would u dare if ur and older woman g give me a chance a young 21 yr who trying very hard to a older woman to date

I honestly couldn't say. I'm not an older woman.

i would if i could figure out what kind of English you speak !

I'm a bit confused, your profile says you are a 21 female looking for male? Hmmm, either way I probably wouldn't. 21 is closer to my daughters age than mine. I already have 3 kids...and I'm not that old...just older than you.

No Way. I finally have and empty nest and I am not about to mess it up having a "kid" in underfoot thinking they need to be pampered or tell me how to run my life. Don't need to be an ATM with hair and sure don't need to listen to a twenty something complain about his job or how unfair life is. Don't need a rent a kid servant that I have to teach even the most basic life skills to tolerate being around. Not wasting my space to stock 20 Something toys and don't need someone who is a mooch trying to bother mine.

Wow, you seem so against it lol. I do think it's weird to be with someone that's young enough to be your child though.

The guy was only looking for a date with someone older than himself.

Having a Grumpy day are we?

think about it sometimes we date younger people so that we feel younger and sometimes we date older so that we feel we have the maturity with age. (lol not always the case)

.I would give the guy a chance. Why not..he would be giving me a chance

Well the profile states the OP is a woman, and hasn't been on for a few days...doesn't sound like "she's" wanting a guy...maybe a mom?

LOL what gave you that idea? I have seen this "drama" go on with a few foolish friends and it was exhausting. For a while it was all fun and games but not one time have I ever seen it turn out to be anything but a disaster for all involved. Even the younger guys who thought it was a delightful little romp to start out ended up with major long term problems.

The percentage of "screwed up" older guys I have had tell me they had this kind of factor in their past would make most think about making it a crime. Sadly there are still states where there are still not statutory rape laws for males.

Hey I can get a few years either way. That seems reasonable but someone looking for someone old enough to be a parent that is not healthy or appealing.

Sheesh

no. I am too busy living to worry about dating :)