I'd like genuine feedback on my profile and me

You should probably upload a photo that shows your face. The text blurb does a good job of telling us whom you see, and the abs are OK, I guess, but the ladies may want to know a bit more about you before they take the next step of contacting you. You can use the 'blurb' section to tell us what you're like. Showing your sexiest body part is more the kind of thing you'd do if you were looking for an intimate encounter. Activity partners are the kind of people you meet for drinks or a movie. Good luck with that.

So, I don't know if that'll work for you, but from what the ladies tell me, they seem to like seeing your face. So, put on a nice shirt and smile when you snap that picture.

Good luck!

Show your face. If you want to meet a girl, gotta see your eyes...