Is it possible later in life to still find your soulmate,, when your looking for same sex,, and is it possible to find that kind of true connected longlasting love relationship on a dating site,, because so far I keep getting guys trying to turn me straight or ask me do I want a threesome or I get ladies asking me to teach them how to be with a woman,,, frustrating when all I'm looking for is true love with the same sex....

I think you can be at any point in your life and meet your soulmate, or at the very least the one you feel is perfect for you and vice versa, whether online or off.

You're going to find those attitudes everywhere you go at some point. Many guys just cannot fathom the idea of a woman not needing their touch. You'll also find those thoughts and attitudes even more prevalent in a place where people can range in anonymity. Just tune it out and move forward and don't let them ruin what makes you happy.

U need Jesus

Kartagane thank you for your kind words,, and wise words,, I take them sincerely,, and thank you sincerely,,ziwi,, I have faith thankyou I need love not jesus my friend,, and matt,, thankyou for your advice and I am on pof mate

Kartagane is a wise owl and we can always count on his thoughtful advise. I couldn't have said it any better.

One suggestion I have is to limit who can send you mail. If you go to "Account", then just below your picture on the left are "edit profile.. edit photos..." Choose "Settings", then "limit who can send you mail". You can choose to only receive mail from women between the ages of... whatever you choose.

Just know that if you initiate contact with a male, they will be able to respond. Otherwise, they cannot bother you.

Have fun, be safe and be happy!

I'm sure if you had one night with me you would have a change of heart. Think about it, lesbians always end up putting on the strap. What does that tell you? For whatever reason they resort to using a substitute. A toy is no substitute for the real thing.

Thankyou so much quizee for your kind words and your advice their much appreciated x

Red6mist,,,in reply to your once again egotistical arrogant biggoted and poop portrayal of lesbians,,, its after having nights with men like you that made me realise for me a hetrosexual relationship would never be for me and sent me sprinting right in to the arms of a woman,, I'm not sure where you get your information from however I feel its probably from too much porn and not enough experience,, being a lesbian is not just about sex,, and we don't all use strapons,, some of us just don't like them or choose them as we've left the male experiences far behind us,, a man has never had the ability to give me the pleasure you so very obviously believe I need,, I've only ever received that pleasure from a woman minus the dildo,, being with a woman has far greater rewards for me and most lesbians, its the difference in love we receive and give,, the emotionality we feel the connection we make the intensity of passion we we feel for eachother,,the empathy understanding tenderness softness and lust,, there is no comparison for myself,, if god gave me the choice to live 10 lives I would choose every life as a lesbian for that is as natural as forilling and as pleasurable as being hetrosexual is for you,, so contrary to tipping the velvet or whatever other porn you watch to get your views and opinions from not all lesbians require a strap on or the real thing,, this does not go to all men as there are many lovely men out there in a majority but for the minority like you red6mist its not your penis they call a dick that's reserved for the person you are.

Pandora and Annyo. I have to admit that you two are really starting to turn me on. I think you would both enjoy taking out your frustrations on me.

Thank you for this insightful explanation! Can I ask a question about that? I'm seriously intrigued by this, being bi-curious (like many women). I'm just going to ask, please don't take it the wrong way, I'm seriously interested, so not taking the p*ss.
I totally understand what you explained and respect you take the time to tell us. But about the sexual side of things, I know that if I'm really really turned on, I want to be, well, to be blunt, filled up. If that wasn't to happen, or would never happen anymore, I'm not sure I would be able to be really satisfied sexually.
Doesn't that work the same way for lesbians? Or is that the difference between hetero and lesbian?
And I don't mean a lesbian could be turned, cos that's a load of BS. Just always been wondering how this particular physical bit works out.
(If you don't want to answer, I totally respect that)

Both are possible...Finding a same sex soulmate might be somewhat harder for you simply because there are less to choose from.....Finding a soulmate on a dating site is not uncommon and I think that would be a good option for you for the very same reason ....If I was a lesbian searching for my soulmate, I would explore every avenue available....Just say thanks. but no thanks to the "boys" and keep you eye on the prize ...Good luck Pandora!

No matter which sexual preference you are, yoi can always find a soulmate. I tend to think though, that we're meant to have a FEW soulmates, as we go through life. As not many stay in that one relationship forever, unless they're lucky.

Red6mist /reply to your msg to pandora about our frustrations , ohh you are so right my dear , I would so love to take out my frustrations on you , the peace loving , kind , caring annjo would leave me whilst I kicked the god damn sh-- out of you omg love to

To red6mist,, in reply to your earlier post to annyjo and myself about being turned on by us and asking do we want to take out uor frustrations on you I couldn't anwser you any better than annyjo did,,,, she expressed both of our opinions of you perfectly,,, your turned on by us god you just turn me off,,, I will not anwser you any further as your a waste of my time,, find yourself a mistress to kick the living **** out of u,,, that's obviously ur bag,,, you vile little slug!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Talk dirty to me baby, I love it.

Hi rawgirl,, thankyou for your comments and yes I hold that view that we have many soulmates,, now I'm just looking for my lover partner soulmate,, fingers crossed lol

Hi crystalfairy,, I appreciate your honesty your comments and your question,, the only thing I can say to you is that being bicurious your already halfway there,, its different for all women no 2 are the same,, for me I find love and lovemaking much more forfilling with another woman,, it isn't the same as being with a man,, both are very different,, a woman can very effectively forfill another woman,, but you have to experience it for yourself and you will understand far better than I could ever explain to you x

Thankyou so much leigh for your kind words and positivity,, I too wish you luck

hmmm perv springs to mind , followed by brain dead idiot