Greetings to the Mingle2 Community,

I think that many folks don't put enough effort into finding the right person. I've been a boss and I look at what companies put into finding the right fit for corporate positions. So, I figured the least I can do is to put that same kind of effort into find the right guy for me. After all a life partner is much more important that a job.

I have a full life. I'm happy and looking for someone to share my life with. I am one of the busiest gals you'll ever meet. I don't have time to spare. So I put a lot in my profile, so as to not waste anybody's time. Not everybody is going to be a match for everybody. So let's save us both the time, energy and potential heartbreak and put those deal-breakers on the table right up front.

I have found that my confidence (and my deal breaker criteria) makes some men really insecure, but I figure if a guy needs to tear someone down (a potential date), on dating site.... Then they are probably really abusive in a relationship and it's best to find out now.

My philosophy can be encapsulated by the words of McCarthy, Lennon and James:

"Let it be, let it be
Let it be, let it be
Whisper words of wisdom
Let it be"

What do you think?

Welcome to the site !
Not sure how many guys might fit your criteria
But there ARE a lot of nice folks here
Hope you have fun and make some friends too