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| Topic: DEFINITION OF A GREAT GUY PLEASE | |
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A great guy to me is a man with an open mind towards new things, lets me be me, as opposed to trying to change me or tie me down, encourages me to grow and develop and to do the things I want to do (but maybe feel awkward about doing), has insight in the human psyche (including his own and mine, has a number of same interests but also his own things in life (no clingy, claiming man please!). No religious fanatic, into spirituality or interested in it. Empathetic and he definitely needs to have a healthy sex drive.
He needs to be full of life, with a spark in his eye. (Don't need a man that looks/feels/acts like the best part of his life is in his past.) And contrary to what others say: I do NOT want him to be more into me than into him. I do NOT want to be the center of his universe. I don't think that's particularly healthy at all. Yes, I want him to love me, he should want to be with me, and if he occasionally reveres me, I can live with that, lol. But I do not want to be his whole life. Would freak me out! |
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See,I'd rather not ''fight'' for his attention with himself...been there!!
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Yes Newbychick I totally agree with that. Don't want anything by force myself. That has to come from his heart and soul and if it doesn't come from there, there's no point.
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Yes Newbychick I totally agree with that. Don't want anything by force myself. That has to come from his heart and soul and if it doesn't come from there, there's no point. Word!!!!! 
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First I would like to say I do understand this question was directed to the Ladies. But in good form I will attempt to help the other guys having problems figuring this out...First she is first, do not say some thing if it is not true no matter how small the lie it is still a lie. Next never make her feel like she is a bother in any way...she is your partner. Show her intimacy daily, and I don't mean sexual stuff, I mean suttle touching and soft kisses, don't rush everything let them have the ranges some time...Women want some one to take care of but at the same time they want some one that can take care of them and it is not all about money. A lady on a date site is either trying to find that one part of a man they need in their own lives or they are looking for a real friend and lover. And any woman that is looking for a man for the wrong reasons will never find him, and if you the man looking for real love, if you want her to be even interested in you then just be real, speak from your heart and no matter what never settle till you fine her and for her the same , Mr. and Mrs. right now, can and will cause you to miss real love so either give 100 % to your new partner or let them move on to happiness and stop wasting your time.
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First I would like to say I do understand this question was directed to the Ladies. But in good form I will attempt to help the other guys having problems figuring this out...First she is first, do not say some thing if it is not true no matter how small the lie it is still a lie. Next never make her feel like she is a bother in any way...she is your partner. Show her intimacy daily, and I don't mean sexual stuff, I mean suttle touching and soft kisses, don't rush everything let them have the ranges some time...Women want some one to take care of but at the same time they want some one that can take care of them and it is not all about money. A lady on a date site is either trying to find that one part of a man they need in their own lives or they are looking for a real friend and lover. And any woman that is looking for a man for the wrong reasons will never find him, and if you the man looking for real love, if you want her to be even interested in you then just be real, speak from your heart and no matter what never settle till you fine her and for her the same , Mr. and Mrs. right now, can and will cause you to miss real love so either give 100 % to your new partner or let them move on to happiness and stop wasting your time. ImortalKnight you have an excellent grasp of what a woman would consider a great guy to be. Extremely well put, not only in words but in understanding. Thanks for joining in. I hope other men see your comments and learn from what you've said. For any other men who would like to join in the discussion are more than welcome. 
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I know im not the best guy, but who is? Im working on it though!
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<------------- there ya have it.
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Well...he really likes penis...he knows all the good moisturizers. He can recite all the dialogue from "Will & Grace "..his house is very well decorated and his dog has a small pink chiffon sweater...and he loves white wine........
Oh crap... Did you say "great guy "or "gay guy "? |
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Great guy, Krupa, Great guy. Keep it focused guy. Give some good advice for guys. FAST!
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A great guy to me is a man with an open mind towards new things, lets me be me, as opposed to trying to change me or tie me down, encourages me to grow and develop and to do the things I want to do (but maybe feel awkward about doing), has insight in the human psyche (including his own and mine, has a number of same interests but also his own things in life (no clingy, claiming man please!). No religious fanatic, into spirituality or interested in it. Empathetic and he definitely needs to have a healthy sex drive. He needs to be full of life, with a spark in his eye. (Don't need a man that looks/feels/acts like the best part of his life is in his past.) And contrary to what others say: I do NOT want him to be more into me than into him. I do NOT want to be the center of his universe. I don't think that's particularly healthy at all. Yes, I want him to love me, he should want to be with me, and if he occasionally reveres me, I can live with that, lol. But I do not want to be his whole life. Would freak me out! YEAH!.....what she said! |
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Great guy, Krupa, Great guy. Keep it focused guy. Give some good advice for guys. FAST! Don't do your woman wrong. If Mama ain't happy...ain't no one happy. It's biblical. |
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be honest ladies.y'all like guys that are rich and in their death bed
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be honest ladies.y'all like guys that are rich and in their death bed Had lots of offers from that type, never took one of them up on it. I put no lasting value on material possessions of any kind. Those things come and go. Give me substance and character any day of the week and twice on Monday--oh, guess what today is? |
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