BEAUTY IS ONLY SKIN DEEP....
or it doesn't matter what you look like it's your heart that matters!
We've all heard these sayings but be honest, it's only me here ( lol)

Have you EVER dated someone who " most" would call ugly.. but their heart was stunningly beautiful?

I'll admit, I prefer someone with a great heart over someone with a great body! HOWEVER, it is the great body I would look at first.

Still working on this flaw...

It's not a flaw.
It's nature and it's called natural attraction.

yeppers.heart and Love win me over everytime..

The other is a bonus*...

Words of wisdom methinks.

Not really... but I once had a relationship with a man I was not that physically attracted to, though I was attracted to him in many other ways so thought it would still work.

I won't go that route again, because our sex life was not what I felt he deserved. You cannot force yourself to feel physical toward someone no matter how awesome they are.

I'm still trying to get over a guy who was not what I consider "drop dead gorgeous", but his skills in the bedroom makes him the best looking guy in the world

I personally think that it is a combination of the both. Face it it is the initial attraction that attracts you to the person in the first place right.? Personality holds a very important role as well if your personality(pardon me) is for s*** then you are not attractive. I will say this look are not everything. this for me means that you can be physically attractive but have a snotty personality which in turn makes you ugly. @eyemaflirt. this is possible the term blinded by love comes to mind. bc you two had such and emotionally sexually experience you over looked the things you normally wouldn't.

Women are the 8th wonder of the world !
Only number 1 in my book
I like true heart and love
Over drop dead gorgeous...
Besides Everyone is "beautiful"
In their own way...
It is only a matter of perspective

See, this one eyemaflirt, I've heard from many women! I have yet to be so taken with someone's personality that I can make that trip to the bedroom to find out about those skills!

I like looking into my man's eyes.... but if he's bug eyed and bucktooth, that's gonna kill ma sex buzz!

true

for me there has to be SOME kind of chemistry, after all.. beauty is in the eye of the beholder and I don't date guys based on other peoples opinions..

however that said, one guy I met was not at ALL what I first gathered (I didn't find him at ALL attractive) but over time, as I got to know him better, you got it.. I fell for him.. but by then sadly he had found someone else..

so for me.. it's all about getting to know someone on a deeper level first (but bonus if he's appealing )

Welcome back, teebee.

My experience is limited, and I'm not sure what others thought, but they were beautiful to me.

I laugh at most women's profiles because they will talk about how they want a man with heart, who is sensitive, caring, blah, blah, blah. And then when a guy who has all those qualities (and maybe lacking on looks) they will turn him down in favor of the good looking dude who might not have those qualities. I'm sure guys say they want a girl with these qualities too so it is a vicious cycle. People just need to be honest and state that attraction is number one. Because that is what people go for...the attraction.

@ teebee...You misunderstood. He is tall, sexy, & talented. His vibe pierced me deep within my soul from just a touch. I had to find out more. Trust me if you meet someone who touch you in that way, you will not care how they look.....

Thank you honey...great to be back!

And this is my point Goofball..... I think men tend to be more honest about the physical. Most men wouldn't even look at a female if he does not consider her at least cute. Women on the other hand....this does not include women online of course...women feel obligated to at least be nice to someone they aren't attracted to.

Yes, I dated a girl as a senior in high school who was my soul mate. We were just too dumb to know it, if I had married her, I'd probably still be married, happily.

Wow! His vibe pierced you deep! Yes..I misunderstood! I can see why you're upset you let him get away!

[Still working on this flaw...




Yes, I dated a girl as a senior in high school who was my soul mate. We were just too dumb to know it, if I had married her, I'd probably still be married, happily.
Aw. You should call her.


YOU SHOULD !! YOU SHOULD!!!

yes I have ..... and superficiality won the day...lol

seriously, at some level there has to be a certain level of romantic attraction. there were other things also, with both of the guys I am thinking of....morals, attitudes, values, that contributed equally to appearance that lead to a lack of physical attraction. One of them was not even a particularly nice person once I got to know him. but he was always nice to me. he was my watchdog and will always have a special place :)