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| Topic: I met a womanizer last saturday's night | |
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Don't really get it. You say you realized he was a womanizer and yet you spent the entire night with him??? Gave him your phone number, you even flirted with him, even though you knew he was a womanizer, and then tried to avoid him. And now you're oh so concerned about his girlfriend? And in your last sentence you find it necessary to point out that you look so much better than his girlfriend? Sorry, find your story somewhat weird. Sounds to me you simply let him get to you, you fell for his stories, then later on you found out he had a girlfriend. And even then, why go to the extend of trying to find help for this girl, even here at Mingle? Maybe it's me, but this all feels somewhat funky Let me clear up ur doubts then 1. The last sentence nt tryin to put her down cz I dnt think girls with more meat unattractive, same goes to girls with lighter hair color or wear makeup, cz I do wear makeup sometimes..jst tryna say he told me the type of girl he wants completely opposite of his gf,because he tryna sweet talk me..perhaps when he's with the gf he'd say the opposite like I dislike girl as thin as stick..u get me? 2. When I say throughout the night doesn't mean the entire night, jst tryna emphasized throughout the 3hrs convo( I think frm 10pm-1am)he kept talkin wht girls want to hear.. 3. As to why I gave him my number, because although he seemed insane but he's not stupid,he acted normal in the beginnin,so I gav my number..and I dnt see anythin wrong givin off numbers to strangers cz I can always block them..my phone is always in silent mode and I dnt pick calls, jst my habit(weird?) 4. And about flirt and then avoid..am bored most of the time,thts the main reason I joined this site.. So when he texts me and am free I'll reply sth like 'yes baby of course I miss u but I cnt meet u today am workin or am with my friend or blah blah blah..and yes I always hv excuse, and I won't text him first,if he tired of textin me let it be.. And lastly about helpin the girl out, she askd wht happened between me and him, I said nothing, we aint an item, then she questioned why I called him baby, she wanna know how we met and wht we did,so I told her everythin,and asked her to google'how to spot a womanizer', then last night she kept callin me,sayin she's sad,she even hit the wall with her head..and am not tryin to get help frm mingle,cz u can only help urself which is move on.. Postin here to see if anyone here has come across sth similar..its more abt sharing stories and encourage whoever been hurt Excuse my english, never really had a proper english class..sorry |
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He sounds like a waste of space. You seem too nice to deserve a pig like that. Glad you didn't stick around. You made a good decision to leave in the long run ;) A lot guys try it with their charm and sweet talk. It's how they get into your pants. Watch out for guys who want to be your "rescuer" or overly-nice types. A guy can act like a carer if you let him, but it's creepy selfish behaviour. Case in point, sickly-sweet men make run a mile, because they try too hard. I'm very obvious when I'm attracted to anyone. So I don't need to almost kill myself trying to win feelings. Be wary of charm.
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Edited by
Simonedemidova
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Sun 09/22/13 03:40 PM
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Who doesn't like compliments. It's possible to enjoy company before realizing someone is a pig. Womanizers are professionals so I can see how Cheryline gave him a chance. I mean one night....I'm dumb enough to stick around all year until I find out I've been cheated on, some guys have a way with words.
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I'm questioning this, I mean if you realized he was a womanizer right away, why in the world would you give him your real phone number? 
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I don't question it, women who ar overconfident usually get hurt the worse. At least she realized right away.
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Maybe there is something lost in translation here, because here is what I am getting.
