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outer is what catches my eye. inner is what keeps me around.
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outer is what catches my eye. inner is what keeps me around. This, a million times, this. |
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Observation About Life #97: Attractiveness is on the outside. Beauty is on the inside.
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Beauty is on the outside (when the person is actually beautiful)
Interest in on the inside (when the person is actually interesting) |
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Beauty is more important than character. I'm quite happy to put up with her annoying personality. But if she's a pig, I don't care how wonderful her personality is, the sex will suffer. And what's the point in having a woman like that.
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Edited by
luvncali
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Fri 10/25/13 01:47 PM
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Well said....CDFCS and Paintecards
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Beauty is more important than character. I'm quite happy to put up with her annoying personality. But if she's a pig, I don't care how wonderful her personality is, the sex will suffer. And what's the point in having a woman like that. Hello fellow shallow person. 
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Both. There has to be a balance or is all for naught.
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Beauty is more important than character. I'm quite happy to put up with her annoying personality. But if she's a pig, I don't care how wonderful her personality is, the sex will suffer. And what's the point in having a woman like that. Hello fellow shallow person.
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Personally i look for confidence.....thats whats sexiest about a woman. Not conceit, confidence! Right. 
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Beauty takes your breath.
Inner beauty takes your breath away. |
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Beauty takes your breath. Inner beauty takes your breath away. 
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Beauty takes your breath. Inner beauty takes your breath away.
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Edited by
mg1959
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Fri 10/25/13 10:16 PM
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I would have to say that one feeds the other. If you are attracted to her inner beauty it's hard to not see her as beauiful on the outside. I think where guys screw up many times (I have too) is when we don't give a chance for the inner beauty to show because we are feeding our lust at the time. If she doesn't appeal to our lust than we loose interest in finding the woman within. Sad really isn't it. And a lot of times guys will also talk the game of wanting the inner but caring for nothing more than the outer. We'll even lie to ourselves if need be, and we certainly lie online. Online is the easiest to paint and play. Goes both ways no doubt and I would think online has more hurting souls than any of us will ever know, or if we're one will ever let on. I'm not gonna lie I have gone through periods like this (looking at the outside only) and after the season passes say "what was that about". There's no way I actually would have gone the long haul with only a play thing. I think all of us (if looking) really do want the real thing, but today it is so turned around that we get pretty confused by the smell of sex, let me also throw in there the smell of things. We have become an outside people. We talk to someone and are sizing them up the whole time to see if they fit that physical wish list. I think that's fun actually but I also think that it blinds us (me) to something perhaps even more sexy and appealing, "something real". I have enjoyed my "something reals" far more than the looks thing. I say that but was married to two bombshells. I think, I hope age has cured that, or at least bent it, but when I am out with one of my girlfriends I still see that outside samplingman trying to push that guy who cares about the inside beauty out of the way. I actually do say to myself "you are blind" at times even now, but I know deep inside that it's the inner beauty that is the only thing I can truly live with long term. Maybe I shouldn't say inner beauty but "real beauty". BTW, what is good looking anyway? Isn't that all a taste thing? I don't think it's so much about lust, but don't you have to be physically attracted to someone in order to sleep with them? For a man there are different answers here. The "lust factor" for a guy is a driving force that can cloud his judgement. Some guys have more control over this than others. For example, we've all seen the bar scene. Last calls come and the guys are on the prowl by the door. Don't think that they are there for much else than... you guessed it lol. I don't want to speak for women cause I'm not one nor do I have their same drive, but I have seen the guy thing in action and not only at bars but in many situations. It's not so much about looks at that point at all, but more the need to be satisfied. If a woman catches a guy (sorry for the language) thinking with the right head she is bound to find a man who thinks of her in the relationship possible way or with respect. With the other head, and the guy is thinking more to satisfy a longing of lust. Guys will commonly use the first as a cover up to get to the second and there are guys who live with the lust factor in charge their whole life. These are guys who really don't know how to separate the two and there are tons of guys like this. I hate to say it but maybe most guys. Their carrying side is like bait on the end of the string as they are thinking about the feeling of