Topic: PUZZLING
sugerGUY's photo
Sat 09/21/13 10:09 AM
People think the truth repels so they lie to attract.

Case study: seminars!

navygirl's photo
Sat 09/21/13 10:13 AM
Guess that is why I repel so many men, don't believe in lies.

no photo
Sat 09/21/13 10:13 AM
Absolutley right on target but I changed that tradition with my profile.

Simonedemidova's photo
Sat 09/21/13 10:18 AM
Edited by Simonedemidova on Sat 09/21/13 10:20 AM
Some people are not prepared for the truth and some things are nobodies business.

Having said that though, saying you have kids or that you are not a smoker when you are, those types of lies bug me. I saying you go to church all time or whatever, things that are relevant to a daily life and interaction are important facts to be discussed in a relationship.

pinktearosepetal's photo
Sat 09/21/13 10:39 AM

Guess that is why I repel so many men, don't believe in lies.


Can totally relate but won't change the one I end up with will want a woman that will say it like it is

sugerGUY's photo
Sat 09/21/13 02:09 PM

Guess that is why I repel so many men, don't believe in lies.

but if u continue in this vain dont u think ull end up chasing awt the good ones also ?

motowndowntown's photo
Sat 09/21/13 03:25 PM
People lie to get something the truth won't get them.

NotScience's photo
Sat 09/21/13 03:27 PM
I've ran into that a lot online but not at all with people who I met in person.

Simonedemidova's photo
Sat 09/21/13 03:38 PM
Edited by Simonedemidova on Sat 09/21/13 03:39 PM
I think many people lie to your face in person. They are afraid of confrontation.

no photo
Sat 09/21/13 03:53 PM

People think the truth repels so they lie to attract.

Case study: seminars!

The truth attracts the right one who will love you for who you are. Unless you want to attarct a lie. There is somebody for everyone..Be Real!!

navygirl's photo
Sat 09/21/13 05:56 PM


Guess that is why I repel so many men, don't believe in lies.

but if u continue in this vain dont u think ull end up chasing awt the good ones also ?


If the good ones can't deal with the truth; then that is their problem. Not going to compromise who I am. I am not that desperate that I feel the need to lie to have someone in my life.

Randomideas's photo
Sun 09/22/13 01:41 AM
Edited by Randomideas on Sun 09/22/13 01:41 AM
i dont use a different persona to attract anyone. and i feel the same as the ladies above ..im going to be myself .. and either someone will aprreciate it or not .. why would you tell a lie to someone you hope to perhaps meet and have a relationship with??


no photo
Fri 11/01/13 04:31 AM
I find it's easier to hide behind a computer,never once in all the time I've been here have I actually met anyone,2 no show's and the rest stayed hidden behind the computer.

seasider69's photo
Fri 11/01/13 04:55 AM
I prefer dealing with hurtful truths than finding out lies - and in my experience they usually do get found out. I'm also a hopeless liar even if it is done to save pain. I'm very trusting - some call it gullible...

no photo
Fri 11/01/13 12:42 PM

People lie to get something the truth won't get them.


But then eventually, those lies will catch up with them. It's hard to remember a lie. Unless you're a good story teller, then heck knows. Only person they're fooling is themselves.

smithjlo's photo
Sun 11/03/13 11:45 PM
I hate lies and am sure every gud person don't like it either....let's us be more truthful to one and other, lies has no gud ending, bt hell off humiliations....