I met a tall, handsome guy, he is not insane, he talked to me for over 3 hours, telling me how I was opposite of his girlfriend and flattering me, I gave him my phone number, and we still text, and when he does text I call him baby and flirt with him, but I don't meet with him, I also have texted his girl friend and she wants to know what is up between me and him, but I told she should google womanizer and break up with him, but I will continue to reply to his text's and flirt with him because I am bored. Honestly it sounds like you are smitten with this guy, want him to break up with his girlfriend, and then maybe something may happen between you to. |
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Who doesn't like compliments. It's possible to enjoy company before realizing someone is a pig. Womanizers are professionals so I can see how Cheryline gave him a chance. I mean one night....I'm dumb enough to stick around all year until I find out I've been cheated on, some guys have a way with words. True. A guy led me on for 4 months, acting like a nice guy and then we met up again (we knew each other from school) and he turned out to be a freaking psychotic. |
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He sounds like a waste of space. You seem too nice to deserve a pig like that. Glad you didn't stick around. You made a good decision to leave in the long run ;) A lot guys try it with their charm and sweet talk. It's how they get into your pants. Watch out for guys who want to be your "rescuer" or overly-nice types. A guy can act like a carer if you let him, but it's creepy selfish behaviour. Case in point, sickly-sweet men make run a mile, because they try too hard. I'm very obvious when I'm attracted to anyone. So I don't need to almost kill myself trying to win feelings. Be wary of charm. This again. Just sounds to me when women come out with this that they have serious trust issues or low self esteem. It isn't a crime to want to be nice to a woman or try to help her. Also, I'm failing to see what this little rant actually has to do with the topic. |
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Am sorry hon, many men just respond to the touch of the moment, hope it dsnt affect u
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Maybe there is something lost in translation here, because here is what I am getting. I met a tall, handsome guy, he is not insane, he talked to me for over 3 hours, telling me how I was opposite of his girlfriend and flattering me, I gave him my phone number, and we still text, and when he does text I call him baby and flirt with him, but I don't meet with him, I also have texted his girl friend and she wants to know what is up between me and him, but I told she should google womanizer and break up with him, but I will continue to reply to his text's and flirt with him because I am bored. Honestly it sounds like you are smitten with this guy, want him to break up with his girlfriend, and then maybe something may happen between you to. Perhaps I need to elaborate more But anyway its like this, before his gf called, I still replied cz I was bored but I never want to meet him again..and am not tryna manipulate the gf into breaking up, jst telling her everything the guy told me and suspected he's a womanizer so suggested she could look up the terms, as I never came across this term until my ex cheated on me, I always thought he's some kind of psycho,becz when sth is blue color and ur know its blue, somehow he would manipulate ur mind into believing its orange(jst an example),they have a way in convincin you..when I talked more with the guy in tht 3 hours convo, he sounded a lot like my ex, same style, same pattern same scripts..so jst wanted her to beware and see the signs herself and also the stories ppl shared..then she said she did a lot for him, but refused to tell me more jst said nothing to do with sex.. My intention was pure, jst shared with her my story and tryna help her before she falls even deeper..moreover he confessed to her he's been chasing girls and hving cam sex recently, he cried and was clueless why he acted this way, its a lame excuse to me..and the funniest part is they live together but most of the time the man stays in hotel, his excuse was he wanted to explore different hotels and because she's working he goes alone, and its crazy because the hotels and house are not far away.. I realized am being too nosy, its her life after all, so gonna stop this topic..sorry everyone |
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He sounds like a waste of space. You seem too nice to deserve a pig like that. Glad you didn't stick around. You made a good decision to leave in the long run ;) A lot guys try it with their charm and sweet talk. It's how they get into your pants. Watch out for guys who want to be your "rescuer" or overly-nice types. A guy can act like a carer if you let him, but it's creepy selfish behaviour. Case in point, sickly-sweet men make run a mile, because they try too hard. I'm very obvious when I'm attracted to anyone. So I don't need to almost kill myself trying to win feelings. Be wary of charm. This again. Just sounds to me when women come out with this that they have serious trust issues or low self esteem. It isn't a crime to want to be nice to a woman or try to help her. Also, I'm failing to see what this little rant actually has to do with the topic. True it isn't a crime to be nice, but its unethical to try to lull, cajole, and con a woman to achieve what u want |
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Edited by
Cheryline22
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Mon 09/23/13 07:35 PM
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A lot of you wonder why the hell you still talk to him if you knw he's a player in the 1st place..
Ppl react differently in the same scenario, eg, when u receive a call tht uve won sth and u need to bank in some amount to retrieve ur prize, some ppl will fall into the trap, some ppl reckon this as scam business and walk off right away, while some ppl knw they are conman yet play along ask questions and waste their time as if they're interested but never do as they ask..these kind of ppl hv ntg better to do and am one of them lol.. |
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Who doesn't like compliments. It's possible to enjoy company before realizing someone is a pig. Womanizers are professionals so I can see how Cheryline gave him a chance. I mean one night....I'm dumb enough to stick around all year until I find out I've been cheated on, some guys have a way with words. True. A guy led me on for 4 months, acting like a nice guy and then we met up again (we knew each other from school) and he turned out to be a freaking psychotic. Yikes, well we all make mistakes, and hopefully learn from them, I am trying to rectify my errors of dating by making stricter decisions... It's hard, because on one hand you want to meet someone, but on the other you don't want to trust anyone. |
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