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Sounds like he's trying to 'politely' break up with u.
Better to let him go. |
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Honestly...it sounds like he's asking for space to evaluate how he feels. You should take the opportunity to sort your feelings too. You said you aren't 1000% either. There are plenty of divorced couples who wish they could go back in time and have this chance that you two have. Im one of them!
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Hey sweetie sorry to sau but just from reading the first two sentences it sounds that he may have found someone else. I know you dont want to believe it because you care so much. Thats understandable but stress from a job would not get in the way of a relationship to be honest i mean ay least to the point of which he is not sure about you and him. The best thing to do is tell him how you feel see whats going on with him. Pay close attention to him as you talk if he interupts you when you are talking and changes the subject its because he not ready for commitment andif he just never want to talk about it and decides to have sex or do something other then talk sorry to say but that is when a man is just using you now im not saying that he is just see for yourself talk. Communication love happiness and honesty are the for keys to a longterm maybe lifetime relationship. Just start off by telling him how you feel.
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Edited by
Duttoneer
on
Thu 08/08/13 01:03 AM
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He seems to me to be honest enough to imply what he does want, a casual relationship, if you want more than that you will need to look elsewhere in my opinion. You seem to me to be looking for a serious relationship, in which case you need to find someone who will be 100% in their feelings and intentions towards you. As others have suggested, break it off before the relationship goes too far down hill, better to part as friends so you could both get back together in the future if that's what you want.
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I really don't think this is about him seeing someone else or wanting to see someone else. Not going to elaborate on that, but I have gotten word that that isn't the case. I do appreciate his honesty, but feel there's still more I don't know. So for now...he can have his space to figure it out. I will just try to be patient for a while until the time comes to have another heart to heart and figure out who wants what and where to go. If it's not another woman, it's a man. I don't know who your source is on the inside, but this is all too familiar to me. The inside source is probably doing him now. Tell him you're done with the relationship. Gauge his reaction from hearing this. He'll either be cool with the break up or fight for the relationship. Either way don't let him break up with you |
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