Topic: Engagements
GDkarma's photo
Wed 12/04/13 10:54 PM
Edited by GDkarma on Wed 12/04/13 11:01 PM
I was Engadged and my fianc� went out if the relationship and cheated . He had the women in the blind until she went through his phone and seen wife . She then called me n told me he was cheating and he has got her pregnant I was happy for her telling me and not hiding even though it was his place to tell me but I appreciate her for that .....
So I would like to know was I crazy for telling him I was going stick it out with him ? Even though I just up n left cause it was to stuck in my mind and this his first child ..

And needless to say I went back to were I was from cause I left my home to go to his home but good thing I left my home to someone

LovelyAbby's photo
Thu 12/05/13 12:49 AM
Its good you found out now before u married him. If he truly loves you, he wouldn't cheat on you. The same goes for women who cheat on their men. He is a loser...youll find someone who loves and wants only you. chon up! :D

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Thu 12/05/13 01:14 AM
In one sense it was good of her to let you know. In another sense, how can you be sure? I'm not trying to get you all angry by questioning the other woman. It's just that sometimes I've known men and women to make stuff up, to get the person they're attracted to, all to themselve's. In order to do that, if the person they have a crush on is already in a relationship, then what craftier way to steal him, than to pretend he/she is with them? What did the guy have to say about it all? Funny how it's always the other woman or other man doing the warning. I think you should get proof from the guy, to make sure that other woman isn't lying. He may have cheated, but don't always assume you know someone is guilty before you know for sure. ;)

GDkarma's photo
Thu 12/05/13 03:24 AM
Shy it's real she's due February he told me that he is having a girl and that he didn't mean to get her prego I just left him alone I wanted to work on it but I said forget it because this is both of them first baby .....
Lovely yes I'm waiting patient for what's coming for me I know it's something good

teebee79's photo
Thu 12/05/13 09:00 AM

Shy it's real she's due February he told me that he is having a girl and that he didn't mean to get her prego I just left him alone I wanted to work on it but I said forget it because this is both of them first baby .....
Lovely yes I'm waiting patient for what's coming for me I know it's something good


Good For you! flowers and I'm sorry you were put in this situation

no photo
Thu 12/05/13 09:06 AM
i love u darling

msharmony's photo
Thu 12/05/13 09:43 AM

I was Engadged and my fianc� went out if the relationship and cheated . He had the women in the blind until she went through his phone and seen wife . She then called me n told me he was cheating and he has got her pregnant I was happy for her telling me and not hiding even though it was his place to tell me but I appreciate her for that .....
So I would like to know was I crazy for telling him I was going stick it out with him ? Even though I just up n left cause it was to stuck in my mind and this his first child ..

And needless to say I went back to were I was from cause I left my home to go to his home but good thing I left my home to someone




u aren't crazy, people make mistakes, some more terrible and hurtful than others



forgiveness and trust are strong virtues and couples have survived infidelity to become even stonger

its really just a personal choice about what we can and cant, or will and wont handle,,,,