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Topic: turn offs and on's
Mississippigal2003's photo
Sat 03/01/14 11:34 AM
Turn on- pretty lips, masculine hands, smooth talker, bad boys but real good men, sweaty hardworking man, kind of cocky alpha males (I'm getting turned on thinking about it lol)

Turn off- pretentious, arrogance, passive aggressiveness, isn't masculine, picky eaters, isn't dominate

flyfreemay2013's photo
Sat 03/01/14 11:53 AM
Boy defiant turn offs
some one who can not show affection
some one who can't communicate
some one who is not willing to do anything I want to do or try new things.
no respect.

Turn ons
honesty
respect for me and my kids
affection
romance
his eyes
smile
oh I am a sucker for lower abs.
if he can make me laugh.

Ok I have a list. it goes on and on.

isaac_dede's photo
Sat 03/01/14 12:22 PM
I could go on and on about how love/respect/honesty/loyalty...but I won't because frankly I find it stupid. What person doesn't find those things attractive...

I've yet to find a woman who says you know what I'm really attracted to dishonesty, oh and also if he cheats on me....just get's my fires burning...

So rant over,

going on the physical and physical characteristics

Voice! Voice! Voice! i'm sorry if you sound like Fran Drescher...doesn't matter if you look like Jessica Alba in Dark Angel i just can't do it....

My other biggest turn-off is someone chewing with their mouth open....i've gotten up and walked away from dates because of that one...sure i could have said something...but if they haven't learned how to chew with their mouth closed by the time their are an adult...not worth it.

Turn-ons

A woman who isn't afraid of a trying new things...even dangerous ones...for example after jumping off a waterfall into the pool below...nothing sexier than looking up and seeing her jumping right after....


no1phD's photo
Sat 03/01/14 12:31 PM
.. turn off
. pain..

. turn on
. pain...mmmyes.mmmm. please..

panchovanilla's photo
Sat 03/01/14 12:48 PM
Edited by panchovanilla on Sat 03/01/14 12:49 PM
Turn off...domineering and thinks everyone else is stupid, when in fact, most things she says make as much sense as horse poop in a punch bowl.
Turn on...nice girls

JKlaugh

Can laugh effortlessly, without sounding like a mating goose. Open minded. Big sparkly eyes.
There is more, but it's rated higher than pg13.

no photo
Sat 03/01/14 03:43 PM
Turn Ons:
well mannered
intelligent
low quiet laugh
positive...can do outlook
consistent/stable
warm smile
sense of humor


Turn offs
Tight pants/shirts or sloppy pants/shirts
physically and mentally lazy
loud/brash/cocky
Petty/spiteful/mean
a weak handshake
whiner/complainer
greedy/materialistic

HoneyFly's photo
Sat 03/01/14 04:05 PM
Turn off : Close-mindedness :)

mjwalker858's photo
Mon 03/03/14 09:58 PM
women with nice hands and feet are a major turn on and women who dont shave their arm pits major turn off

Choobobabe's photo
Mon 03/03/14 10:08 PM
I don't really mind any looks so anything goes there basically. ^^;; My attraction to a person is defined purely on personality it seems.....

Turn on:
Nerds and Fanboys
Talking science to me
Having similar interests and hobbies
Majour gamers

Turn off:
Vain, arrogant, and know-it-alls
Guys who think they're God's gift to women
Guys who like me only for my looks
Boring, can't ever hold a conversation types

Mississippigal2003's photo
Mon 03/03/14 10:37 PM
Another turn on is him having a handful of my hair :):):):)

cococabeza's photo
Mon 03/03/14 10:42 PM

.. turn off
. pain..

. turn on
. pain...mmmyes.mmmm. please..

..Pain caused to u or by u...?... just curious, mr. Gray...

no photo
Wed 03/05/14 05:21 AM
Turn offs: men who r so stuck on themselves that they hv to down grade women..u then know that they don't hv self convidence


Turn on romance before you get to the bedroom maybe start in the morning with flowers then just tl it thru the day.then u will get ye treat leader...get it, got it. ...good..lol

no photo
Wed 03/05/14 06:42 AM

Turn offs: men who r so stuck on themselves that they hv to down grade women..u then know that they don't hv self convidence


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no photo
Wed 03/05/14 07:05 AM
IDK if I can list all of them...here's a few

turn ons - genuine earnestness, genuine attraction, genuine honesty & intelligence...whatever it is that is is genuine

turnoffs - negativity directed at me, bad attitudes about women in general, excusemakers, refusing to take responsibility

mjwalker858's photo
Sat 06/25/16 09:37 PM
I love women who have nice feet and and.paint their nails

lovethelake20's photo
Sun 06/26/16 07:17 PM
This would be a long list but I'll just do 5 each

Turn on - 1.) good with kids
2.) eyes contact 3.) hardworker 4.) bright smile 5.) I like it when I guy can be sassy with me

Turn off - 1.) Smoking!!! 2.) Drinking and chew are okay just don't do it in front of me 3.) 5'8 and under (I'm sorry you have to be taller then me 4.) no drivers license 5.) no job

no photo
Sun 06/26/16 09:07 PM

whats your biggest turn on and turn off in a male or female?


I don't really have a long lists of turn ons and turn offs. I just want someone who is honest, trustworthy , someone who can love me for what I am. Liking and loving a person doesn't need a list, you'll just feel it in your heart and you won't even know what hit you:smile:

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