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Topic: Apparently 30% of the Men AND WOMEN on single's dating sites
MumzLuvMe's photo
Tue 09/17/13 02:29 AM
Apparently 30% of the Men AND WOMEN on single's dating sites were actually attached and lying about their status. I decided not to be one of them because I believe women can handle to the truth if your upfront. Am I right? Hopefully you can respect me for my honesty. I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, and the decision wasn't taken lightly... but anyway, here i am! A black guy in a long term relationship looking for that perfect longterm affair - does it exist? Hey Ladies Hope your well , I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, but anyway here i am! Hopefully the females reading this that would think " you dirty rat" have skipped on to another page by now and I'm left with women who at least want to hear me out! I live happily together on the outside with one child. Inside - I am missing something or should that be someone. The passion, affection and romance has gone and I would like some of that injected back into my life. I work hard and don't get as much time as I would like to play hard. But if a woman were to offer me good reasons to play, I would certainly make the time. Very confident, happy go lucky and I have a very sharp mind - it's not easy to pull the wool over my eyes*winks* and to be honest you won't need too as im very non judgemental. I am a lover of many things - museums, theatre, cinema, books, music concerts. Too much to list and a little bit boring - ask me about those things and we have something to talk about. Open minded and very adventurous - I like pushing boundaries and discovering new experiences. I would like to speak to someone in a similar situation or someone who understands. It's some of your time and company that I would like, to enjoy each other. To laugh together,to talk, to kiss, to cuddle, to play and enjoy - am sure you get the picture... It doesn't have to heavy but If all you are after is great s _x and nothing more, we won't be on the same wavelength. I want the great s _ x and can definitely give it, but I want the other feelings also. I want to share new experiences with a woman (for me or you) and you need to be adventurous and sensual like me. Lastly, but importantly - If you are a married or attached woman please understand that while you might need to be need to be dishonest about using this site to your spouse, there is no need to lie to your lover - I will be your lie. Honesty and truth with me please. UPDATE: PLEASE!!! Only message me if you can deal with fact that I cant always get back to your messages straight away. Although i am in a "boring relationship" I do have a life and sometimes it gets a lil busy. I cant spend hours at time on here and if you can....we might not be compatible. Thanks in advance xx

BrianLovesGuitar's photo
Tue 09/17/13 03:14 AM
Dude is this for real?

If it is, I feel sorry for your partner. She seems to be missing a lot of attributes.....begs the question why, if its so bad, your still there.....

metalwing's photo
Tue 09/17/13 04:03 AM
Edited by metalwing on Tue 09/17/13 04:04 AM
If you are not happy at home, why don't you change the situation?

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Tue 09/17/13 05:30 AM

Apparently 30% of the Men AND WOMEN on single's dating sites were actually attached and lying about their status. I decided not to be one of them because I believe women can handle to the truth if your upfront. Am I right? Hopefully you can respect me for my honesty. I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, and the decision wasn't taken lightly... but anyway, here i am! A black guy in a long term relationship looking for that perfect longterm affair - does it exist? Hey Ladies Hope your well , I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, but anyway here i am! Hopefully the females reading this that would think " you dirty rat" have skipped on to another page by now and I'm left with women who at least want to hear me out! I live happily together on the outside with one child. Inside - I am missing something or should that be someone. The passion, affection and romance has gone and I would like some of that injected back into my life. I work hard and don't get as much time as I would like to play hard. But if a woman were to offer me good reasons to play, I would certainly make the time. Very confident, happy go lucky and I have a very sharp mind - it's not easy to pull the wool over my eyes*winks* and to be honest you won't need too as im very non judgemental. I am a lover of many things - museums, theatre, cinema, books, music concerts. Too much to list and a little bit boring - ask me about those things and we have something to talk about. Open minded and very adventurous - I like pushing boundaries and discovering new experiences. I would like to speak to someone in a similar situation or someone who understands. It's some of your time and company that I would like, to enjoy each other. To laugh together,to talk, to kiss, to cuddle, to play and enjoy - am sure you get the picture... It doesn't have to heavy but If all you are after is great s _x and nothing more, we won't be on the same wavelength. I want the great s _ x and can definitely give it, but I want the other feelings also. I want to share new experiences with a woman (for me or you) and you need to be adventurous and sensual like me. Lastly, but importantly - If you are a married or attached woman please understand that while you might need to be need to be dishonest about using this site to your spouse, there is no need to lie to your lover - I will be your lie. Honesty and truth with me please. UPDATE: PLEASE!!! Only message me if you can deal with fact that I cant always get back to your messages straight away. Although i am in a "boring relationship" I do have a life and sometimes it gets a lil busy. I cant spend hours at time on here and if you can....we might not be compatible. Thanks in advance xx


What a crock of chit....You want an affair that is based on honesty!...hahahahahahahahahahaha.....

