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Topic: What wuld you do if you love her yet she is not ready to lov
Swetcocumba Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 46	Wed 08/07/13 08:35 AM
You can not make someone love you, in fact IF you keep talking to this girl..you will freak her out. If she is with another guy, that is your answer. That is a good way to get your a$$ kicked or shot!! Find you a woman of your own because even if this woman gave you a chance, she might end up back with the guy she is with now!!! WE LOVE WHO WE LOVE...WE CAN'T HELP IT!!! do you really think so but some girls dont knw what they want Do you really believe that? When it comes to the type of men we want, we know exactly what we want. Just like...do you men know what you want? If you think you can change her mind, I think you are making a mistake! Why would you want her if she is IN love with someone else? what if in a situation she is seen with another fine but to that guy he complain this same thing when he see her with me you got that so,wuld you suggest now that she dosnt lov the other guy and is me she lov,so who dosnt knw what she or he want nw?

Swetcocumba Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 46	Wed 08/07/13 08:35 AM
You can not make someone love you, in fact IF you keep talking to this girl..you will freak her out. If she is with another guy, that is your answer. That is a good way to get your a$$ kicked or shot!! Find you a woman of your own because even if this woman gave you a chance, she might end up back with the guy she is with now!!! WE LOVE WHO WE LOVE...WE CAN'T HELP IT!!! do you really think so but some girls dont knw what they want Do you really believe that? When it comes to the type of men we want, we know exactly what we want. Just like...do you men know what you want? If you think you can change her mind, I think you are making a mistake! Why would you want her if she is IN love with someone else? what if in a situation she is seen with another fine but to that guy he complain this same thing when he see her with me you got that so,wuld you suggest now that she dosnt lov the other guy and is me she lov,so who dosnt knw what she or he want nw?

SimplicityAtItsBest Joined Mon 09/10/12 Posts: 960	Wed 08/07/13 08:57 AM
Wuld you keep her I think that's called kidnapping

Ouizee Joined Sat 08/18/12 Posts: 4080	Wed 08/07/13 09:03 AM
Move on, my friend, move on! She has been very clear that she is NOT ready. It's time to let her go her own way and move on with your life.

scs1833 Joined Wed 07/31/13 Posts: 3	Wed 08/07/13 08:39 PM
Just went through this ,totally sucked ,broke my heart , still haven't fully recovered

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Wed 08/07/13 08:46 PM
Just went through this ,totally sucked ,broke my heart , still haven't fully recovered

Jahslove17 Joined Sun 04/07/13 Posts: 614	Fri 08/09/13 05:57 PM
I totally agree with this. I will give you a very wise saying: I you love (truly) something or someone, set it (he, she) free. If it was yours, it(he, she) will return to you. If not it (he, she) was never yours. I went through this exact problem and I didn't think I could live past the pain it caused me. But I did and the one I loved married someone else and got divorced. He came back to look for me only problem is that when he came back I no longer saw in him what I thought I once saw. We stayed friends, but I would never give him my heart again. Hope this helps. Best Wishes. you said it all