getting the booty. This is when you see a lot of these guys act like they are interested till they get the satisfaction filled then somehow turn cold and distant. Your wanting to get closer and he is thinking about getting out of there. It's like a switch goes off in his head that even he doesn't understand. He was even in his own mind very interested but somehow along with the love juice so did his commitment go for taking things further. A lot of times a woman at that point will throw herself in front of the guy to pull him back in but his emotions have already left the building and the woman becomes at that point an object of momment lust instead of a partnered building block of togetherness. Hey, women are the same way so we can't put all this on guys, but it shouldn't be covered up either cause there are many girls out there thinking of their man as someone who loves them with a different type of love than what the guy actually has on his mind. I think the worse thing a person can do is lie to themselm about these very real parts to the makeup of a man. Both the man and the woman should face this kind of thing head on and deal with it in an open way. It's not a bad thing that drives a man but it does come and go in the best of us and to pretend that it doesn't can get messy. |
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I would have to say that one feeds the other. If you are attracted to her inner beauty it's hard to not see her as beauiful on the outside. I think where guys screw up many times (I have too) is when we don't give a chance for the inner beauty to show because we are feeding our lust at the time. If she doesn't appeal to our lust than we loose interest in finding the woman within. Sad really isn't it. And a lot of times guys will also talk the game of wanting the inner but caring for nothing more than the outer. We'll even lie to ourselves if need be, and we certainly lie online. Online is the easiest to paint and play. Goes both ways no doubt and I would think online has more hurting souls than any of us will ever know, or if we're one will ever let on. I'm not gonna lie I have gone through periods like this (looking at the outside only) and after the season passes say "what was that about". There's no way I actually would have gone the long haul with only a play thing. I think all of us (if looking) really do want the real thing, but today it is so turned around that we get pretty confused by the smell of sex, let me also throw in there the smell of things. We have become an outside people. We talk to someone and are sizing them up the whole time to see if they fit that physical wish list. I think that's fun actually but I also think that it blinds us (me) to something perhaps even more sexy and appealing, "something real". I have enjoyed my "something reals" far more than the looks thing. I say that but was married to two bombshells. I think, I hope age has cured that, or at least bent it, but when I am out with one of my girlfriends I still see that outside samplingman trying to push that guy who cares about the inside beauty out of the way. I actually do say to myself "you are blind" at times even now, but I know deep inside that it's the inner beauty that is the only thing I can truly live with long term. Maybe I shouldn't say inner beauty but "real beauty". BTW, what is good looking anyway? Isn't that all a taste thing? I don't think it's so much about lust, but don't you have to be physically attracted to someone in order to sleep with them? For a man there are different answers here. The "lust factor" for a guy is a driving force that can cloud his judgement. Some guys have more control over this than others. For example, we've all seen the bar scene. Last calls come and the guys are on the prowl by the door. Don't think that they are there for much else than... you guessed it lol. I don't want to speak for women cause I'm not one nor do I have their same drive, but I have seen the guy thing in action and not only at bars but in many situations. It's not so much about looks at that point at all, but more the need to be satisfied. If a woman catches a guy (sorry for the language) thinking with the right head she is bound to find a man who thinks of her in the relationship possible way or with respect. With the other head, and the guy is thinking more to satisfy a longing of lust. Guys will commonly use the first as a cover up to get to the second and there are guys who live with the lust factor in charge their whole life. These are guys who really don't know how to separate the two and there are tons of guys like this. I hate to say it but maybe most guys. Their carrying side is like bait on the end of the string as they are thinking about the feeling of getting the booty. This is when you see a lot of these guys act like they are interested till they get the satisfaction filled then somehow turn cold and distant. Your wanting to get closer and he is thinking about getting out of there. It's like a switch goes off in his head that even he doesn't understand. He was even in his own mind very interested but somehow along with the love juice so did his commitment go for taking things further. A lot of times a woman at that point will throw herself in front of the guy to pull him back in but his emotions have already left the building and the woman becomes at that point an object of momment lust instead of a partnered building block of togetherness. Hey, women are the same way so we can't put all this on guys, but it shouldn't be covered up either cause there are many girls out there thinking of their man as someone who loves them with a different type of love than what the guy actually has on his mind. No offense, but I have a short attention span, ie. I'm too lazy to read all that. Do you agree that you have to find someone attractive in order to sleep with them or not? |