Conrad_73's photo
Tue 09/17/13 07:07 AM

Apparently 30% of the Men AND WOMEN on single's dating sites were actually attached and lying about their status. I decided not to be one of them because I believe women can handle to the truth if your upfront. Am I right? Hopefully you can respect me for my honesty. I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, and the decision wasn't taken lightly... but anyway, here i am! A black guy in a long term relationship looking for that perfect longterm affair - does it exist? Hey Ladies Hope your well , I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, but anyway here i am! Hopefully the females reading this that would think " you dirty rat" have skipped on to another page by now and I'm left with women who at least want to hear me out! I live happily together on the outside with one child. Inside - I am missing something or should that be someone. The passion, affection and romance has gone and I would like some of that injected back into my life. I work hard and don't get as much time as I would like to play hard. But if a woman were to offer me good reasons to play, I would certainly make the time. Very confident, happy go lucky and I have a very sharp mind - it's not easy to pull the wool over my eyes*winks* and to be honest you won't need too as im very non judgemental. I am a lover of many things - museums, theatre, cinema, books, music concerts. Too much to list and a little bit boring - ask me about those things and we have something to talk about. Open minded and very adventurous - I like pushing boundaries and discovering new experiences. I would like to speak to someone in a similar situation or someone who understands. It's some of your time and company that I would like, to enjoy each other. To laugh together,to talk, to kiss, to cuddle, to play and enjoy - am sure you get the picture... It doesn't have to heavy but If all you are after is great s _x and nothing more, we won't be on the same wavelength. I want the great s _ x and can definitely give it, but I want the other feelings also. I want to share new experiences with a woman (for me or you) and you need to be adventurous and sensual like me. Lastly, but importantly - If you are a married or attached woman please understand that while you might need to be need to be dishonest about using this site to your spouse, there is no need to lie to your lover - I will be your lie. Honesty and truth with me please. UPDATE: PLEASE!!! Only message me if you can deal with fact that I cant always get back to your messages straight away. Although i am in a "boring relationship" I do have a life and sometimes it gets a lil busy. I cant spend hours at time on here and if you can....we might not be compatible. Thanks in advance xx

Honest,because you tell you Marks Upfront not to expect much?
What about the Wife,does she know?

loovedoove's photo
Tue 09/17/13 07:17 AM
I know I am late to this discussion but I just joined this site a few days ago with optimistic hopes. Well this post certainly blows my mind. Now I know there are many people in the world who think exactly the same way and this situation is really sad, smhnoway

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Tue 09/17/13 07:25 AM

I know I am late to this discussion but I just joined this site a few days ago with optimistic hopes. Well this post certainly blows my mind. Now I know there are many people in the world who think exactly the same way and this situation is really sad, smhnoway


Don't let one rotten apple spoil the barrel:tongue: ....Welcome to Mingle!!flowerforyou ...You'll find many good people right here in the forums!:wink:

crushane's photo
Tue 09/17/13 07:32 AM
Well the challenge is up to u to decide whether that person is honest or not,.. you could always ask and everything will fall unto ur judgement whether he/she is lying,.. :smile:

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Tue 09/17/13 07:40 AM

Apparently 30% of the Men AND WOMEN on single's dating sites were actually attached and lying about their status. I decided not to be one of them because I believe women can handle to the truth if your upfront. Am I right? Hopefully you can respect me for my honesty. I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, and the decision wasn't taken lightly... but anyway, here i am! A black guy in a long term relationship looking for that perfect longterm affair - does it exist? Hey Ladies Hope your well , I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, but anyway here i am! Hopefully the females reading this that would think " you dirty rat" have skipped on to another page by now and I'm left with women who at least want to hear me out! I live happily together on the outside with one child. Inside - I am missing something or should that be someone. The passion, affection and romance has gone and I would like some of that injected back into my life. I work hard and don't get as much time as I would like to play hard. But if a woman were to offer me good reasons to play, I would certainly make the time. Very confident, happy go lucky and I have a very sharp mind - it's not easy to pull the wool over my eyes*winks* and to be honest you won't need too as im very non judgemental. I am a lover of many things - museums, theatre, cinema, books, music concerts. Too much to list and a little bit boring - ask me about those things and we have something to talk about. Open minded and very adventurous - I like pushing boundaries and discovering new experiences. I would like to speak to someone in a similar situation or someone who understands. It's some of your time and company that I would like, to enjoy each other. To laugh together,to talk, to kiss, to cuddle, to play and enjoy - am sure you get the picture... It doesn't have to heavy but If all you are after is great s _x and nothing more, we won't be on the same wavelength. I want the great s _ x and can definitely give it, but I want the other feelings also. I want to share new experiences with a woman (for me or you) and you need to be adventurous and sensual like me. Lastly, but importantly - If you are a married or attached woman please understand that while you might need to be need to be dishonest about using this site to your spouse, there is no need to lie to your lover - I will be your lie. Honesty and truth with me please. UPDATE: PLEASE!!! Only message me if you can deal with fact that I cant always get back to your messages straight away. Although i am in a "boring relationship" I do have a life and sometimes it gets a lil busy. I cant spend hours at time on here and if you can....we might not be compatible. Thanks in advance xx
hopefully some day you'll get what you deserve....and I'm not talking about a long term affair.

