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Topic: Average body type
Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Mon 10/14/13 05:40 PM
As for judgement, read the thread again. It's full of it ... Maybe that's because it started off that way Crystal... Right, so that's why you make it into a tit for tat game now? How mature ... If you feel it's that wrong, why be judgmental yourself? Practice what you preach or don't preach at all. I don't think anyone is here for the "competition" or play tit for tat, the outwit game. It just comes across a little weird that someone would go through different profiles and judge other people based on their choice of descriptive words for their own profile. Leigh is not judging you, everyone is entitled to their own perspective it's not about tit for tat. Your original statement just comes across a bit harsh. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Average does vary in different areas. Where I live, false ddd breast and size 3 waist are considered average because it's what most people have around here. It's just variations.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Mon 10/14/13 05:45 PM
I not sure why some of the ladies jumped all over CrystalFairy. I am sure she did not mean any disrespect, she is generally very fair minded. To me, because I am a newer member than most, this subject is not old so I do not mind chatting about it. I have not viewed most of the older topics. I think most on here are correct when they say it is according to what each person considers average. Lets change from body type to shoe size. I wear a size 8 shoe. Now to me that is an average size but when I was in Hawaii my shoe size was considered big. Well of course nothing about me was "average" there. Quite a few locals are of Asian persuasion so course their shoes size is smaller. There I was truly a minority. Color of my skin and of course my body type. When I ventured to where there is more of a American Somoan population on the island, then I would be considered small. I don't get why anyone would just browse through random profiles and then judge their own proclamations. That doesn't make sense. Especially because photos never really portray the person correctly. Everyone on this website judges profiles by their proclamations. I don't, and I'm on this website. In fact many people don't. My profile is mostly blank anyways to avoid such judgmental people. Oh I understand, most people are in denial and are not honest with themselves well good luck with that. If you're wishing others good luck, then that's very kind of you. I am confident in my body all my profile pics are legit. I have nothing to hide. I'm just not sure who died and left CF in charge of monitoring everyone else profiles.

charleneftmyers Joined Thu 10/03/13 Posts: 29	Mon 10/14/13 07:24 PM
I put average down for my body type and I am a size 6-8. I do not consider by body as athletic or skinny. I do no know what people consider as average either. Lol. What is the going rate for average nowadays? you are skinny average is 11 12 . 14 is plus size. N yea crystal us fat girls thats me would love that choose rather than heavy set. I post truth so the guys time is not wasted cause just a pic of face doesnt show body.

JohnDavidDavid Joined Tue 08/13/13 Posts: 334	Mon 10/14/13 07:38 PM
Why lie about your body type. It will be discovered and personally if you lie in your profile, then I think the trust issue has been severed. I am looking for honesty myself. Exactly. If "the person inside" is willing to deceive others by claiming to be what they are not, that speaks volumes about their lack of integrity. How would lying about body type differ from lying about age, height, education or occupation?

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Mon 10/14/13 07:50 PM
I picked 'Athletic' for mine, because I'm thin, but not anorexic. I'm kind of stocky, and tall. So that was the closest description there was.

charleneftmyers Joined Thu 10/03/13 Posts: 29	Mon 10/14/13 07:52 PM
Why lie about your body type. It will be discovered and personally if you lie in your profile, then I think the trust issue has been severed. I am looking for honesty myself. Exactly. If "the person inside" is willing to deceive others by claiming to be what they are not, that speaks volumes about their lack of integrity. How would lying about body type differ from lying about age, height, education or occupation? yep your right david. Im fat so i put heavyset. Dont want to waste guys time with incorrect info n waste my time either. This way they know right off the bat.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Mon 10/14/13 07:59 PM
Weight shouldn't even have to be an issue in the dating world. We already went through that bs at school, in our teens. Why are grown-up's still acting like that? I'll never know

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Mon 10/14/13 07:59 PM
i wanted to pick "who cares?,i'm just here to see boobs" but they don't have that option

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Mon 10/14/13 08:05 PM
Weight shouldn't even have to be an issue in the dating world. We already went through that bs at school, in our teens. Why are grown-up's still acting like that? I'll never know

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Mon 10/14/13 08:06 PM
i wanted to pick "who cares?,i'm just here to see boobs" but they don't have that option I know, why can't there be a who cares button, if you're that shallow get off my profile button! Lol.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 10/14/13 08:11 PM
i wanted to pick "who cares?,i'm just here to see boobs" but they don't have that option What a coincidence, I wanted to pick bosomy for my body type, but that wasn't an option either!

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 10/14/13 08:15 PM
Weight shouldn't even have to be an issue in the dating world. We already went through that bs at school, in our teens. Why are grown-up's still acting like that? I'll never know We have a winner!!

