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That's what's confusing to me about rate my intimate encounter profile? Does it matter if she speaks 5 languages or he has his doctrate in foreign affairs? That would be interesting to me... But why would an intimate encounter care? I think it does matter. Have you ever thought about what an IE is? IEs aren't necessarily sleazy, cheap, unhygienic happenings. Let's say you'd be looking for an intimate encounter, hypothetically speaking. Would you do it with just about anyone? Regardless whether he sells hot-dogs in the street, is a backwater redneck, an office-worker or whatever? Don't you think you'd be just as selective as with a partner for a committed relationship, and possibly even more so as you intend to swap bodily fluids? Wanting an intimate encounter doesn't mean you're just going to open your legs for a piece of meat, you can still want a click, both physically AND mentally. So someone similar / same level of intelligence etc DOES matter. Like with a normal date, you usually meet first to see if there is a click. So what would a lawyer or office manager do with a garbage man when they meet? What would they talk about over their coffees? They probably have nothing in common so it likely won't work out in bed either. I don't agree with this one Crystal Fairy  Consenting Adults on this site or anywhere, are free to do whatever they want.. It's not my business either way.
You just described a " FWB"...A friend with benes is fine, someone you already know that you hook up with.. Back to IE's.. on here at least A LOT of people put their intent in the user name.. a guy's name is "For F** only".... this guy has a deep soul that's trying to be discovered?? 
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Ninety percent of the guys who have contacted me over the years were looking for an intimate encounter. I'm fine with that as long as they let me know upfront what their intentions are so I can say, "no thank you" and block them. It's the guy who tries to scam me that pisses me off. I want respect so I try to be respectful but it is not easy sometimes to not tell them to f_____ off.
I have found there are many reasons for someone to want an intimate encounter, and often, they usually want to meet first to see if there is a click both physically, mentally and culturally, they want to find someone similar, with the same level of intelligence and interest. They are looking for someone with common interest because it is unlikely to work out in bed if they don't. Not always but most of the time they are married and don't want to get a divorce. Too much to lose by divorcing or have had a bad experience. You have a responsibility to be true to yourself, learn to say "no" if you don't like what you are hearing. |
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That's what's confusing to me about rate my intimate encounter profile? Does it matter if she speaks 5 languages or he has his doctrate in foreign affairs? That would be interesting to me... But why would an intimate encounter care? I have to reference you red6mist. 
He would get further in his "goal" if he said less and showed more. Right? Or is this old skill thinking? Are intimate encounters more personable now? Maybe they're looking for someone they'll get along well with, even if is just for fun, rather than something serious? Why be so judgmental about others? |
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That's what's confusing to me about rate my intimate encounter profile? Does it matter if she speaks 5 languages or he has his doctrate in foreign affairs? That would be interesting to me... But why would an intimate encounter care? I think it does matter. Have you ever thought about what an IE is? IEs aren't necessarily sleazy, cheap, unhygienic happenings. Let's say you'd be looking for an intimate encounter, hypothetically speaking. Would you do it with just about anyone? Regardless whether he sells hot-dogs in the street, is a backwater redneck, an office-worker or whatever? Don't you think you'd be just as selective as with a partner for a committed relationship, and possibly even more so as you intend to swap bodily fluids? Wanting an intimate encounter doesn't mean you're just going to open your legs for a piece of meat, you can still want a click, both physically AND mentally. So someone similar / same level of intelligence etc DOES matter. Like with a normal date, you usually meet first to see if there is a click. So what would a lawyer or office manager do with a garbage man when they meet? What would they talk about over their coffees? They probably have nothing in common so it likely won't work out in bed either. I don't agree with this one Crystal Fairy Consenting Adults on this site or anywhere, are free to do whatever they want.. It's not my business either way.
You just described a " FWB"...A friend with benes is fine, someone you already know that you hook up with.. Back to IE's.. on here at least A LOT of people put their intent in the user name.. a guy's name is "For F** only".... this guy has a deep soul that's trying to be discovered??
Not everyone is going to be exactly the same. Some people do want to click with those they have sex with. |
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Edited by
isaac_dede
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Tue 12/10/13 11:18 AM
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That's what's confusing to me about rate my intimate encounter profile? Does it matter if she speaks 5 languages or he has his doctrate in foreign affairs? That would be interesting to me... But why would an intimate encounter care? I think it does matter. Have you ever thought about what an IE is? IEs aren't necessarily sleazy, cheap, unhygienic happenings. Let's say you'd be looking for an intimate encounter, hypothetically speaking. Would you do it with just about anyone? Regardless whether he sells hot-dogs in the street, is a backwater redneck, an office-worker or whatever? Don't you think you'd be just as selective as with a partner for a committed relationship, and possibly even more so as you intend to swap bodily fluids? Wanting an intimate encounter doesn't mean you're just going to open your legs for a piece of meat, you can still want a click, both physically AND mentally. So someone similar / same level of intelligence etc DOES matter. Like with a normal date, you usually meet first to see if there is a click. So what would a lawyer or office manager do with a garbage man when they meet? What would they talk about over their coffees? They probably have nothing in common so it likely won't work out in bed either. I don't agree with this one Crystal Fairy Consenting Adults on this site or anywhere, are free to do whatever they want.. It's not my business either way.
You just described a " FWB"...A friend with benes is fine, someone you already know that you hook up with.. Back to IE's.. on here at least A LOT of people put their intent in the user name.. a guy's name is "For F** only".... this guy has a deep soul that's trying to be discovered??
This right here answers the questions of why they want a rate, username is "For F** only" ask for a rate, you could tell him with that username he comes off as soul less and probably won't find much luck with getting a woman...Maybe he doesn't understand that and thinks that "honesty is the best policy" and doesn't understand why him being honest is not being received well so then he asks for advice. |
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