would anyone be with someone just because you have kids together

maybe

NO. I have a child. We tried to stay together 4 her, but it didn't
work. We decided that our daughter would be happier with us apart
instead of us staying together and fighting all the time.

make for an unhappy home and make you feel very lonely

yea well what if the person was very special to you

depends on the person and what is going on with the whole deal.

well i dont want to be with this person but what about the well being of
my son

still be kind of detatched wouldnt it.but a person has to do as they
feel all you are doing is hearing other peoples thoughts

People stay together from a fear of being lonely. To
be that is not a reason to take with anyone. Learn to
over come your fears and you can take on anything that
life throws your way.

yea

I WOULD NEVER TRY TO BE WITH SOME JUST CAUSE I HAVE KIDS WITH THEM. IF
IAM WITH ANYONE ITS CAUSE I REALY CARE AND LOVE THEM.
MOST CASES ARE THAT IF YOU ARE WITH SOME ONE JUST CAUSE YOU HAVE KIDS
TOGETHER IT WILL HURT EVERYBODY MORE THAN IT WOULD THAN IT WOULD NOT
BEING TOGETHER

most of the time it is a bad thing to stay together! the kids dont need
2 c their parents fighting and what not.

YES, I DID. BUT THEN IT GOT TO THE POINT WHERE SHE WAS LETTING OUR KIDS
GO, FOOD, CHANGING THEM, HOUSE, LAUNDRY, AND I FILED FOR DIVORCE AND
CUSTIDY OF MY TWO BOYS, THEN MY LAWYER TOLD ME I HAD TO PROVE HER UN-FIT
AND STILL NO COURT WOULD GRANT ME CUSTIDY WITH MY JOB OF TRUCKING. SO I
LOST MY KIDS TO HER IN COURT. THAT DEAR LADY, TOOK MY SOUL THAT DAY.

hmmmmmmmmm , so if someone like me got on here and said i was married
for 11 yrs and then found out she was screwing someone else , so i got
the divorced , and i gave her everything so our three kids would have a
roof over their heads . neither of us moved out and she quit the other
dude . she finally moved out , 19 years after we were divorced and the
kids are all grown . the kids are doing great , well, except our younger
son . after 18 months in iraq he was home less than a year and got
killed on his harley . but the kids liked having us both around , and i
think it was good for them !

i was a trucker , too . i was an owner /operator and was only home a
couple of times a month . that's probably why it worked for me ..

SORRY ABOUT YOUR SON. BUT I BET HE KNEW BOTH OF YOUR LOVE FOR HIM. AND
IN MY BOOK YOU HUNG IT OUT FOR THE RIGHT REASON'S, AS LONG AS IT WAS'NT
A FIGHT NIGHT EVERY NIGHT? BEEN THERE, DONE THAT, AND LEFT IT. BY THE
WAY, MY TWO BOYS WERE GRANTED CUSTIDY TO ME TWO YEARS AFTER THAT
DIVORCE, AND I RAISED THEM AND A LITTLE GIRL,(THAT IS MY LITTLE GIRL)NOT
BIRTH, BUT IN HEART. MY X THE MOMMY SHE WAS'NT ASKED ME TO TAKE-EM AFTER
ALL THE COURT B/S. I SAID OK, AND THAT WAS THAT. I LOVED EVERY MINUTE
OF IT AND WOULD RAISE EM ALL AGAIN BY MY SELF IF I COULD.

I WOULD BE WITH A GIRL CUS WE HAD KIDS TO GETHER I WANT KIDS SOME DAY

hell naw...for what..its hard out here in the world but y hold on to
something u dont want to be wit..if thats the case.....quote...if in
doubt..THROW IT OUT !!!!