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So, most everyone nowadays says they don't play games etc. yet aren't these unwritten rules nothing but games of assumption? I don't want to appear desperate! I don't want her/him to think I don't have a social life! What's the point? I mean, seriously! Who are we kidding? I say go by your gut feel! What does your instincts tell you? You are either interested in having a conversation or not! That's all it is - a conversation that could go well or not! What do we have to lose? Isn't it worth a few minutes of your time to see if there is a connection? I say put the silliness away and go with your intuition or gut feel!  It'd be great if everyone thought that way. 
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lol
No conceit in some peoples families...  Some of the attitudes in here crack me TFU ! 
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Edited by
Candiapples
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Wed 10/09/13 04:53 PM
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I don't think waiting a few days is playing a game at all. It gives you time to analyze the situation, some like myself are more cautious,its better than rushing in and finding out you or her are not really interested or have anything in common to me that is playing games. Be who you are, but I have to admit there have been times I called the first day. I would assume that by the time you give out your number or ask for one that you would have already concluded that you are interested. Where does this "analysing the situation" come from? |
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Edited by
alookat101
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Wed 10/09/13 05:14 PM
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The last time I got a phone number from a female was about a year ago. So me being me waited a few days before I attempt to make that first call and somehow misplaced that phone number., well if you so happen to pass a man waiting at a bus stop after the bus has gone pass please don't call the police on me I'm just hoping that the person in question happens to be on that next bus.
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I don't have a set amount of time but I usually wait a couple of days so I don't seem desperate or to see if she really wanted me to call and I hate to admit it but to let being nervous die down a bit. I will ask when they plan to call..if they wait a day or 2 I will assume they aren't too interested and probably won't bother with them again. I'm just not interested in playing this game. well as long as you bothered with me once
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A bit  but how many of you have called someone for the first time and in mid conversation..he or she says " hang on, I have another call" Bye Bye buddy { clickkk ] Yeah but she has a vagina and I only have a left hand, and the right hand does not count as a strange piece...she does 
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A bit but how many of you have called someone for the first time and in mid conversation..he or she says " hang on, I have another call" Bye Bye buddy { clickkk ] Yeah but she has a vagina and I only have a left hand, and the right hand does not count as a strange piece...she does I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry at this....  
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I don't think waiting a few days is playing a game at all. It gives you time to analyze the situation, some like myself are more cautious,its better than rushing in and finding out you or her are not really interested or have anything in common to me that is playing games. Be who you are, but I have to admit there have been times I called the first day. I would assume that by the time you give out your number or ask for one that you would have already concluded that you are interested. Where does this "analysing the situation" come from? Because when the pricks in the air..The brains are in the ground..so the initial contact DOES NOT COUNT,so we need a retake, it's like a mulligan,so we have to regroup,and this is where the thinking process comes in. I personally don't need much thinking time away from her,just about 4-7 min like any good ol' fashion strangulation . I do my best thinking about woman right after self- abuse class right jack?,you tell 'em..lol
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A bit but how many of you have called someone for the first time and in mid conversation..he or she says " hang on, I have another call" Bye Bye buddy { clickkk ] Yeah but she has a vagina and I only have a left hand, and the right hand does not count as a strange piece...she does I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry at this.... well I Wouldn't feel to sorry,today I have a right hand left hand a strange and a nother Right and left hand and I'm texting 
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A bit but how many of you have called someone for the first time and in mid conversation..he or she says " hang on, I have another call" Bye Bye buddy { clickkk ] Yeah but she has a vagina and I only have a left hand, and the right hand does not count as a strange piece...she does I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry at this.... well I Wouldn't feel to sorry,today I have a right hand left hand a strange and a nother Right and left hand and I'm texting [sighs!} |
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Sometimes I really wish I hadn't left my ex husband. These dating rules and games suck
Guess his last words to me "the grass isn't always greener on the other side" makes sense now Nuff said |
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I think "rules" just get in the way. It's okay to have boundaries, though, but of course, that's different. I even think to hell with what my family think, because I'm here to enjoy myself before I die. I get so fed up of "Oh you should do this!". Just go for it if you feel it's right. You don't have to explain anything. Why should you? If nobody likes it, they can go jump. I never read those dating articles. I think they're full of it. lol. I'm not saying this to sound like a rebel, but I think those rules need throwing away, to be fair.
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A bit but how many of you have called someone for the first time and in mid conversation..he or she says " hang on, I have another call" Bye Bye buddy { clickkk ] Ha ha ha haaaaaaaaa.. Waaaaaaaauuuuuuuuweeeeeee... |
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Sometimes I really wish I hadn't left my ex husband. These dating rules and games suck Guess his last words to me "the grass isn't always greener on the other side" makes sense now Nuff said your bumed the last couple of days, and the "when's a good time to die" thread ??? Depressing! mess. If you like to talk I can give $130 so you can talk to someone...no ,you can talk to me, Mr Pony  |
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I don't think waiting a few days is playing a game at all. It gives you time to analyze the situation, some like myself are more cautious,its better than rushing in and finding out you or her are not really interested or have anything in common to me that is playing games. Be who you are, but I have to admit there have been times I called the first day. I would assume that by the time you give out your number or ask for one that you would have already concluded that you are interested. Where does this "analysing the situation" come from? I think analysing is not the right word I should have used.I have worked in the restaurant and lounge biz for 20 yrs and have seen tons of people give their numbers out sometimes several times a night then regret it later. I have worked with waitresses that have had to change their numbers because of unwanted calls. I never wanted to be in that category so I'm a little cautious because I don't want to bother someone. For myself I would never give my number unless I was interested but candi apples there are a lot of players and game players out there so its making sure that the person really wants you to call.Thats why I don't go to lounges and bars and look for women because of those situations. If it was someone who was genuine then of course I would call and really that nervous feeling is what its all about.Sometimes I just try to make sure I get it sorted out before my number is on someones caller ID 
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I think "rules" just get in the way. It's okay to have boundaries, though, but of course, that's different. I even think to hell with what my family think, because I'm here to enjoy myself before I die. I get so fed up of "Oh you should do this!". Just go for it if you feel it's right. You don't have to explain anything. Why should you? If nobody likes it, they can go jump. I never read those dating articles. I think they're full of it. lol. I'm not saying this to sound like a rebel, but I think those rules need throwing away, to be fair. You may not be a rebel but I am. I do what I want and what I feel is right. I have always stepped out of the box and refuse to be a drone that follows rules that our society has made. |
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