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Tue 09/17/13 07:45 AM


Apparently 30% of the Men AND WOMEN on single's dating sites were actually attached and lying about their status. I decided not to be one of them because I believe women can handle to the truth if your upfront. Am I right? Hopefully you can respect me for my honesty. I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, and the decision wasn't taken lightly... but anyway, here i am! A black guy in a long term relationship looking for that perfect longterm affair - does it exist? Hey Ladies Hope your well , I never thought that i would ever sign up for this, but anyway here i am! Hopefully the females reading this that would think " you dirty rat" have skipped on to another page by now and I'm left with women who at least want to hear me out! I live happily together on the outside with one child. Inside - I am missing something or should that be someone. The passion, affection and romance has gone and I would like some of that injected back into my life. I work hard and don't get as much time as I would like to play hard. But if a woman were to offer me good reasons to play, I would certainly make the time. Very confident, happy go lucky and I have a very sharp mind - it's not easy to pull the wool over my eyes*winks* and to be honest you won't need too as im very non judgemental. I am a lover of many things - museums, theatre, cinema, books, music concerts. Too much to list and a little bit boring - ask me about those things and we have something to talk about. Open minded and very adventurous - I like pushing boundaries and discovering new experiences. I would like to speak to someone in a similar situation or someone who understands. It's some of your time and company that I would like, to enjoy each other. To laugh together,to talk, to kiss, to cuddle, to play and enjoy - am sure you get the picture... It doesn't have to heavy but If all you are after is great s _x and nothing more, we won't be on the same wavelength. I want the great s _ x and can definitely give it, but I want the other feelings also. I want to share new experiences with a woman (for me or you) and you need to be adventurous and sensual like me. Lastly, but importantly - If you are a married or attached woman please understand that while you might need to be need to be dishonest about using this site to your spouse, there is no need to lie to your lover - I will be your lie. Honesty and truth with me please. UPDATE: PLEASE!!! Only message me if you can deal with fact that I cant always get back to your messages straight away. Although i am in a "boring relationship" I do have a life and sometimes it gets a lil busy. I cant spend hours at time on here and if you can....we might not be compatible. Thanks in advance xx
hopefully some day you'll get what you deserve....and I'm not talking about a long term affair.


From the sounds of it, he IS getting what he deserves!laugh

krupa's photo
Tue 09/17/13 08:55 AM
Honesty in reguards to cheating....

Fair enough...you seem to think it is ok to do another woman while in a relation ship...

Lets put the upper hand on the other foot...

Answer this question honestly ...

Suppose you come home from a hard days work and you kiss your woman ....and her breath tastes like another mans penis...

Are you cool with that?

soufiehere's photo
Tue 09/17/13 10:04 AM

Suppose you come home from a hard days work and you kiss your woman ....and her breath tastes like another mans penis...

Are you cool with that?

And you know how that tastes, how?

highleaf75's photo
Tue 09/17/13 10:12 AM
rofl

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Tue 09/17/13 10:34 AM
It takes all kinds..aren't people interesting!!

loovedoove's photo
Tue 09/17/13 10:39 AM
Thank you I appreciate the welcome.

markdigitale's photo
Tue 09/17/13 10:41 AM
Honesty and truth are never bad, but sometimes painful, good luck.

markdigitale's photo
Tue 09/17/13 10:43 AM
Yes, as long as you aren't smitten, then it will hurt, but early on ...?

soufiehere's photo
Tue 09/17/13 10:47 AM
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krupa's photo
Tue 09/17/13 01:06 PM


Suppose you come home from a hard days work and you kiss your woman ....and her breath tastes like another mans penis...

Are you cool with that?

And you know how that tastes, how?


Well...it don't taste like my penis so obviously, it must taste ike another man's penis.

Just like kissing a woman who got tuna breath...with no tuna can in the trash...she been muff diving.


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Tue 09/17/13 01:44 PM
GROSS @

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