Whenever I go to make " matches ", like 99% of the matches haven't been on here in over a month. There are very very few that have been on in the past week, so how is that option reliable at all?

Happy Thanksgiving Day to everyone.

I don't understand the Mutual Match process, I used to think they were people who had tried to "match" with your profile, but now I think it's just people the system thinks will be compatible with you based on your location and probably your age. So I don't like Mutual Match and I click "no" on all of the possible matches.

As for a lot of people not being active, I assume they either found someone or lost interest in the site. Join the forums, that's the best way to connect with active people.

Happy Thanksgiving to you, too.

Thanks Paintecards01. I guess I could look into the forums. I will try it out later today if I have any down time then.

The matches are just a helping hand to see who is in your area. If someone does interest you, you can look over their profile and say " YES" on them or " No" if they don't.
It is strictly based on your area, not personality or anything.
And if they like you too... you can send them a message.
It's a just a little something extra in your search, along with the forums of course.