I have never dated a white man, but find them very attractive.I have always been too afraid to approach one and ask him out, so what should I do??

Just be yourself you don't know unless you try : )

I agree with klc, if you are afraid, and I can't see why you should be, then ask yourself why? Most of the time our personal fears turn out to unfounded.

Race is unimportant. You're both human and it's the
way you feel for each other that's important.

No matter what the color of someone's skin is,
love and attraction knows no bounds.

I personally could care less what a skin color
a lady has if I'm attracted to, and like her
personally. Interracial dating in this day
and age should be a non-issue really.

I guess afraid was the wrong word to say,maybe it is the fear of rejection.

Helo dear, just 4get abt d color n walk up to him n tel him "u want to giv him a try"

Eh. Talking to us white boys is easy. If we don't respond, smack us upside the head. That'll get our attention.

Go for it..I don't have any problems myself messaging that yummy dark chocolate

The pig coming outta me

A lot of us fear rejection. I know I did, and
sometimes still do.

Just be positive, be confident and relieve
yourself of the anxiety that need not be there.

Normal for both men and women to feel nervous
or anxious when we want to ask someone out.

Been there a handful of times myself!

-Big word Mr. Kin :)
thE appearance NOT is the basis of LOVe but the heart'... I' agree with your pOint...

Thanks!

Attraction is subjective because everybody
has different tastes. I do believe there
is someone out there for someone else.
Probably more than one. It's finding
the right person that's important.

Love is all, but chemistry also plays
a big part in it as well. God provides
for everyone.

Ya fergot the important part.

It is inevitable that we "mix". I believe this has been the grand scheme of things, all along. Read/watched the news lately? Mysterious diseases have sprung up all over the world, possibly unleashed by global warming. A dramatic rise in the occurence of earthquakes, and the crushing tsunamis spawned by them. Freak storms giving birth to numerous tornadoes. Record weather patterns in geographic areas uncommon for them. Flooding, etc. How can humankind survive?
Could interracial couplings create a SUPER RACE? Notice I DID NOT say, "MASTER race". This is an entirely different, and negative concept. It seems possible that within each race there is embedded certain building blocks to create humans who can survive a world ever-increasing with natural calamities.

So, in sum, just walk up to a white guy you find to be hot and whisper, "Hi, sexy, wanna hook up and save the world?" I hope I'm nearby.

I know this may come across as pessimistic, but even in this day and age, there are still some racist morons out there. Maybe you should keep your eyes peeled for some hot white guys with multi-racial friends. Enduring rejection is one thing. Rejection AND racism may be more traumatic.
As for myself, I would be very flattered, even turned on were a black woman to boldly approach me like that!
I have had some success before approaching a woman by telling myself that for the moment, I will only seek to be friends with her.

OMG how can you bring the falsehood of global warming into inter-racial dating?
Well if you want to date this white guy, you better hurry and ask him before the polar ice melts and we are all killed by a massive flood

Ask him, "Care to join me in working on our race relations?"

I coulda made a lot of money just now...

i always want to marry out of my race.<3

You know thinking about this topic. It really shouldn't be any different than talking to someone of your own skin tone. I know that there are still some people out their with outdated practices about races. However I know for me personally I see everyone on the planet as being "Homo-sapiens" and all the same race. So it really shouldn't matter what color a persons skin is.