Topic: 30 and never had a girlfriend
LionTamerY2J's photo
Tue 08/20/13 07:35 AM
Currently 30 years old and have never had a gf..ever. Not sure why I'm so terrible with women, I've tried multiple dating websites, tryed talking to girls at a bar and have not had any luck whatsoever. I like to think of myself as a decent enough guy, I'm not Brad Pitt or anything but I've been told that I'm OK looking. My biggest fear is of being alone the rest of my life...not sure what I need to start doing to change my luck around either.

KinBarrie's photo
Tue 08/20/13 07:41 AM

Currently 30 years old and have never had a gf..ever. Not sure why I'm so terrible with women, I've tried multiple dating websites, tryed talking to girls at a bar and have not had any luck whatsoever. I like to think of myself as a decent enough guy, I'm not Brad Pitt or anything but I've been told that I'm OK looking. My biggest fear is of being alone the rest of my life...not sure what I need to start doing to change my luck around either.


Age is unimportant. Love and chemistry are both the
keys to finding the right mate. Having things in
common doesn't hurt either.

My guess is you're probably not saying the right
things. Are you coming on too strong? Could anxiety
or shyness be hindering you from talking with them?
Could you be trying too hard?


TawtStrat's photo
Tue 08/20/13 08:17 AM
Who told you that you are an alright looking guy? If it was another bloke or your mum it doesn't count but if it was a girl you could have been in there mate.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Tue 08/20/13 08:50 AM
OP, You must think I'm some kind of fool. You put 'No Answer' as your marital status. Nice try. surprised

Winx's photo
Tue 08/20/13 10:19 AM

OP, You must think I'm some kind of fool. You put 'No Answer' as your marital status. Nice try. surprised


Yep, that "No Answer" tells us all we need to know, doesn't it?

no photo
Tue 08/20/13 10:26 AM
I would change that "Marital status" to SINGLE
Because "No answer" leads the ladies to think you are Married !
lol
Never gonna get a GF that way...

drinker

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 08/20/13 10:48 AM
You're really not missing much...I've had a good few girlfriends and still in all likelyhood will end up alone.

It isn't nearly as bad as you make it out to be though, I mean...I can walk around the house naked, "Cook" in the microwave, and eat ice cream for breakfast. If I had a girlfriend I would probably only get to do one of those three, if even one.smokin

LionTamerY2J's photo
Tue 08/20/13 10:59 AM
Edited by LionTamerY2J on Tue 08/20/13 10:59 AM
I put no answer because it doesn't have single as an option..and i've had a few girls tell me that im ok looking, of course the girls that DID already had a boyfriend or was married. I think i'm missing out on quite alot actually, a family, companionship, someone to talk to in general.

Winx's photo
Tue 08/20/13 11:07 AM
"Never married" means "single".