I rest my case. *sigh*

In a way, I AGREE with Phoenix. She already said yes to him by having sex.
According to the Bible, believe it or not, when they have sex they are ALREADY MARRIED (Stuck together) Document or no document.(This is a next topic) "Thou shalt go in unto her and become her husband" Deut: 21: 11-15; Gen: 38:8; 1Cor: 7:36 etc etc.

So she is saying that she may not be ready to collect the noose (marriage certificate.) yet to HANG HIM.
Well she's BETTER MARRY HIM BEFORE HE FINDS OUT WHAT HE IS GETTING INTO.

Now I admire Adj4u's and certain others contribution. They say what they think. Right or wrong.
They did not attack me!!!!

As soon as I tell Ms Jesse I love her STILL and and loving her more and more EVERYDAY, she has STOPPED talking to me.
THAT'S NOT FAIR!!!

The more I read this thread the more I think Greiving is her man..holy moly!!

Where does it say that she had sex with this guy?? All it says is that she is engaged!! Good lord Greiving, you can be engaged to someone and not have sex...you do realize this right? Not once did this girl mention sex!! YOU did though...several times!!
I tell you what, if you were her man...I would tell her to RUN and run very fast. You are very confusing...in fact, do you even understand what the hell you are talking about?

Unsure which comedian or clown you want to help? Get on the stage!!
Do you know ANY young couple, in this Century, or the last, (or the one before that) that are in LOVE SINCE HIGH SCHOOL, and ENGAGED, that are NOT having sex, and will WAIT UNTIL next 4 years??
When you were 18. You had waited???
PLEASE????????????!!!!!! DO NOT TAKE ANOTHER DRINK!

And by the way, I love you too eh Unsure even though you do not WANT TO show me a whole pic so that I COULD SCOPE YOU UP AND DOWN.

Thats funny Greiving...I don't see ONE picture of you!! Whats your excuse??

Actually I do know some people that don't have sex..not everyone has sex you know. There are people out there that are virgins that want to wait until they are married....I am sure that you were not one of those people because you found that very amusing! Glad I made your day

Unsure comes back on the stage again!!?. Audience APPLAUDS loudly:
I know some people that say they do not have sex. They 9 months pregnant and STILL insisting, that they NEVER had sex.

I suppose you will follow them around with a powerful telescope to see when the penis enters the vagina or when they decide to drinK a penis? Because they won't run to their Momma and say: "Mommy!! Mommy!! I JUST TAKE A MAN! OR WOULD THEY?

When you had sex for the first time, you had ran to tell you momma. Right?
Tell another joke AGAIN Unsure. The audience is waiting!!

IF HE TRUELY LOVES YOU,HE WILL HONOR AND RESPECT YOU. IF HE IS PRESSURING YOU NOW WHAT WILL IT BE LIKE WHEN YOU DO MARRY HIM? THEIR ARE ISSUES ALL READY WITH THE PARENTS, DON'T ARGUE WITH HIM LET HIM SAY WHATEVER HE WANTS TAKE IT IN, THINK DEEPLY ABOUT WHAT HE IS SAY. BUT MOST OF ALL LOOK INSIDE YOURSELF YOUR HEART,MIND,AND SOUL AND FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT. BECAUSE IT SOUNDS LIKE HE IS ONLY THINKING ABOUT WHAT HE WANTS AND ITS YOUR LIVE YOU HAVE A SAY SO TO BE CONTROLLED OR NOT.

And they say women are pyscho??

I guess you have no friends that have remained virgins huh? I feel bad for you that you run with that kind of people

Greiving...read what RMART said!! Now he is a man...he also thought that he was being controlling. So, its not only women that thing that!!

Hey
You need to do what you feel is right. I have been down that road and I had to just get away from a bad situation. I loved her but it was a bad situation. I did what I thought and felt was right. That is a choice you have to deicide.

hi sweetie.
oh please, please take a deep breath, and close your eyes and exhale. If he's rushing you to do anything, step back. stand your ground. tell him you are not ready to move so quickly, and step back. Watch for 'true color' reactions. If he's mad at all, beware.
You may already feel it. Pay attention to your gut feeling.

Rmart is SPEAKING for ALL men? How much did he get paid to say that. He is working by chain or puppet strings? What prize is he LOOKING for?
I just went on his profile and saw where he CLAIMS to LOVE the Lord. I do not know if is a Bishop in the Church of the Pornosites of what BECAUSE all Churches and even other Religions like Hindu or Islam WOULD advise that Since it is OBVIOUS that they ARE screwing, (the lady says:"Things are great!" they engage. They in love since high school. They lost each other and found each other AGAIN.)they should DO THE SOCIALLLY ACCEPTED DECENT THING AND DOCUMENT THEIR RELATIONSHIP.

If she doesn't do that while SNEAKING around sexing, the Bible calls the sneaking around: "a whoring in her father's house."

What will be happening is they will be backward and forward at each others parents screwwing WHENEVER they get the chance, and if the parents won't allow it? Well the parents MUST go out at some time and lover will use that time to mash up the poohsie!!

So your friend Rmart would be the ONLY dissenting voice in the congregation. There you have WASTED your bribe!! He IS an imposter if he DOESN'T know what Churches will do. Send that question to a TV Evangelist like Pastor Hagee, T.D. Jakes etc, etc. They will say EXACTLY what I am saying. "Is either they abstain and do not register or CANNOT ABSTAIN for 4 years so 'get registered."


The OTHER thing is. The lass NEVER said that he is the controlling type. At age 18, she does not know WHAT IS controlling? And she is with him 'since High School? You think that she is stupid? If she was stupid she would NEVER come here to get opinions. But you see OLDER women WANT TO make her a MANHATER.
That is WHY the Bible says that "OLDER women SHOULD teach the YOUNGER women to be SOBER AND TO LOVE THEIR OWM HUSBANDS."

The devil do not like that. So he breathes into some OLDER women and schools them into 'HOW TO MAKE MENHATERS OUT OF YOUNGER WOMEN. BAH!!!!
So the FIRST thought that comeS to SOME minds in their advice is, to GIVE her lessons on 'HOW TO BREAK UP WITH HIM FAST.
To some, when THEY were 18, they were adults. But they have forgotten their past. Now thay call this young lady that the Government says is NOW an ADULT, 'only 18, and not old enough to get registered.

So audience get ready. Unsure is going to tell some MORE JOKES!!

Grieving why are you so angry?
You quote scripture and then spew anger...What's up with that?

Here comes a pretty woman named SadieJ telling lies on me. Do you not see me sending flowers for people? Even you I call pretty and did I not send flowers for you. Here's some more
I am simply very expressive as I speak the truth.And I'm sure you like my style. Everybody does. Only that some are envious and jealous and are ANGRY as I am STEALING their show.

Become financially stable first. Youre on the right track,he isnt. A married couple take care of their own and not he mom. Listen to your heart, not him. No matter how convincing he may be.

Greiving...I think you are a very bitter and angry controlling man...is that your problem? You hate when you can't control what everyone thinks?
Its just a thread...calm down and don't get so angry. I will let you have all the control you want on here. I am realizing why you are single...controlling and dominating!! Women in your age group doesn't like that~~so heres some flowers for you, have a good day

Ihanks for the flowers Unsure. At last u getting to like me! I reaaly hope U would have sent me a kiss though