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I would have to say that one feeds the other. If you are attracted to her inner beauty it's hard to not see her as beauiful on the outside. I think where guys screw up many times (I have too) is when we don't give a chance for the inner beauty to show because we are feeding our lust at the time. If she doesn't appeal to our lust than we loose interest in finding the woman within. Sad really isn't it. And a lot of times guys will also talk the game of wanting the inner but caring for nothing more than the outer. We'll even lie to ourselves if need be, and we certainly lie online. Online is the easiest to paint and play. Goes both ways no doubt and I would think online has more hurting souls than any of us will ever know, or if we're one will ever let on. I'm not gonna lie I have gone through periods like this (looking at the outside only) and after the season passes say "what was that about". There's no way I actually would have gone the long haul with only a play thing. I think all of us (if looking) really do want the real thing, but today it is so turned around that we get pretty confused by the smell of sex, let me also throw in there the smell of things. We have become an outside people. We talk to someone and are sizing them up the whole time to see if they fit that physical wish list. I think that's fun actually but I also think that it blinds us (me) to something perhaps even more sexy and appealing, "something real". I have enjoyed my "something reals" far more than the looks thing. I say that but was married to two bombshells. I think, I hope age has cured that, or at least bent it, but when I am out with one of my girlfriends I still see that outside samplingman trying to push that guy who cares about the inside beauty out of the way. I actually do say to myself "you are blind" at times even now, but I know deep inside that it's the inner beauty that is the only thing I can truly live with long term. Maybe I shouldn't say inner beauty but "real beauty". BTW, what is good looking anyway? Isn't that all a taste thing? I don't think it's so much about lust, but don't you have to be physically attracted to someone in order to sleep with them? For a man there are different answers here. The "lust factor" for a guy is a driving force that can cloud his judgement. Some guys have more control over this than others. For example, we've all seen the bar scene. Last calls come and the guys are on the prowl by the door. Don't think that they are there for much else than... you guessed it lol. I don't want to speak for women cause I'm not one nor do I have their same drive, but I have seen the guy thing in action and not only at bars but in many situations. It's not so much about looks at that point at all, but more the need to be satisfied. If a woman catches a guy (sorry for the language) thinking with the right head she is bound to find a man who thinks of her in the relationship possible way or with respect. With the other head, and the guy is thinking more to satisfy a longing of lust. Guys will commonly use the first as a cover up to get to the second and there are guys who live with the lust factor in charge their whole life. These are guys who really don't know how to separate the two and there are tons of guys like this. I hate to say it but maybe most guys. Their carrying side is like bait on the end of the string as they are thinking about the feeling of getting the booty. This is when you see a lot of these guys act like they are interested till they get the satisfaction filled then somehow turn cold and distant. Your wanting to get closer and he is thinking about getting out of there. It's like a switch goes off in his head that even he doesn't understand. He was even in his own mind very interested but somehow along with the love juice so did his commitment go for taking things further. A lot of times a woman at that point will throw herself in front of the guy to pull him back in but his emotions have already left the building and the woman becomes at that point an object of momment lust instead of a partnered building block of togetherness. Hey, women are the same way so we can't put all this on guys, but it shouldn't be covered up either cause there are many girls out there thinking of their man as someone who loves them with a different type of love than what the guy actually has on his mind. No offense, but I have a short attention span, ie. I'm too lazy to read all that. Do you agree that you have to find someone attractive in order to sleep with them or not? No offense back at you LOL but I think both I and the answer I give is more complicated than a quick answer. The bad michael has slept with women, the caring michael doesn't sleep with women. Hopefully I have been on the side of the caring michael most of my life. To be honest I have had sex with both, women who I was attracted to and women who happened to be there while I was in a selfish state of mind. BTW attraction and looks are way too different things. |
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Okay, I was curious enough to read it all....so basically [some] guys will bang anything just to get off? I've had other guys tell me that, I think it's a bit sad, but whatever works....
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Okay, I was curious enough to read it all....so basically [some] guys will bang anything just to get off? I've had other guys tell me that, I think it's a bit sad, but whatever works.... Yep, it's not only sad but very confusing for those who really want something with substance in their lives. |
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Okay, I was curious enough to read it all....so basically [some] guys will bang anything just to get off? I've had other guys tell me that, I think it's a bit sad, but whatever works.... 
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Sounds so primitive and gross....
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