Topic: ladies please
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Fri 12/06/13 07:44 AM
So I don't feel comfortable putting up a pic because of professional reasons. Does this mean the world has turned so superficial that no one will talk with me?

teebee79's photo
Fri 12/06/13 07:50 AM

So I don't feel comfortable putting up a pic because of professional reasons. Does this mean the world has turned so superficial that no one will talk with me?


I don't know spock how many women have YOU talked to with no picture?

no photo
Fri 12/06/13 07:58 AM
I copied and pasted this off your profile:

"No picture until I get to know you and can be sure you don't work in my field or are gossipy"

Red Flag~ Creepynoway

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Fri 12/06/13 07:59 AM
Never done this until just this morning. So zero. Haha. I just don't want my clients seeing me on here. Bad business.

teebee79's photo
Fri 12/06/13 08:00 AM

I copied and pasted this off your profile:

"No picture until I get to know you and can be sure you don't work in my field or are gossipy"

Red Flag~ Creepynoway

SEE I knew it!!!!:angry: surprised

no photo
Fri 12/06/13 08:02 AM
Thanks for the honesty. I guess the online deal isn't for me. Just getting tired of clubs and bars and even the gym has produced its fair share of wastes.

teebee79's photo
Fri 12/06/13 08:18 AM
Edited by teebee79 on Fri 12/06/13 08:18 AM

Thanks for the honesty. I guess the online deal isn't for me. Just getting tired of clubs and bars and even the gym has produced its fair share of wastes.


So you would go to those places without a mask, Why wear one here?
As long as you have a respectable profile... I'll admit that I haven't read it.. What's the BFD ?smokin

If you are SINGLE... and not sneaking out on your wife.. People have to respect that fact that you don't want to be alone.

My two centsdrinker

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Fri 12/06/13 08:34 AM
Just being realistic here. A woman could easily find it suspicious if you don't have a pic of yourself. I've had many excuses from men who "wanted" to meet me. I don't really see how family, friends, or employers are able to find you on a dating site. Are you saying they're on here? If they are, and you have to hide your face, it makes me wonder if any woman would bother meeting you if you just want to hide all the time. What sort of woman wants a guy who says "Quick.Hide. My friends are coming"? It sounds suspect.

no photo
Fri 12/06/13 09:40 AM
I would never try to meet a lady on here without sending my pic to her first. I have a job where professional boundaries are a Hugh part of the gig. Have to have a very firm line between my personal life and my work life.

teebee79's photo
Fri 12/06/13 09:45 AM

I would never try to meet a lady on here without sending my pic to her first. I have a job where professional boundaries are a Hugh part of the gig. Have to have a very firm line between my personal life and my work life.


then Houston we have a problem ohwell

Most women will delete a profile with no pic , especially one that asks for a pic in return.

Jus sayen'

teebee79's photo
Fri 12/06/13 09:50 AM
And not for nothing SoDown4U....

Some of us have equally high profile careers, but We want to meet people. Anyone who judges that... I wouldn't give a flying FU.. Fuss Budget... what they thought!:angry:

Good Luck to you regardless.



isaac_dede's photo
Fri 12/06/13 09:54 AM

I would never try to meet a lady on here without sending my pic to her first. I have a job where professional boundaries are a Hugh part of the gig. Have to have a very firm line between my personal life and my work life.


This sounds suspicious to me, I mean I understand separate personal life and career life, but to such an extent that you can't post a picture on a dating site, makes me think one of two things.


Either A. It's not really your professional life you are worried about finding out about this site, it is instead your personal life...Wife, Girlfriend, Etc, Etc.

Or B. Your professional life centers around some sort of relationship counseling/dating/or something in a similar field where if someone in your circle found out it would discredit you.

Either way it's not so good, A. You're a sneak, and B. you're a phony.

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Fri 12/06/13 09:56 AM

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Fri 12/06/13 10:29 AM


I would never try to meet a lady on here without sending my pic to her first. I have a job where professional boundaries are a Hugh part of the gig. Have to have a very firm line between my personal life and my work life.


This sounds suspicious to me, I mean I understand separate personal life and career life, but to such an extent that you can't post a picture on a dating site, makes me think one of two things.


Either A. It's not really your professional life you are worried about finding out about this site, it is instead your personal life...Wife, Girlfriend, Etc, Etc.

Or B. Your professional life centers around some sort of relationship counseling/dating/or something in a similar field where if someone in your circle found out it would discredit you.

Either way it's not so good, A. You're a sneak, and B. you're a phony.


Amen!

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Fri 12/06/13 10:32 AM

I copied and pasted this off your profile:

"No picture until I get to know you and can be sure you don't work in my field or are gossipy"

Red Flag~ Creepynoway


I mean,I live aaaaaaall the in the E of Africa,how'd I know what you do,gossip about you or what ever??
Aaaayyyyy man!! Sies!

no photo
Fri 12/06/13 04:16 PM

Just being realistic here. A woman could easily find it suspicious if you don't have a pic of yourself. I've had many excuses from men who "wanted" to meet me. I don't really see how family, friends, or employers are able to find you on a dating site. Are you saying they're on here? If they are, and you have to hide your face, it makes me wonder if any woman would bother meeting you if you just want to hide all the time. What sort of woman wants a guy who says "Quick.Hide. My friends are coming"? It sounds suspect.


This.

Like seriously, what are the chances of anyone you know in real life actually finding you on a dating site, unless they're on the same one. And if they are, who the heck are they to criticize???

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Fri 12/06/13 04:17 PM


I copied and pasted this off your profile:

"No picture until I get to know you and can be sure you don't work in my field or are gossipy"

Red Flag~ Creepynoway


I mean,I live aaaaaaall the in the E of Africa,how'd I know what you do,gossip about you or what ever??
Aaaayyyyy man!! Sies!


laugh drinker

catchme_ifucan's photo
Fri 12/06/13 05:05 PM
Edited by catchme_ifucan on Fri 12/06/13 05:06 PM
It's not like your on here under your real name.
Quit being paranoid.
There is nothing sneaky or pervish about goofing in the Community & meeting nice people.
If your on here just for sex then just post some sexy pic & play just in the meat market.

no photo
Fri 12/06/13 10:23 PM

I would never try to meet a lady on here without sending my pic to her first. I have a job where professional boundaries are a Hugh part of the gig. Have to have a very firm line between my personal life and my work life.


Heeeeeeeeyyyyy!!!

WELCOME!!

Wise decision!

Goodluck in your search!!