This mutual match thing is more then a joke. I belive last night or the night before I have clicked on yes and yeah I totally get how people have different opinions etc etc etc.

But how many yes will it take in the end to finally get a real 95% or even 90% mutual match, if you know what I mean.


Just wondering if others feel this mutual match thing is as much as joke or what.

Only reason I say it seem's like a joke is because you say yes and yes etc etc but noting happens.

Maybe it's just me.

Oh well just wondering, I don't need your opinion or views just right out throughs on if this whole mutual match thing has worked for you or not.

Peace.

I said yes and maybe to 14 and got 9 matches . the person you say yes to has to say yes as well or you get nothing

So what do you get when the other person says yes. Just curious.

It seems a joke to me also, because someone still has to be the one to initiate contact.

Yeah that's the same feeling I get SumthinGood4u.

You also only get to see the person's picture, and no real details unless you click on their picture. So they don't give you enough information to rate the person, in my opinion. I don't just go on what a person looks like anymore either so.......

I click maybe on most of 'em. I don't wanna hurt anyone's feeling or leave anyone out. LOL!!!!! Will that get me anything?????????? LOL!!!

Not sure about that SumthinGood4u.

I try to read every one's profile before hitting yes for the most part, some times I've hit yes just for the heck of it but other then that I haven't done so with out reading through there profile unless it's really long etc.

i just ignore it and if someone is interested they will look at my profile

I clicked on dozens and dozens and dozens to say yes (don't want to sound like I am eazy--I said No to many more than that) and never got one match. What, do they people you click on yes or maybe to have to have said yes or maybe to you? I feel jinxed!

For me, the problem with Mutual Match is exactly the same as the problem here in general. All of the people who give me a Yes or a Maybe are 897,000 miles away, and it's fairly obvious (in most cases) they haven't read my profile anyway.

Since my own match options are based on my search preferences, and since I have my search preferences set to within 200 miles, the people I'm rating are all fairly close. And the one single unbreakable rule in the eight months I've been here is that no one anywhere near me can ever talk to me!

By the way, this problem (the fact that locals refuse to acknowledge my existence) is totally and completely unique to this site. That's the main reason I'm not spending as much time here anymore.

and we miss you for it lex!

to hell with mutual match. It is in my profile that I don't use it and if someone is interested in me to e-mail. Got a few. Still get those annoying, "someone wants to meet you" e-mail in my personal e-mail. So what! If they want to meet so bad, they can e-mail me here. Pftttt!

I also say in my profile I am jsut here for friends, so there! That explains it,

Iz -- My girl with glasses deactivated and now I don't even have anyone to obsess over. It's like losing a limb, I tell ya.

Awwwwww, Lex. Sorry. I have pulled back a few bloody stumps myself. Hurts but the limbs always seem to grow back.

Hi izzie

I kinda agree with lex~~~thinking I am the only Buffalo n.y.'er on ths site.Though I have chatted with plenty of people "originally from here". hmmmmmmmm.