Girl, I definitely feel you on that! I often tell the guy that I am greedy, but only for him and if he has that type of request, I am not the one for you, because if I can't please you, than something is wrong with you..

If my man truly love me and satisfy, He never ask any third party.I am NOT Sharing. If women cannot make her man happy,its depend on that woman.

OK this is weird <----- I'm here again lol

No Way...I am selfish and do not share well with other people!!

This thread sounds like the beginnings of a porn movie.

really

the cast seems to be expanding

Indeed. A few more new posts and there can be an orgy scene.

honest to goodness there was actaully a banner add for a Christian dating site in this thread just now when I replied...lol

naughty Christians, I guess

I had sex with a guy once who said he wasn't married. After the sexual encounter,this guy said to me "you should meet my baby's mama a.k.a wife. She would like you." I could not believe the nerve of this guy. Really? Do I look like I am into women? Of course I never called him again. I say hell to the NO on three somes. Besides she wouldn't get anything but a limp dong after I've drained him....

And we have a winner for the "First time the phrase Limp Dong has been uttered on Mingle 2".

Thank you....

Damn girl. I gotta meet a gal like you then. lol The last one didn't cut it. Now, if you can both drain each other out, then that is a good thing. ;)

That's what fantasies are for! Fantasizing with your partner probably goes through a cycle common to those shared between all couples.
A. The couple begins to fantasize in bed together when they make love.
B. This may soon get stale, unless one or both partners are extremely inventive, and especially trusting...a level of trust that can only come w/ time shared together. Then, the woman may call her husband at the office to say in very lewd terms that she had enjoyed herself with the "cable" guy that day. She would have to add a kind of fail-safe to her confession-some tidbit of info that her husband coild easily invalidate, if she just happened to approach him on a bad day at the office w/ her game.
She could say that the local "Giga-connect" cable company had sent a handsome stud to offer her free cable...and a special "premium" service, as well, which of course she "took all he had to offer". There are several clues here that the hubby could follow up on were he to become anxious.
His wife could go on to say she'd tell him all the details in bed that night (another clue her story was just for fun).
A husband who really knew his wife might do something similar.
Couples who actually go through w/ living their fantasies are treading dangerous ground.

It would depend on the level of trust between me and my partner.If it was a fantasy of hers and we were exculsive then I would consider it.My concerns would be the feelings after the fantasy.

Even if it was just that, a fantasy, I'd be very cautious about having a menage a toi. The worst thing is that she might like the other guy more. What that said, I'd say hellz to the no. lol

so how long have u been letting him limp on home....lol

Wow! Well, okay...

Dude was on the down-low.

monifa2...You have such an unhappy look on your face, and I'm concerned about that.
I hope you find what you're looking for.
I console myself when the search for a pleasant counter gets rough by saying that, "When we think we need a lover, all we may really need is a good friend." I believe you'll feel better if you make some good friends here on mingle2. You'll drop any inhibitions you may have, and some nice man will see the real you, and become immediately smitten! Don't give up!

I suppose that one party could resort to bringing in their alter ego to make it a threesome; now it be hoped that it turns into a glee some-threesome ...