Drink a nice cold beverage and chill life is good,good things will come, if not your alive do something that makes you happy don't wait on somebody else to do that for you cause it won't happen everyone is out for themselves peace and love haha....

i wouldn't go into this with your situation, you need fixes and people fast, and this place is not even majority human and those that are mostly are afraid of going outside their preconceived image of perfect for dates so you're unlikely to get anything

it is good advise not to jump in another relationship bfor ur over the or just to soon i met a great girl on pof but the back and forth with my kids mom ruined that one but u hav to date to find that next great one

This site is a ****in joke

I think you get what you put in... there have been guys that I was into until they said something stupid

Get active in the forums and see, use the tools the site offers..mutual match, you can also use the advanced settings and search, it will bring up a bunch of people and start talking to people. OR go out and talk to some real people

Are you insinuating that there is life outside the matrix ?

The Matrix is everywhere. It is all around us. You can see it when you look out your window or when you turn on your television. You can feel it when you go to work... when you go to church... when you pay your taxes. It is the world that has been pulled over your eyes to blind you from the truth.

I've seen some things...

yeah? ... on sites like these , I think we all have!

hugs sweets ;( that's awful xoxo

So sorry about what happened with your ex. I agree with those who say give yourself time. I joined this site during one of those lonely monents we all ler ourselves fall into. Then I found maybe my heart isn't in it right now. I have found many interesting people.

Well I've meet some really awesome people online ( women ) I suggest just being uoirself. I have a date 2moro nite !!! I wont walk in expecting anything and be a paying gentlemen. I'm greatful for all the friemds I have meet on mingle2 and my phone is red hot... Be a gentlemen and stick to your values , No one is perfect , But happiness is both people enjoying the company of each other.

Well I've meet some really awesome people online ( women ) I suggest just being yourself. I have a date 2moro nite !!! I wont walk in expecting anything and be a paying gentlemen. I'm greatful for all the friemds I have meet on mingle2 and my phone is red hot with interesting ladies from all ova.. Be a gentlemen and stick to your values and bring that cheeky humour and sensitivity ? No one is perfect , But happiness is both people enjoying the company of each
other and laughing the romantic nite away..

thanks 4 advice

hi. Im a newbie here. Just want 2 have friends. .

I've banged more women from online sources than I can shake a couple hundred sticks at. lol

If you can write a decent email, i.e. one that gets her interested in TALKING to you, then you are half way home. After that, talk on the phone and meet if you are both still interested.

The secret to a good email(and in part, the phone call):

1. Do not talk about sex
2. Do not talk about love
3. Do not talk about dating
4. Figure out, from her profile, something she might be interested in talking about. If she doesn't say much, look for clues in her photos. Ask questions about what you see and relate your own experiences as well.
5. Write no less than 2 paragraphs.
6. Write no more than 4 paragraphs.

Good luck.

Thank you... Thank you from the bottom of my heart
It's men like you that makes it So much easier being single and celibate.
Keep Lonliness alive

I think I love you for writing this.