What Are Your Thoughts On Someone Bringing Up Your Past History When
They Wherent Even In Your Life.When Your Gone Out Of Town And They Go
Threw Everything In Your House To Try Find Anything In Your Past (In
Your Dairy) The Past Should Be Our's Not For Everyone To Go Around
Talking About What They Have Read?

What...?

if its out its out dont let it bother you we all have skeleton in our
closet

I think that in a relationship, a true love relationship, that all comes
out during the "relationship". After all, isn't a true relationship
about sharing each others life!? I think that in time of getting to know
each other, the appropiate time will come when those conversations are
not all that uncomfortable to talk about.

That's rude! If they want to know anything just ask.

yes I agree just ask and i shall tell yes but stay out my personal
things I mean cant we not have anything to our self in a relationship
That just stays with yourself as long it's not hurting the one that your
with.

((Ontario))
he went threw my things while I was in San Diego And Palm Springs
Calf.He Found An Old Dairy Where I Talked About My Past But That Was
Just For Me Not Anyone Else Hell It Wasn't Hurting Us My Past That Is!
He Read Where I Talked About Liking And Being With A Black Man And He
Went Off And Left Me While I Was Out Of Town I Mean WTF Some People Have
No Fucking Since About Themself!

((Ontario))
he went threw my things while I was in San Diego And Palm Springs
Calf.He Found An Old Dairy Where I Talked About My Past But That Was
Just For Me Not Anyone Else Hell It Wasn't Hurting Us My Past That Is!
He Read Where I Talked About Liking And Being With A Black Man And He
Went Off And Left Me While I Was Out Of Town I Mean WTF Some People Have
No Fucking Since About Themself!

Was it X rated talk...?

Damn let the past be the past. And can we concentrate on the present
and the future.

yes with Micheal1313 thats all he wanted to talk about was sex and what
I like in sex his nick name that ladies call him plus oral thats it.

I dont worry about the past, there's no future in it.
If this gentleman thinks that he can learn more from sneaking around,
rather than ask, I would say that there is a trust issue. If he trusted
you there would be no problem. Whether or not you have things to hide
should not matter. evidently the man is looking for something to hold
over the relationship, and I would talk and if that doesnt work, I would
move on and find someone for whom would trust what you say, and never
question you.
Good luck
P. Christopher

thats what I've been telling the man that he has a very big trust issue
with people in general.His sneaking around got way out of control for me
if he couldnt ask me then why sneak.He has moved on right back to his
x-wife i feel thats why he looked around tooooooo try have a reason to
leave me.