Topic: Ever Re-read Your Posts And Felt Embarrassed and regret?
uche9aa's photo
Mon 11/18/13 08:42 AM


Ever re-read your posts and felt embarrassed and regret?


Yes...blushing
Be bold and give details because its end of the year reconciliations and fence mendings!

uche9aa's photo
Mon 11/18/13 08:43 AM


Ever re-read your posts and felt embarrassed and regret?


Yes...blushing
Be bold and give details because its end of the year reconciliations and fence mendings on mingle2!

ridewytepony's photo
Mon 11/18/13 09:10 AM


Which one was the biggest boner you had?
The biggest of all them?
spock
Confessor? enter the confessional and let me know when you are ready


its your Quarter, spill it first since you have
excepted Jesus as your Lawyer and
have brought this to our attention.
Respectfully yours,
Pony:smile:

uche9aa's photo
Mon 11/18/13 09:24 AM



Which one was the biggest boner you had?
The biggest of all them?
spock
Confessor? enter the confessional and let me know when you are ready


its your Quarter, spill it first since you have
excepted Jesus as your Lawyer and
have brought this to our attention.
Respectfully yours,
Pony:smile:
Pony,i never "excepted"......yours faithfully,Uche9aa.hahaha

ridewytepony's photo
Mon 11/18/13 11:31 AM




Which one was the biggest boner you had?
The biggest of all them?
spock
Confessor? enter the confessional and let me know when you are ready


its your Quarter, spill it first since you have
excepted Jesus as your Lawyer and
have brought this to our attention.
Respectfully yours,
Pony:smile:
Pony,i never "excepted"......yours faithfully,Uche9aa.hahaha

interesting,but most do,they have to let 'him' in?:angel:

luvmeforlife's photo
Mon 11/18/13 11:37 AM
all the time :)

uche9aa's photo
Mon 11/18/13 11:39 AM





Which one was the biggest boner you had?
The biggest of all them?
spock
Confessor? enter the confessional and let me know when you are ready


its your Quarter, spill it first since you have
excepted Jesus as your Lawyer and
have brought this to our attention.
Respectfully yours,
Pony:smile:
Pony,i never "excepted"......yours faithfully,Uche9aa.hahaha

interesting,but most do,they have to let 'him' in?:angel:
He accepted my helpless soul rather,not the other way round.

uche9aa's photo
Mon 11/18/13 11:56 AM

all the time :)
Details and examples please

ridewytepony's photo
Mon 11/18/13 12:24 PM


all the time :)
Details and examples please


please do

((Yes and I understood what you meant when
it was opposite of except

no photo
Mon 11/18/13 12:46 PM
Indeed I do. Even though I mean MOST of what I say in my forum post's, I wouldn't mean for any of those things to come off as harsh or ragey. Sometimes I really like to take the mickey out of myself, so I do jest a lot. I tend to not believe anyone who say's they never have even just one regret. Really? Not even ONE?

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 11/18/13 12:47 PM

Ever re-read your posts and felt embarrassed and regret?


OMG at least once a day. The little stuff like typos and spello's are really kind of more funny than embarrassing but yea. Drives me nuts if I have to ramble around to get my thought on the page. That embarrasses me and I am glad most are very tolerant.

Real regrets...only if I truly hurt someone's feelings (that hurts me much deeper than most would believe); especially if it is unintentional. Or someone I like or feel protective towards. To me someone's soul hurts for something I said then I owe them some of mine. I try to say I am sorry and take whatever punishment I have coming. Lot of times I punish myself way worse. But I still kind of believe sorry is a very limited tool and it doesn't ever really undo the pain. Don't think it is an accident that there is no computer key except delete so I try, not saying I always succeed, to read and check before I hit the enter key.

If I ruffle a few feather's to make point nah not so much. I think there is a time and a place for empathy and tact then sometimes the most humane thing IS in your face, over the top, shake someone up, or shut them up, by embarrassing the fire out of them. It is sometimes a sting now or a bullet later. You can get away with a lot of "stuff" on line and live to play another day but you take it out in the real world and it might not be so funny.

However I firmly believe every one gets hurt in a fight and petty stuff has too high a price to let things get out of hand. I have just walked away from the computer rather than let it get to that level. Some threads I don't even like to get in because I know people are looking for a fight. When a person feels angry and impotent it is really better to stay off the computer because I have never seen anyone win against the delete/off key.

Biggest reason I do not drink is there is NO ONE big enough or bad enough I won't take on and that is dangerous. On line or off. Always kind of sad when I see people I like get messed up and let the bottle do the talking. It is usually pretty obvious. I tend to try to avoid being on line on "bottle" hours. Never fails someone says something "pickled".

I don't like bullies and don't want to be one. Believe me if I want to tear someone a new one I can do it. Could melt this server down with profanity and rage at times so I filter a lot. But have I felt bad that I took someone down that sorely needed it Nope not one second in that case.

Last thought anyone who says they have never said something on line is not really saying much. They haven't open themselves up or let the real feelings out because human feelings are not always pretty.

uche9aa's photo
Tue 11/19/13 12:14 AM

Nope!laugh
I put it to you that you have

Tsean22's photo
Tue 11/19/13 12:46 AM
I could be wrong but I might just need to put up some pics. The only problem is my laptop fights me when I try. Cause I'm cute.... lol!

Conrad_73's photo
Tue 11/19/13 02:15 AM
Edited by Conrad_73 on Tue 11/19/13 02:16 AM


Nope!laugh
I put it to you that you have

I couldn't care less what you put,Mister Lawyer!laugh

peachy78's photo
Tue 11/19/13 02:24 AM
That usually just happens when I'm talking. Lol I think my filter is broken, at least on here I can read what I'm posting first and there is this great thing called a delete button. biggrin

unsure's photo
Tue 11/19/13 03:06 AM
Nope I just tell it like it is!!!

uche9aa's photo
Tue 11/19/13 03:13 AM

Nope I just tell it like it is!!!
You are unsure!

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Tue 11/19/13 10:22 AM
Not one bit... They usually had it coming... eh? smokin

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Tue 11/19/13 10:36 AM

Not one bit... They usually had it coming... eh? smokin


surprised

Hi Bear!waving flowerforyou

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Tue 11/19/13 12:27 PM
Edited by JOHNN111 on Tue 11/19/13 12:31 PM


Not one bit... They usually had it coming... eh? smokin


surprised

Hi Bear!waving flowerforyou


laugh Alright... I regret this post:

Not one bit... They usually had it coming... eh? smokin


Hello Sweetheart! Leigh waving flowerforyou