Of course its totally understandable for us humans to crave 4 quick-fixes as opposed 2 takin d traditional, much slower route of bangin against d wall, making mistakes, learnin 4rm dose mistakes, analyzin wot went wrong, refinin & sharpenin dose skills to mastery.

But the reality of it is, whether u like it or not, mistakes are Essential to acceleratin ur learnin process. As long as ur tryin sumtin new, as long as ur doin sumtin u've never done b4 der wil always be a possibility 4 u 2 fumble nd make mistakes. U might get nervous, u might say d wrong tins, dis is wer most pple beat demselves up bt understand dat d reality is dat its ok.

Mistakes happen as ur out ov ur comfort zone. Its an annoyingly uncomfortable feelin at first, bt dats exactly how u expand ur horizons nd grow. Dats how we humans grow. A MUST!...no shortcuts. However, it kills our egos, it burns our confidence, it shakes our self-bliev, it sucks d life out ov ur, d energy inside ur, it makes us feel useless, powerless. .bt u knw wot? Der are NO mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, ar necessary in order to learn wot we nid 2 learn; woteva steps we take, dey're necessary to reach the places we've choosen to go.

TWO THINGS
1. Understand dat no xperience cums labelled. Ur d labeler. The power to choose is urz! Do u complain dat roses av thorns? Or do u rejoice dat thorns av roses? U av d ability 2 choose ur reactions. All too often, dese decisions to label ar nt done conciously nd ur internal dialog wil slap on a negative label. U must b aware ov dis nd change it immediately. Realizin ur ability is awesome power nd a great step 2wards success upon takin control, u cn select empowerin labels in place ov d negative ones. U ar in control ov d experience!

2. Avoid blamin urself 4 makin mistakes. The road 2 success is always under construction. Evry mornin we awake 2 a day we av never xperienced. Mistakes wil b made nd obstacles wil appear. U av no control over dese events bt u av control over hw u react 2 dem. It is important dat we 4giv ourselves 4 makin mistakes. We nid 2 learn 4rm our errors nd move on. It is wen we hurt dat we learn. The power 2 choose hw much we learn. The power 2 choose hw we react. Do u see a stumblin block or a steppin-stone? U decide. Remember: pain nourishes ur courage. U av 2 fail in order 2 practise bein brave.

Think about it.
If u dnt make mistakes, u dnt make anything.

Maybe you should look into purchasing a dictionary, and stuff... ,mmkay?

jinks,, well said...!!!!! i hope you and your daughter are doing great......after you told me your story,,i said a prayer for you gals.............wishing you well...........

Thank you, and yes we are okay. :-) She is my miracle baby. Lol

Eeeeeish,you can say that again!!!!!

I got a headache just before I got through the first paragraph!!

I need your name and address.

That way I can sue if the advice backfires.

might pass on that address to Mister Webster as well!

Only a fool learns from his own mistakes. The wise man learns from the mistakes of others.

Otto von Bismarck

I try follow this as best as I can these days!

DITTO!!!!

Hahahaha

Oh the irony ...

Mistakes are most likely bad choices ! You may learn from that mistake , You may even do that same mistake again ??? But you can always relate to others better. with True Sincerity , Emotion ,Connection ,Empathy and Understanding .
Use that knowlede and experiemce

Mistakes are most likely bad choices ! You may learn from that mistake , You may even do that same mistake again ??? But you can always relate to others better. with True Sincerity , Emotion ,Connection ,Empathy and Understanding .
Use your knowlede and experience to relate or offer substanciated advice !