Ive been on here for a day but not one mesaage and think most people onhere are fake . Any tips?

Learn some patience and post in the forums, that's my advice to you.

Thank u

Not all people on here are fake! there are a bunch of us that are real maybe if you presented yourself a little bit better and don't act like your desperate maybe you will have much better success. You have to be real and have some respect for the lady's on here or your never going to have any luck. The things that will get you no replies is... if your here for foolish reason (sex) they are not stupid so don't run that game on them. Be who you are and show some respect!

Im showing respect and not deaperate. But thanks

Well put guardianangelman!

Jesusprincessmt what he said is true but he should read what I said. I said most people on here are fake not all and im not talking about sex to no1. If im messaging someone saying hi etc and dont get a reply it is pretty rude. So maybe some people need respect. Thats all.

You will get out of this community exactly what you put into it.

If the first few posts are how fake this site is then why would anyone reply to you.

Your profile tells a whole lot of nothing. I don't see schooling, employment, any affiliations to anything or anyone.

Maybe you think you are the Man but you sure done a poor job documenting it.

Flip the script. If some female, I assume that is what you are trying to get to respond to you, approached you the same way would you respond or blow her off as lazy, egotistical, and rude?

Your personality, interests, contribution to the process; or lack there of, is exactly why in 3 seconds someone hits the next key.

Word to the wise you don't demand respect you earn it and you give it; sometimes it is not accepted or returned but it is more about your own self respect not bravado and pretending you are Mack Daddy when you might not even be good for a Big Mac.

Username sounds crass, like you're trying to big yourself up, pictures are too posed and again giving the impression that you 'fancy' yourself as a big gun. Absolutely no information in your profile (and why would anyone want your advice when they don't know you? - not exactly a great USP). The non-disclosure of marital status is off putting and a red flag. You asked for advice, so I'm afraid this is mine. Good luck.

Dan da man90, You just joined the site and conclude most people being fake and then GuidianAngelMan corrected you by given an example. Most guys found solace in sending nudges to a girl they havent known or have conversation with while some guys would approach by asking a girl for her cell phone number. What do you think would be her response? She'd simply look for block user and continue her search.
Please don't be offended. Take time to look for her. I wish you find her.

like any site you will get real and scammers! frankly, turn the light bulb on and sift thru the ****, then things will come to light. gl on mingle

I don't reply to emails sent by people I'm not interested in either. I don't think it's rude. I do it because if I reply back with "not interested" or "no thanks" the way men claim they want women to do, I set myself up for a lot of ******** comments.

"Why not??? I'm a nice guy, you must be a lesbian or you must hate all men, you stupid *****" or something equally lame and childish. Most men don't take rejection well (for the bleeding hearts, notice I said "some men" not all men....)

So to save myself time and to avoid ********, I don't say anything. And if they gave off a creepy vibe, I block them, instead of just deleting their mail.

Also, replying means you actually give a damn about what the other person feels, and most of the time, unless i actually know you, I don't. It's not rude, it's not cold, it just is what it is...

Give it time, there's someone for everyone, maybe you'll still get lucky...

I agree with this. One day is never enough time to for folks to see your profile. Posting in the Forums is really something you really need to consider. People will never how you think or anything about you. Profiles only give people so much to read. Virtual sites as this one need feedback from you. As this says, what you put in is what you get out of it. The effort is worth it if you really want to find out about others and maybe even yourself. Best of luck with approaching this with dignity and respect for others and even for yourself. Peace!

Join the forums, this is how people really get to know you! Usually if you just email people and they have not seen you around..they don't answer you. They think..do I know this person?
On your profile, finish filling it out. Tell what you want in a woman and fill in all the questions. When you don't fill in your Status we think you are married and just don't want to admit it.
Jump in the forums and get to know all the real people because we are here!!!

I think you might be right. It's a shame it really is. People in general are scum and deserve eternal hell where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth. Mingle is free but unfortunately there are many people out there that want to spoil it. Jesus was right; a time will come when the wheat will be separated from the chaff. Root it out and burn it!

Take it away Arthur Brown:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NOErZuzZpS8

Burn chaff burn....

And you spent all 24hrs of the 1day emailing girls/women?

1 day is just to do your profile-even more than 1day!

Patience,reach out,do forums...am sure you'll find some one soon or later!

Lotsaluck!

So true....

Uuuuuufffffff...
Showoff!!
((Nice pic -leggy killers)!!