knows I'm trying NOT to be, he really is NOT a good guy. do you know for sure he was not as his brother's house asleep, or pulled over on the side of the rode to text? if you know those things aren't true that's one thing....either way it sounds like it is just too soon for you ......keep it light. no reason you can't see him till someone better comes along...just no commitments, maybe? What's funny... I tried this! I figured he's a liar, so I'll stay around until someone better comes along. It doesn't work for me. When I'm into someone... I'm into them. nothing wrong with that .... so hang out with him if you want to. I don;t see the problem. hang out with him or hang out with someone else 
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The bitter truth for which i am known in mingle2 must be told.Yes members and their far-left views notwithstanding.MARRIAGE IS FOR BETTER AND FOR WORSE.RECONCILE WITH YOU FIRST HUSBAND can we demand a quick peek of that kilt? |
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I have been in your shoes,I stuck around hoping things would change it never did. Its true a zebra never changes his stripes. It's very hard but if you stay the course with him in a year things will still be the same.It's the holidays and when we have no one its hard and makes you reflect because you see all the couples expressing their love for each other. You already know the answers to the questions in your heart. You deserve to be treated with respect. If someone truly loves you they can't wait to be with you not make all these excuses. Hang tough, stay strong and hey God loves you, and good things are coming your way !!!
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yes a very lonely time of year. Had many and another coming up
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girl lrt me tell ya......
i thought i still loved my ex..... stayed away from him for awhile and when i saw him again.... i thought to myself.... "god he is ugly....... absence does not always make the heart fonder
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All these opinions are great! It does help to vent & yes.. stay busy! Get him out of your head & heart! Mine split up up with me 4 months ago and still about once a week or so he starts trying to mess with me. He just gave me a sob story Friday night about how lonely & unhappy he is and we should get together and "talk"...blah blah blah! I said no!! So glad I did because... I happened to come across almost the same conversation with him & another women on facebook. He misses her too.
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