JohnDavidDavid Joined Tue 08/13/13 Posts: 334	Mon 10/14/13 08:34 PM Edited by JohnDavidDavid on Mon 10/14/13 08:35 PM
Weight shouldn't even have to be an issue in the dating world. We already went through that bs at school, in our teens. Why are grown-up's still acting like that? I'll never know By that reasoning height, age, physical condition, facial or head hair, etc "should not be an issue" because "grownups" value only "��the person inside."�� Right? Would anyone care to say that appearance is NOT a consideration in dating / mating? If that was true, photos would be irrelevant (rather than all-but-necessary). Edited to correct quotation marks

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 10/14/13 09:13 PM
Weight shouldn't even have to be an issue in the dating world. We already went through that bs at school, in our teens. Why are grown-up's still acting like that? I'll never know By that reasoning height, age, physical condition, facial or head hair, etc "should not be an issue" because "grownups" value only "��the person inside."�� Right? Would anyone care to say that appearance is NOT a consideration in dating / mating? If that was true, photos would be irrelevant (rather than all-but-necessary). Edited to correct quotation marks Good point. I have read many threads here saying how important physical attraction is.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 10/14/13 09:44 PM
As for judgement, read the thread again. It's full of it ... Maybe that's because it started off that way Crystal... Right, so that's why you make it into a tit for tat game now? How mature ... If you feel it's that wrong, why be judgmental yourself? Practice what you preach or don't preach at all. You started off by being judgmental and are surprised you're getting the same treatment? Next time, try taking your own advice and you probably won't receive as many comments you don't like.

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Tue 10/15/13 04:27 AM
Look at Marilyn Monroe, she wore a size 16 and everyone thought she was beautiful. Did anyone think she was fat? No, they loved her even back then. The media has really messed with peoples mind on what size we should be. People have different body sizes so it is hard to say that each person can only weigh this much or they should say they are over weight. I think each person has to judge on their own what they put and if they decide to go out with someone, IF that person does not like them...don't date them again. I mean, do we go by a size that we wear? Do we go by weight? Or wouldn't it be nice if we could go by how big our hearts were? Some times you have to think outside of the box and get to know someone..LOOKS FADE BUT THE HEART CONTINUES TO GROW! I AM WHO I AM..IF YOU DON'T LIKE ME...DON'T ASK ME OUT!!! PLAIN AND SIMPLE!!!

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 10/15/13 07:03 AM
Weight shouldn't even have to be an issue in the dating world. We already went through that bs at school, in our teens. Why are grown-up's still acting like that? I'll never know By that reasoning height, age, physical condition, facial or head hair, etc "should not be an issue" because "grownups" value only "��the person inside."�� Right? Would anyone care to say that appearance is NOT a consideration in dating / mating? If that was true, photos would be irrelevant (rather than all-but-necessary). Edited to correct quotation marks YES I will say that. It is ok to have a preference, but it should Not be a consideration. Looks are only skin deep. What happens if you fall in love with a beauty and a fire, or an accident, or illness changes their looks completely? Then what , you going to run for the hill? Don't forget ,you don't fall in love with someone before dating them first. Skin ,only covers what's inside a person and that won't change. Also Just because somebody puts something on their profile you see differently does not mean they are lying. It means you do not agree with what they wrote.

BettyB Joined Tue 01/29/08 Posts: 31912	Tue 10/15/13 07:04 AM
Look at Marilyn Monroe, she wore a size 16 and everyone thought she was beautiful. Did anyone think she was fat? No, they loved her even back then. The media has really messed with peoples mind on what size we should be. People have different body sizes so it is hard to say that each person can only weigh this much or they should say they are over weight. I think each person has to judge on their own what they put and if they decide to go out with someone, IF that person does not like them...don't date them again. I mean, do we go by a size that we wear? Do we go by weight? Or wouldn't it be nice if we could go by how big our hearts were? Some times you have to think outside of the box and get to know someone..LOOKS FADE BUT THE HEART CONTINUES TO GROW! I AM WHO I AM..IF YOU DON'T LIKE ME...DON'T ASK ME OUT!!! PLAIN AND SIMPLE!!! Right on:

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Tue 10/15/13 07:46 AM
Weight shouldn't even have to be an issue in the dating world. We already went through that bs at school, in our teens. Why are grown-up's still acting like that? I'll never know By that reasoning height, age, physical condition, facial or head hair, etc "should not be an issue" because "grownups" value only "��the person inside."�� Right? Would anyone care to say that appearance is NOT a consideration in dating / mating? If that was true, photos would be irrelevant (rather than all-but-necessary). Edited to correct quotation marks JohnDavid, since you describe yourself as a 72 year old lifetime fitness enthusiast, it's understandable that things like body weight, BMI, and active lifestyle are considerations for you...I'll bet there are many slender, fit women who would consider your attitude shallow and unattractive too ...This is an adult dating site....Hopefully members can read and comprehend profiles well enough to determine if they want to make contact...Anyone who takes issue with my description of "ME" or calls me a liar without meeting me first can kiss my slender little rump!....

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 10/15/13 09:07 AM
Weight shouldn't even have to be an issue in the dating world. We already went through that bs at school, in our teens. Why are grown-up's still acting like that? I'll never know By that reasoning height, age, physical condition, facial or head hair, etc "should not be an issue" because "grownups" value only "��the person inside."�� Right? Would anyone care to say that appearance is NOT a consideration in dating / mating? If that was true, photos would be irrelevant (rather than all-but-necessary). Edited to correct quotation marks JohnDavid, since you describe yourself as a 72 year old lifetime fitness enthusiast, it's understandable that things like body weight, BMI, and active lifestyle are considerations for you...I'll bet there are many slender, fit women who would consider your attitude shallow and unattractive too ...This is an adult dating site....Hopefully members can read and comprehend profiles well enough to determine if they want to make contact...Anyone who takes issue with my description of "ME" or calls me a liar without meeting me first can kiss my slender little rump!.... I think the only point John was making is that people in general judge a person by the way they look whether its body type or their looks. Let's be honest here; people are attracted by how you look and care less about your personality. We live in a shallow society and although we call ourselves adults; we still think like teenagers when it comes to looks.