Yes I'v through joys and disappointments of love once before. But now m falling for a girl who is already in a relationship..she is playing her part too :)..though I m afraid of this love now, but whenevr we see each other we both are not able to maintain distance..I can't decide wat to do now..we both get confused sometimes..help us out!thanks..

Well, what do you want from your new female friend? It's as simple as that. Don't tell her what you think she wants to hear, just because it sounds all rose-tinted or sugar-coated. Just be real about it. If you're struggling with your feelings when you see her, then that tells you what you need to know. Go for it, or don't. If she wants you, she'll leave the other guy to be with you, but for now, she is still with him. I don't condone affairs. If I was you, I'd meet more women, so that I wasn't having time to be upset about someone who is already taken. If you mess with taken people, that's your own fault. I remember almost slapping a taxi driver because he tried it with me. Just be careful what you wish for.

If she cheats on her dude to be with you who's to say she won't do the same to you. It'll always be in the back of your head its not worth it.

"Can a man go on hot coal and his feet go unhurt? So is everyone that goes after another man's wife or partner;whosoever goes near her shall NOT be innocent"

How can we answer that question with that little information?
I mean, does she have children with her partner --> stay away from her!
Is it an arranged marriage instead of love relationship --> possibly makes her susceptible to infatuation

Would you also feel this way if she'd been available, or is it the 'forbidden fruit' that intrigues you?

I'd say leave her alone. Why ruin a relationship, possibly a family, for what is likely nothing more than infatuation.

No shezn't married..nor they hv ny kids..may b u r right..I don't wnna ruin their relationship..bt its just that she comes to me every nw and then to spend some time..often she starts saying she likes me.holds my hands..so for hw long I can hold back myslf..me too hv a heart to feel n sense..

In that case I definitely would stay away from her.
- If she was serious about her relationship, she wouldn't do this
- If she was serious about you, she would leave her partner.
Sounds like she's playing both her partner and you.

Thanks..I respect ur words!

No worries
Good luck

May be a few wrds u said were okay..but m not that taxi driver and you are not that girl..I'v kissed those hands..!

Your playing with fire. In love with someone already in a relationship. Cmon.
You should back off from that and try seeing single girls. Nothing good.will come of this. Disaster waiting to happen.

Ya m feeling the heat of that..may b I shouldn't b walking on that way..else its gonna break me into pieces..